What's something girls do that's really annoying?

Question

I don't like ones that are prissy or afraid of everything imaginable

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

My biggest frustration is that a LOT of women cannot answer a question - a simple question - without a long, winding story, giving new definitions to 5 words, ultimately answering 5 other questions and still not giving the answer to what I asked.

Me: "What time do we need to leave tomorrow?"
Her: [30 minute story about who we will see, who she likes and doesn't like, who was rude to her or is dating this or that person, etc.]
Me: "Great, but what time do we need to leave tomorrow?"
Her: [20 minute story about how things went the last time, why this person should be avoided, that we definitely need to meet that person, and can we stop at this restaurant on the way - oh, and that we're going to have to make extra stops so she can pee.]
Me: [fuming] OK, but WHAT TIME DO WE NEED TO LEAVE TOMORROW?
Her: "Oh, I have no idea. I'll have to call someone to ask."
Me:

What's something girls do that's really annoying?

<Texting me at work, where, by definition, I'm busy.>

Her: "Hey. Are you busy?"
Me: "I'm at work. I'm always busy at work."
Her: "Can I ask you a question?"
[Note: I absolutely HATE when people ask me if they can ask me a question!]
Me: "What's the question?"
Her: "Well, you know how last year..."
... 20 minutes go by...
"... so, that's what I think I'm going to do."
Me: "Okay. I didn't hear a question in there anywhere."
Her: "Okay, so, at work yesterday..."
Me: "Stop. The answer is no. You cannot ask me a question. I'm not sure why, but it seems clear that you can't. I'm busy. Text me in a week or two, when I can see colors other than red again."

Ladies, men do not communicate this way. If we did, most of us would be dead, because we'd have been killed by some machine, run down by a car, crushed by a boulder, or whatever as we waited for someone to tell us a story instead of just saying "Look out!"

When we ask you a question, what we're actually looking for is the specific answer to THAT question - not the answers to some other, loosely related questions, and not a huge story full of irrelevant information. And when you have a question for us, just ASK IT, and use the most concise and clear language possible, and GET TO THE FUCKING POINT.

This is especially true if it's over text, or if we're at work or something else that you know damn well needs our attention. We're busy. We don't have time for the long version. We don't have time for the short version. We have time for the 3-5 word version. So, stop, think, and find the 3-5 most important, most relevant words, and use those. We don't need to know about your friend from work getting a new puppy, or about the menu changes at the coffee shop, or the meme you saw yesterday. We need to know only the MOST important information, in two sentences or less - and less is better.

Men are poor multitaskers, so to be talking to you, we're at a full stop. It's likely that we're holding up other people as well, because people rely on us. So we need you to be concise and specific, and for you to gather as much information as possible BEFORE you contact us, so we can make a decision quickly and get back to what we need to do.

TheBigGuy9 · Accepted Answer

This isn’t my list, but this is what a lot of guys may find annoying. A lot of these can be true for a lot of men too. Being jealous
spending a lot of money
complaining about how it’s so hard to find good men, but not telling us that their standard is that the man has to be a 10 before anything else
Complaining about bad relationships without even giving good guys (usually mundane) a chance
always asking what’s wrong
wanting to cuddle after sex
being too sensitive
complaining about how they look
Asking for advice and then ignoring it
Trying to be overly cute, trying to get away with obvious bad behavior
Being lazy
Expecting men to provide for everything
Overly friendly with other guys
Talking too much about themselves
Being self-conscious to the point where they doubt everything
Gossiping a little bit too much
Using their assets to use men
Remaining silent even though it’s obvious they are hiding something
Trying to always one up other girls

frenchfriesnoketchup · Accepted Answer

I feel attacked lol i have many phobias but its uncontrollable me being afraid of fast cars, spiders, cockroaches, clowns, heights, stalkers, horror movies, everything imaginable, and more is beyond my control but i get why it’s annoying it bothers me too💀👩‍🦯 either wayyyy i would say i hate and am super bothered by fake girls 🐍 ts ts the ones that act sweet but then they talk about u and hate u and trash u ya know? Yes not for me.

SaoirseS · Accepted Answer

Manipulate men into doing things they can easily do themselves for fear of getting dirty or being seen as un feminine. It’s not that tough to change a tire, mow a lawn, clean a gun, etc.

