What does it mean if a girl wants to be the big spoon?

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Other night girl I’m talking to said she wants to hold me and pull me close to her and take my hand into hers and basically be big spoon. She asked me to be her little love bug. She’s also older and taller than me and has tattoos and a piercing.

Elocin614 · Accepted Answer

lol shut up and enjoy it! lol I am kidding. It really depends on the relationship. I don't think it means anything, if anything sounds like she might like you and is showing you a softer side (if she is otherwise generally acting tough most the time). For me, I am a busty women and enjoy being the big spoon. lol when sleeping it is very supportive for my back, but I don't think that is the case here. Sounds like she may like ya hon. or just starting too. Best of luck!

glamz091506 · Accepted Answer

As mentioned by someone else, it depends on the relationship the two of you have. Every now and then I enjoy holding my hubs from behind so I can reach forward and stroke him.

Hermes-Paris · Accepted Answer

You want to go through life being the little spoon? Hey Dad. Who's the big spoon you or Mom? When you die they will mark your tombstone " Here lies blah blah blan... Always the little spoon" They will probably stick a little baby spoon in your hands just before they close the coffin. Dood. Cmon. Be the big spoon. You da man bro!

K-I-S-S · Accepted Answer

She probably wants your butt virginity, better start watching youtube tutorials about it while you still have time.

katiebaby44_ · Answer

I love being the big spoon, but my boyfriend is also bigger than me... feels like I’m holding a big grizzly bear lol.
Not sure about her situation tho since she’s taller than you. It may not mean anything other than she wanted to hold you. Ask her why she likes it maybe?

KeiaYamada · Answer

Just means she wants to hold onto you and embrace you, instead of other way around. There is most likely no hidden meaning, and those extra details don't really matter.

Cicero79 · Answer

Me and my ex used to spoon naked after sex. Spooning her during the night usually got me hard again and my erect penis between her butt would get her horny. Always lead to a second round of sex.

Hazelstar99 · Answer

I like being bigger spoon. I've no problem with that. Though I'm not tall.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

What does it mean? It means she wants to be the damn big spoon. That's all!

MillyRivers · Answer

I don't know it probably just means she wants to snuggle? Probably reading to much into it

Not_Average · Answer

It’s not that deep. Maybe she’s just more physically comfortable in that position.

MountAverage · Answer

It means she prefers the position. Why do you feel the need to read more into it than just the obvious?

Gedaria · Answer

Possible she doesn't want a hard sticking her in the back. Or she wants to play with his cock..

Alexa703 · Answer

It mean you’re her Bitch. Just joking it mean she into you.

Anonymous · Answer

Hmmmm I don't know what it means in your case, but I don't mind being the big spoon with my boyfriend, doesn't really mean anything.

TimlovesKristine · Answer

I’ve heard this called “jet pack” I don’t mind when we do this.

Anonymous · Answer

it means she wants to get fucked badly... better get on that

Finchie40 · Answer

She wants you to be her bitch lol

pigoat · Answer

Nothing wrong with changing positions

Lexi_Lous · Answer

Means she likes to hold you, it's okay

Unit1 · Answer

Why think so much into it?

Frust97 · Answer

seems like a good time to me

Waldoe · Answer

big spoon , the one in the back...

QuietRunner · Answer

she just wants to hold you

Anonymous · Answer

Guess you will be pegged tonight.

Glacierspeed · Answer

Who cares?

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