My biggest frustration is that a LOT of women cannot answer a question - a simple question - without a long, winding story, giving new definitions to 5 words, ultimately answering 5 other questions and still not giving the answer to what I asked.
Me: "What time do we need to leave tomorrow?"
Her: [30 minute story about who we will see, who she likes and doesn't like, who was rude to her or is dating this or that person, etc.]
Me: "Great, but what time do we need to leave tomorrow?"
Her: [20 minute story about how things went the last time, why this person should be avoided, that we definitely need to meet that person, and can we stop at this restaurant on the way - oh, and that we're going to have to make extra stops so she can pee.]
Me: [fuming] OK, but WHAT TIME DO WE NEED TO LEAVE TOMORROW?
Her: "Oh, I have no idea. I'll have to call someone to ask."
Me:<Texting me at work, where, by definition, I'm busy.>
Her: "Hey. Are you busy?"
Me: "I'm at work. I'm always busy at work."
Her: "Can I ask you a question?"
[Note: I absolutely HATE when people ask me if they can ask me a question!]
Me: "What's the question?"
Her: "Well, you know how last year..."
... 20 minutes go by...
"... so, that's what I think I'm going to do."
Me: "Okay. I didn't hear a question in there anywhere."
Her: "Okay, so, at work yesterday..."
Me: "Stop. The answer is no. You cannot ask me a question. I'm not sure why, but it seems clear that you can't. I'm busy. Text me in a week or two, when I can see colors other than red again."
Ladies, men do not communicate this way. If we did, most of us would be dead, because we'd have been killed by some machine, run down by a car, crushed by a boulder, or whatever as we waited for someone to tell us a story instead of just saying "Look out!"
When we ask you a question, what we're actually looking for is the specific answer to THAT question - not the answers to some other, loosely related questions, and not a huge story full of irrelevant information. And when you have a question for us, just ASK IT, and use the most concise and clear language possible, and GET TO THE FUCKING POINT.
This is especially true if it's over text, or if we're at work or something else that you know damn well needs our attention. We're busy. We don't have time for the long version. We don't have time for the short version. We have time for the 3-5 word version. So, stop, think, and find the 3-5 most important, most relevant words, and use those. We don't need to know about your friend from work getting a new puppy, or about the menu changes at the coffee shop, or the meme you saw yesterday. We need to know only the MOST important information, in two sentences or less - and less is better.
Men are poor multitaskers, so to be talking to you, we're at a full stop. It's likely that we're holding up other people as well, because people rely on us. So we need you to be concise and specific, and for you to gather as much information as possible BEFORE you contact us, so we can make a decision quickly and get back to what we need to do.
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This isn’t my list, but this is what a lot of guys may find annoying. A lot of these can be true for a lot of men too. Being jealous
spending a lot of money
complaining about how it’s so hard to find good men, but not telling us that their standard is that the man has to be a 10 before anything else
Complaining about bad relationships without even giving good guys (usually mundane) a chance
always asking what’s wrong
wanting to cuddle after sex
being too sensitive
complaining about how they look
Asking for advice and then ignoring it
Trying to be overly cute, trying to get away with obvious bad behavior
Being lazy
Expecting men to provide for everything
Overly friendly with other guys
Talking too much about themselves
Being self-conscious to the point where they doubt everything
Gossiping a little bit too much
Using their assets to use men
Remaining silent even though it’s obvious they are hiding something
Trying to always one up other girls
I feel attacked lol i have many phobias but its uncontrollable me being afraid of fast cars, spiders, cockroaches, clowns, heights, stalkers, horror movies, everything imaginable, and more is beyond my control but i get why it’s annoying it bothers me too💀👩🦯 either wayyyy i would say i hate and am super bothered by fake girls 🐍 ts ts the ones that act sweet but then they talk about u and hate u and trash u ya know? Yes not for me.
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Manipulate men into doing things they can easily do themselves for fear of getting dirty or being seen as un feminine. It’s not that tough to change a tire, mow a lawn, clean a gun, etc.
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“Pick me” girls are really off putting. Putting down other women while trying to gain approval from men is nasty, as well as girls who pretend to be into something for the sake of male attention. Kinda defeats the purpose of finding someone that you’re compatible with.
Another one is girls who try to steal boyfriends. What is the point?Worrying about everything all the time and adding complication and stress to things for no reason. Many cannot compartmentalize and if something is stressing them... it will affect every part of their life. Even when there is nothing they can do about it at that moment... let's say Monday is the earliest they can take any action... instead of putting it in a mental box "I cannot do anything until Monday, I'll deal with it then", they'll stress and be miserable the entire weekend over something they have no control over.
If they are the whiny type... always whining and bemoaning if something doesn't feel good or is achy. It can be unbearable to be around.When they say they are going to do something, and then 10 minutes later, they change their mind; or they will plan something a month out, and you will be all excited to do something with them, and either the day before or day of, they decide to not keep the plans, and do something else..