Sawyerblu · Answer

“Pick me” girls are really off putting. Putting down other women while trying to gain approval from men is nasty, as well as girls who pretend to be into something for the sake of male attention. Kinda defeats the purpose of finding someone that you’re compatible with.

Another one is girls who try to steal boyfriends. What is the point?

Miristheiss · Answer

Worrying about everything all the time and adding complication and stress to things for no reason. Many cannot compartmentalize and if something is stressing them... it will affect every part of their life. Even when there is nothing they can do about it at that moment... let's say Monday is the earliest they can take any action... instead of putting it in a mental box "I cannot do anything until Monday, I'll deal with it then", they'll stress and be miserable the entire weekend over something they have no control over.

If they are the whiny type... always whining and bemoaning if something doesn't feel good or is achy. It can be unbearable to be around.

MasseurDeMojo · Answer

When they say they are going to do something, and then 10 minutes later, they change their mind; or they will plan something a month out, and you will be all excited to do something with them, and either the day before or day of, they decide to not keep the plans, and do something else..

The biggest thing is when they leave a bad relationship; come to you and cry about how bad they were, and they never want to see that person again; two months later you see then with the person they hated, back into the same routine of them treated her wrong, and her crying about it to you again. This is a viscous cycle; just leave the guy for good, and never go back to him; no matter what he offers!!! It is not worth your sanity or mine!!!

Azura_88 · Answer

I used to do this myself and felt annoyed so I changed myself. Now I don't do this anymore :
1. Catching deep feelings quickly
2. Assuming that they're also loyal, genuinely caring and honest like me
3. Daydreaming and overthinking all day about my crush or the interactions I had.
4. Falling in love with the potential or 'idea of him' rather than actually seeing the reality.

rjroy3 · Answer

a lot of girls seem damn near incapable of genuinely apologizing when they're in the wrong. Or even admitting they were simply wrong. Far more likely to say, on some level that you are at fault for what they did.

And secondly a lot of girls go the other way and apologize for damn near every irrelevant thing, until it actually matters.

But by then they're more likely to say, "I was mad" as a justification for the behavior rather than simply admitting wrong doing and seeking to make amends.

Dudes don't have the same issue anywhere near the degree women do on average.

Part of the way I know I'm speaking to a woman of character is when she can genuinely admit wrong doing and will make it right when she's wrong.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Run from accountability and blame men for everything even when it has nothing to do with them, then turn around and demand to be treated "equal" and by equal they always mean better then any one else and have the ground they walk on worshipped while they provide absolutely zero reasons to do so.

SirJohn42 · Answer

Not defining the task in which she is asking her man to do. She will say take the garbage out. But us guys will think ok I got this ill take it out later. Then we sit down and relax and do other things. When we dont do then you get upset we didn't do it fast enough or we put the trash bag at the end of the drive you throw a fit we didn't put it where you wanted. You need to tell us what you exactly need us to do. So we have a chance of doing it right instead of wrong.
Bonus one.
Also you gals expect us guys to be ready yet you take your good ol time to get ready. You expect us to make the reservations to a nice resturant knowing good well your going to take your time. And then when we finally get there were 15 to an hour late and our reservation gets bumped.

ODC2112 · Answer

A lot of behaviors are extremely annoying:
1) Fonzie's syndrome: inability to admit that you were wrong.
2) The inability to get to the point in a dialogue, because when you ask a woman a question how Jesus Christ died, they always have to start from Adam and Eve?
3) The constant attempt at emotional manipulation towards the partner.
4) Eating food from your plate. The worst part is going to a restaurant, she doesn't order anything and then she eats yours.
5) Repeat things like a broken record. You are not at the center of the universe although you think you are. If you have told us something, every time you repeat it, you decrease the probability that it will be done.
6) Talk about other people unknown to you, as if you know them and tell you their problems even if you don't care about them.

TwistedTube · Answer

I know a girl that had been spoiled her whole life, in highschool she would get 500 every month from her dad as allowance. She expects everyone to be just able afford to just be able to afford the most famous hotels. If they couldn't she'd just be like ew you must really have nothing going for you. We've always been great friends, but the way she has no idea of how the world is for almost everyone is quite frustrating.

humanearth · Answer

You say Whats wrong and they nothing. Then you say come on whats wrong and again I get Nothing. Then I say find and walk away. Then I get see you dont care about my feelings. So I come back and ask again (Like A Stupid Man Does) So whats wrong. And I get another nothing. I finely said fine its nothing and leave and she starts crying.

