Are most women masochists? What do girls mean when they say they like dominance? What do they expect? Do they like being submissive themselves?

[Jack9949]

I mean some guys are just downright satanic. Whether it be strangulation, slapping the woman or viciously throat fucking her.

Are women turned on by these behaviors? How many of them are truly masochists?

I personally feel no inclination towards these behaviors myself. I would rather stroke my ego and satisfy her feelings by giving her exactly what she needed, when she needed it most 😏

I guess I’m dominant in a more protective and interpersonal way. Is that the generally preferred option?

[TemptedTerry]

I am an actual Dominant, and the power imbalance that works for us is far more mental than physical, in the erotic sense.

You know, Nietzsche insinuated that 'Order and Chaos' reflect 'Men and Women'. A Dominant man can introduce some order in to the chaos of the life of some women. That is exactly how it is with my wife and I.

My wife is a natural submissive. And with that I assumed the Dominant role naturally. I have rules in place for her, and she serves me as I wish. Though that power she has entrusted with me is built on a strong foundation of trust that I will be making decisions that best serve her, as well as myself.

As for the heavy bdsm stuff. That doesn't do a lot for me. And while my wife will endure pain for punishment, she equally doesn't enjoy pain at all. Though she will endure it for my pleasure. Though I can count on one hand the amount of times I have inflicted any pain on her that wasn't a result of punishment.

My wife didn't choose to be a submissive. It is very much part of who she is. And she feels lost without submitting to a trusted man she loves. I did choose to be a Dominant, but that was done out of my love for her.

Outside of a 24/7 D/s relationship, I have found women to be more passive in bed. I am sure there are very real reasons for this, but I honestly think most women draw the line at extreme stuff. Those that choose to engage in it will more than likely have other issues going on driving that need.

That's my 2 cents ;)

[Jack9949]

If they like the extreme stuff were they probably taught to like it? Like abusing as children sort of thing?

[thegirlfromthething]

They like being submissive in the bedroom and they may want a guy to insult them or inflict pain during sex but that doesn’t apply to the rest of the relationship, at least not to that extent. They want him to be dominant in the sense that he protects them and takes the lead but they don’t want him to be overly dominant to the point that he’s abusive or rude.

[Anonymous]

Honestly it depends on the girl. The idea of being dominated is a huge turn on for some girls. It's the feeling of someone taking control and sorta feeling helpless. For every vanilla girl there's gonna be one who wants to get freaky deaky.

[Anonymous]

Umm can answer

[Jack9949]

Answer please?

[Opinion Owner]

I like being sub but also dom with proper rules

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe work up to choking after a few sessions

[Jack9949]

What’s “dom with proper rules”?

[Opinion Owner]

Dominate

[Jack9949]

But what are proper rules?

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever my partner and I decided... Example... Must wear condom... Or no oral 1st time.. or anal after shower