The biggest thing is when they leave a bad relationship; come to you and cry about how bad they were, and they never want to see that person again; two months later you see then with the person they hated, back into the same routine of them treated her wrong, and her crying about it to you again. This is a viscous cycle; just leave the guy for good, and never go back to him; no matter what he offers!!! It is not worth your sanity or mine!!!I used to do this myself and felt annoyed so I changed myself. Now I don't do this anymore :
1. Catching deep feelings quickly
2. Assuming that they're also loyal, genuinely caring and honest like me
3. Daydreaming and overthinking all day about my crush or the interactions I had.
4. Falling in love with the potential or 'idea of him' rather than actually seeing the reality.a lot of girls seem damn near incapable of genuinely apologizing when they're in the wrong. Or even admitting they were simply wrong. Far more likely to say, on some level that you are at fault for what they did.
And secondly a lot of girls go the other way and apologize for damn near every irrelevant thing, until it actually matters.
But by then they're more likely to say, "I was mad" as a justification for the behavior rather than simply admitting wrong doing and seeking to make amends.
Dudes don't have the same issue anywhere near the degree women do on average.
Part of the way I know I'm speaking to a woman of character is when she can genuinely admit wrong doing and will make it right when she's wrong.Run from accountability and blame men for everything even when it has nothing to do with them, then turn around and demand to be treated "equal" and by equal they always mean better then any one else and have the ground they walk on worshipped while they provide absolutely zero reasons to do so.
Not defining the task in which she is asking her man to do. She will say take the garbage out. But us guys will think ok I got this ill take it out later. Then we sit down and relax and do other things. When we dont do then you get upset we didn't do it fast enough or we put the trash bag at the end of the drive you throw a fit we didn't put it where you wanted. You need to tell us what you exactly need us to do. So we have a chance of doing it right instead of wrong.
Bonus one.
Also you gals expect us guys to be ready yet you take your good ol time to get ready. You expect us to make the reservations to a nice resturant knowing good well your going to take your time. And then when we finally get there were 15 to an hour late and our reservation gets bumped.A lot of behaviors are extremely annoying:
1) Fonzie's syndrome: inability to admit that you were wrong.
2) The inability to get to the point in a dialogue, because when you ask a woman a question how Jesus Christ died, they always have to start from Adam and Eve?
3) The constant attempt at emotional manipulation towards the partner.
4) Eating food from your plate. The worst part is going to a restaurant, she doesn't order anything and then she eats yours.
5) Repeat things like a broken record. You are not at the center of the universe although you think you are. If you have told us something, every time you repeat it, you decrease the probability that it will be done.
6) Talk about other people unknown to you, as if you know them and tell you their problems even if you don't care about them.I know a girl that had been spoiled her whole life, in highschool she would get 500 every month from her dad as allowance. She expects everyone to be just able afford to just be able to afford the most famous hotels. If they couldn't she'd just be like ew you must really have nothing going for you. We've always been great friends, but the way she has no idea of how the world is for almost everyone is quite frustrating.
You say Whats wrong and they nothing. Then you say come on whats wrong and again I get Nothing. Then I say find and walk away. Then I get see you dont care about my feelings. So I come back and ask again (Like A Stupid Man Does) So whats wrong. And I get another nothing. I finely said fine its nothing and leave and she starts crying.
GGGGGGRRRRRR THATS IS FREAKING ANNOYINGWhen they try to tickle where they know me don't want to be tickled. It's a violation of civil rights, the 4th amendement to the constitution, 9th amendemnt, and a bunch of other unwritten rules.
They think it is "training"... maybe it is, but still...Panicking and losing their Sugar Honey Iced Tea over seeing an insect or a spider. Now, if they had a traumatic experience that caused their phobia of insects or arachnids, I could honestly give that a pass.
But really. Girly girls who freak out over a tiny little bug are just plain annoying.Not giving a guy space to love or miss you. I should know because I've been guilty of this.
Giving a guy space makes him think of you more and allows him to feel like he's not pressured. He'll find ways to reach out to you and grab your attention.
Allow a guy to have his space and he'll love you for it.1) Becoming nervous or blushing when coming in contact with a guy
2) Believing that all men are the same (iykyk)
3) The nail drumming thing
4) "I'm so ugly." (Some ladies have low self- esteem, but some of them just do this for attention)
5) Talking about guys and giggling madly
{I have no intentions of offending any ladies out there. Not everyone is the same. These are the things I have personally experienced girls doing. Again, NOT ALL GIRLS!}Girls that go outta their way to be "one of the guys" and brag about how they're not like other girls and don't hang out with girls. Girls that pander to guys. I hate that shit.
“ Pick me girls “ goes out their way to impress guys , not being like “ other girls “ lol. I have no issue what they do if it’s for attention or whatever I just don’t like the comparisons they do or belittling other girls to make themselves feel superior.
When they fake or two faced.. got a neighbor that's like that so I'm cordial but not as close with her as I am with my other neighbors
Pretending that their actions don't have any repercussions, like when girls wear skimpy/sexy clothing and then are annoyed when guys ogle them. Yesterday I saw a girl wearing yoga pants, and she had a fat, jiggly ass where you could see the outline of her panties - surely she dressed provocatively on purpose.
Saying "I'm fine" when they aren't, and expect us to be psychic to figure it out..
Thank God my wife is not like that.The absolute fascination with shoes and purses...🙄.
I actually got out of an argument once a while ago.
My wife was bugging me about something I hadn't done around the house and I picked up a catalog that had come in the mail and was going to throw it away.
She stopped and told me not to throw it away. I gave it to her. She started looking through it. I walked away...😏
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