GGGGGGRRRRRR THATS IS FREAKING ANNOYING

lightbulb27 · Answer

When they try to tickle where they know me don't want to be tickled. It's a violation of civil rights, the 4th amendement to the constitution, 9th amendemnt, and a bunch of other unwritten rules.

They think it is "training"... maybe it is, but still...

TomGarand · Answer

Panicking and losing their Sugar Honey Iced Tea over seeing an insect or a spider. Now, if they had a traumatic experience that caused their phobia of insects or arachnids, I could honestly give that a pass.

But really. Girly girls who freak out over a tiny little bug are just plain annoying.

CupofToffee · Answer

Not giving a guy space to love or miss you. I should know because I've been guilty of this.

Giving a guy space makes him think of you more and allows him to feel like he's not pressured. He'll find ways to reach out to you and grab your attention.

Allow a guy to have his space and he'll love you for it.

Arcreactor81 · Answer

1) Becoming nervous or blushing when coming in contact with a guy
2) Believing that all men are the same (iykyk)
3) The nail drumming thing
4) "I'm so ugly." (Some ladies have low self- esteem, but some of them just do this for attention)
5) Talking about guys and giggling madly

{I have no intentions of offending any ladies out there. Not everyone is the same. These are the things I have personally experienced girls doing. Again, NOT ALL GIRLS!}

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Girls that go outta their way to be "one of the guys" and brag about how they're not like other girls and don't hang out with girls. Girls that pander to guys. I hate that shit.

Hannah_le · Answer

“ Pick me girls “ goes out their way to impress guys , not being like “ other girls “ lol. I have no issue what they do if it’s for attention or whatever I just don’t like the comparisons they do or belittling other girls to make themselves feel superior.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

When they fake or two faced.. got a neighbor that's like that so I'm cordial but not as close with her as I am with my other neighbors

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Pretending that their actions don't have any repercussions, like when girls wear skimpy/sexy clothing and then are annoyed when guys ogle them. Yesterday I saw a girl wearing yoga pants, and she had a fat, jiggly ass where you could see the outline of her panties - surely she dressed provocatively on purpose.

Andres77 · Answer

The absolute fascination with shoes and purses...🙄.
I actually got out of an argument once a while ago.
My wife was bugging me about something I hadn't done around the house and I picked up a catalog that had come in the mail and was going to throw it away.
She stopped and told me not to throw it away. I gave it to her. She started looking through it. I walked away...😏

Avicenna · Answer

Communicate with their friends about their relationship when they should be communicating with their partner about it.

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

Lying, conniving, manipulative, slutty, using, I mean seriously those type of women give us ladies a bad rep, pieces of chit 🤬😠✌️

FatherJack · Answer

Like yourself , the " EWWWW " types that are afraid of and grossed out by every fucking little thing , normally combined with a large victim complex. Also , too many expect men to have 100% accurate psychic powers , I am intuitive , but that is beyond me , if you are not fine... say why & be frggin' clear about it !!

worldscolide · Answer

Saying "I'm fine" when they aren't, and expect us to be psychic to figure it out.. Thank God my wife is not like that.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

With the girls I've been with, I've noticed they don't say what they mean many times. I don't like that.

OddBeMe · Answer

Wanting dates to open doors and pay but turn around demanding equality. But that’s an oldie. I’ll stick with bugging me about my dirty clothes while forgetting about the massive mess of beauty products on the bathroom counter.

Oh and never hanging the towels back up to dry. That bitch….

Splatzonelover1 · Answer

Getting anouyied about not be not trust women since they didn't listen to me or guys that just want let alone. Same with girls getting mad that you can't get involved with another girls relationship. Yet they did get involved. See other women has threat to for your relationship.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

"What is yours is mine---and what is mine is mine."

