what do you mean by lower your guard?
It takes me a while to trust women. However, a woman who is being nice and patient with me is very attractive to me and that attraction can lead me to trusting her earlier than I normally would. My level of trust determines my level of love for a woman.
you will catch feelings for any girls who is nice to you?
To an extent I would. There are other factors that matter, but being kind to me is one of the fastest way to open the door to my heart.
what if she is someone who is really good looking?
Looks mean almost nothing to me. As humans age beauty fades. I worry more about a woman's heart and brain than her beauty. Beautiful women approach me all the time but most are super shallow and/or stuck up.
lol There is definitely that
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do you mean any girl?
No, just because a girl is nice to me I'm not gonna start getting all obsessed with her. But if a girl I'm into and have flirted with is nice to me it's easier to slip into thinking she is into me too
so if you has a crush on the girl & she's also being nice to you, you will get all obsessed with her?
Obsessed is a strong word. No I would not get obsessed. But I would think I might have a chance with her if she didn't blow me off or shut me down right away
but why though? do you also mean any woman?