If a girl is being nice to you, do you easily catch feelings for her?

[Anonymous]

[PineappledPizza]

There was this one girl who I was not attracted to. Not my type at all. We were friends though. She persisted me real hard. She was always nice. I always ignored her texts, I barely texted her back. I just communicated with her in person. And one day, I was running out of time and she helped me when I needed help. Kind of took over the show and did it for me. She helped me bake something and I felt she cared about me. That kinda melted me. Then I started texting with her and she was forward and expressed low key interest in me. Saying stuff like "it's addicting talking to you". As I got to know her she became the most beautiful girl in the world... Personality truly has a lot of weight...

Also if someone says they're attracted to me, that makes me more attracted to them. Is that normal?

[jgokgotit]

It will definitely help me lower my guard and want to learn more about her.

[Asker]

what do you mean by lower your guard?

[jgokgotit]

It takes me a while to trust women. However, a woman who is being nice and patient with me is very attractive to me and that attraction can lead me to trusting her earlier than I normally would. My level of trust determines my level of love for a woman.

[Asker]

you will catch feelings for any girls who is nice to you?

[jgokgotit]

To an extent I would. There are other factors that matter, but being kind to me is one of the fastest way to open the door to my heart.

[Asker]

what if she is someone who is really good looking?

[jgokgotit]

Looks mean almost nothing to me. As humans age beauty fades. I worry more about a woman's heart and brain than her beauty. Beautiful women approach me all the time but most are super shallow and/or stuck up.

[iseekpinetrees]

Guys just get more intrigued like hmm whys she being nice is she into me? Do i have a chance?

[jgokgotit]

lol There is definitely that

[allenwants2]

Yes if we're compatible I usually express my interest to them before it becomes a fatasy but more often than not because I'm well indowed down there some are like that's to big I'm sorry

[Bad_Man55]

I mean it makes it easier I suppose

[Asker]

do you mean any girl?

[Bad_Man55]

No, just because a girl is nice to me I'm not gonna start getting all obsessed with her. But if a girl I'm into and have flirted with is nice to me it's easier to slip into thinking she is into me too

[Asker]

so if you has a crush on the girl & she's also being nice to you, you will get all obsessed with her?

[Bad_Man55]

Obsessed is a strong word. No I would not get obsessed. But I would think I might have a chance with her if she didn't blow me off or shut me down right away

[MannMitAntworten]

No. I either think she is just nice in general or she wants something. It is usually the latter.

[bklynbadboy1]

No just cause someone is nice to you doesn't mean the like you one a romantic level

[Nachowedgie]

No because I know girls don't want me anyway xD

[Ezequielb]

Pretty much, yes

[Asker]

but why though? do you also mean any woman?

[Ripper_E]

No I don't.