JosyJosy · Answer

When your friend loves a guy and the guy seems to like her back, but she waits for him to make a move.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I feel it’s more common for girls to tell guys about sex with an ex. I don’t mind hearing what they like, but I don’t want to hear about some guys doing graphic things to you if I like you. If you’re just a hookup. Whatever. A hookup showed me the porn she made before we had sex. Lol.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Her going into a place like hobby lobby saying she's not gonna be to long and then comes back like 3 days later all the while your waiting in the parking lot -_-.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

The shit tests. I wouldn’t mind these as much if I had some insight as to how to pass them. My best guess is that the only winning move is not to play the games. Turn it into a joke, brush it off or tell them to knock it off. It’s some sort of way of telling your girl that you aren’t going to let her walk all over you because you think she’s attractive.

Agape93 · Answer

Spending more on makeup and accessories they don’t need, then whining because money’s tight. No dip, that shits expensive and how often do those “proper occasions” actually crop up? Maybe once a year

rebeliouse · Answer

@wowwgirl ones that are high maintenance like u say have issue with everything and totally incapable and ones that just don't understand that sex is a necessity for a guy and relationships are give and take ye we need sex just as much as you need to be cared for!

Paulychicago10 · Answer

The ones that are pretentious, expect everything to be handed to them. I have more, but this is a big red flag for me

Lliam · Answer

I don't like girls who loudly laugh and squeal a lot when the are drunk and with their friends. It's about the most annoying thing I can imagine.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

I'd agree with that. I wouldn't say "I don't like", but maybe that my preference was for someone who is less prissy. I also tend to like people who are more capable than those who seem to not be able to do anything and not want to try.

fonduegirl · Answer

High maintenance ones are annoying.

blondfrog · Answer

I can't even say talking behind other's backs Cause men are doing that now too. Men are starting to become more like women.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It really grinds my gears when they leave the toilet seat down & buy those fucking throw pillows that are everywhere.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Play with their boobs. it’s just wrong. Simply bragging and showing off that they got the sexiest body part,

RingOfFire · Answer

I hate when they keep harping on the same subject over and over again and can't let it go even though they KNOW it is annoying us and we don't want to talk about it.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Ignoring your verbally expressed request that she do (or not do) something while speaking to you in a cutesie voice to try and convince you that her ignoring you is perfectly okay.

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

Some women want to talk all the time or get uncomfortable during long periods or even short periods of silence. Sometimes silence can just be you enjoying their company. Just because I'm quite doesn't mean there's something wrong.

In_Trance · Answer

Filters on pics... very annoying. Also how they posed to get the perfect angle... to appear as something they're not.

beebella · Answer

When they always have something to say the second I step into the room.

yofuknutz · Answer

When U catch them in a lie and either they justify it or they keep on snakin out of it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

When they come home from shopping and start talking about how much money they saved, it is annoying!

Massageman · Answer

Ask me a question and then not hang around for an answer.

NightHawk99 · Answer

Women that play games to test men. The moment I hear from a girl's friends that she's upset over the results of a little emotional game she tried to play with me, I'm going to stop socializing with her entirely.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Always shaking their hair and playing with it! Also when they see a bug they start screaming and jumping as if they were attacked by a monster

Mehzmeh · Answer

Hmm. This is a good question. As of right now, the most annoying thing my lady does is, calling me a pet name. Other females do a lot of annoying thing's. I just can't really think of any at the moment. Lol

Floppy2112 · Answer

Argue and make a fuss about stupid stuff. Always trying to read deeper into a situation than reality dictates it is. I have that look on my face because... hell I don't know.

Leavesbound · Answer

"Ew I got dirt under my nails!" - "Hon, hand me the bait." +

Tinaaas · Answer

Pick me girls who always try to seek male validation or who go out of their way to impress men. They're like "omg women are sooo dramatic I'm probably the only one who isn't" it's hella cringe and fake

CentralPerk77 · Answer

I don’t like that they poop… i mean it just doesn’t pair well with how amazing women are

Overmind · Answer

The ones that still try to play games aged 30+ I drop those types like a bad habit & they wonder wth went wrong. No more time for games ladies:)

erfanhbp · Answer

Being disrespectful to people at their age and mostly to boys who want to known them or have crush on.

loves2learn · Answer

I get really annoyed by high maintenance ladies. Ugh. They waste so much time.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Girls who are picky about all foods they eat that grinds my gears for sure

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

Squealing... My god its annoying

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