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Yea give her a good ol' bitch slap see how she likes it
Eh... it's really asking for trouble. She has to attack me multiple times and be physically escalating without any sign of backing down before I would do anything but block.
Most of the cases Yes and do it hard enough so she doesn't get the idea to do it again. Violence is not acceptable from anyone in a relationship.
If a woman strikes me, she stops being a woman to me.. She becomes my enemy. The way I see it, if she is man enough to hit me, she is man enough to accept the consequences of her actions.
This one is very tough. Id only hit a woman if my life was in physical danger. Something that could potentially harm me. For instance, if she whacked me in the head with a metal pipe. To be honest I’d prefer putting her to sleep, than striking her.
Deserves it, sure but any guy who hit back is certainly asking for jail time. 1. It probably wouldn’t be considered self defense but retaliation and 2. Courts and police do not favor men in these circumstances.
A woman should never hit a man. But more than that, a man should never hit a woman. Ever.
Yes, that is the law of an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.
No unless they're in a fight to the death. Think about this if your mother hit your father would you want him to knock her out?
This is the weirdest analogy , of you know you are going to be hit back and cannot with stand his strength why the fuck you want to hit the person thats just stupid
And it's like saying if your mother wants to stab a knife into your father would you stop your mother ridiculous.
I mean how do you even justify you are going to hit him but you don't want to hit him back bc his stronger how in the heaven you yes you expect to hit him and don't want the consequences.
Let's consider you are going to hit the president of your country and then you expect not to be jailed bc you are women?
Tell me like how do you decide it or expect such thing
No. That's the last resort, but before that, I advocate for using your feet and run as fast as you can.
If I punch her back I will only escalate the situation, I might overreact and seriously injure her, not pretty.
It should be phrased, "if a person hits another person, should they get hit back" take gender out of the equation
Whenever I've hit a guy I've dated and my husband, in the heat of the moment, they spanked me for it.
They've all said the same thing. They're not going to hit a girl but I'm not going to get away with doing that.
Your 40, no offense, these days we will hit a woman
Spanked you... like a child? Wow thats crazy , maybe even a little kinky.
@Lyubyets yeah but your 35.
We have friends from 30s to 46 and they don't hit
@Lyubyets yeah but even when I was 19 or 25
It was the same reaction... even now our crowd doesn't hit girls, women. 40 sounds old but 35 does too, right? Yet when you become that age it's still like you and your crowd so it doesn't really change.
@Notfabricated its more normal than you think
I seen a video of a guy spanking his girlfriend before and thought that was crazy. Thats another level of submission. But if you think thats normal who am I to say its not. Get it how ya live. In fact thats my next question. Feel free to comment.
@Notfabricated trust me, I didn't exactly submit when he threw me over his knee... however I do think twice before I lose my temper...
We don't live a domestic discipline lifestyle and I'm definitely. Not a submissive type. From my teens to now I have been mischievous to stubborn... maybe it's how petite girls are? Strong willed and determined? Either way, guys spank girlfriends who shove or have slapped them. It's happened to me , not knowing it was going tonhappen and had happened to other people , I researched it to see if it was normal... apparently it happens a lot more in normal lives and just not talked about... or at least so I've found out.
Guys don't want to dump or separate from their partner everytine there's an incident. And vice versa. Couples that are serious and have been together for a long time are going to have shit come up. A girl that slaps a face or shoves is not going to get dumped but also not going to get away with it... or at least that's what has happened in my life and some others with different partners... its almost like it's an instinct reaction when the guy has had enough... that's probably why it was so common back in the day. It used to be recommended or allowed. Then of course things change but I can tell you, it happens a lot more than you think. Couples just don't talk about it.
Technically is you stayed over his knee while he spanked you that is being submissive. I had one ball her fist up at me and I all I did was ask her " who you balling yo fist up at , you better go sit down somewhere" Ain't nobody that stupid. If worst case scenario imma yolk yo ass up on the wall or slam you to the floor. But you would really have to be throwing blows at me. I'd be damned if I spank her unless thats how she wants to be dealt with 😏 . But do "you boo boo" Kevin hart voice.
Depends. If we're talking the man initiating something deserving of such, then no.
But assault is assault.
No woman/ girl deserves to be hit back after hitting a guy , he needs take a walk outside and let things cool down
Yes, actions should have consequences. What goes up must come down
Deserves? Maybe maybe not.
Should expect to be? Yes.
it'd nice when people can keep their hands to themselves. I have less sympathy for people who initiate violence the. For those who lose their temper -while being hit-
Nope not at all.
Obviously anyone saying yes, is also okay with Transexual Boxers…
*waves*
Yeah, if a woman hits a man then he has every right to defend himself. That true equal rights thing can be kinda pesky lmao.
@Ez-Bri-Z defending is different to striking back.
Unless a guy is in to big girls … he will outmass her a good bit.
Well, let me put it this way, if I am walking up to you, a trained military man, knowing you are way stronger than I am and just punch you unprompted, then you have my permission to put me on my a** lol
@Ez-Bri-Z
Or put you over my knee and just spank you.
It’s more humiliating and less hassle.
Don’t it got the T shirt
There are always options
Lmao speak for yourself. I wouldn't find it humiliating I just wouldn't like pain in general
@Ez-Bri-Z
Lol all I am saying is punching back is not always the smartest way to handle things.
There are plenty other options.
Not saying he HAS to punch her back, just saying it is also on the table.
@Ez-Bri-Z there is nothing not on the table.
I have zero problem slotting someone.
They other side of this, is if I knew my life was in danger or someone else’s, they go down.
So what your saying is if I made you feel like your life were in danger you'd make me go down?
😉 😏 😁
@Ez-Bri-Z yes you would be on your knees…
Lmao 🐈
@Ez-Bri-Z you know how it is princess
No. I agree men shouldn't hit women, but they shouldn't hit men either. Just my opinion
Yep. Anyone that starts a physical fight deserves to take a beating.
Yes they should. Reality is never fun when it gives you a harder swing. Don't dish it out if you can't take it.
If it’s self defense, I fail to see an issue with her hitting him back…. Just like if the role were to be reversed
No.
Unless she is a bully who intends to harm you physically. Just to show her you don't like that.
No...
"to deserve" is not the right word
No - not with a fist anyway. But she should be restrained if she can't control herself. And if he's not big enough or strong enough to control her then he should just leave.
Two wrongs don’t make it right. People shouldn’t stoop to other people’s level no matter what gender. But personally, women who hit men should face the same punishment towards men who hit women.
Yup!!! My mom always said don’t hit someone unless you expect to be hit back twice as hard. I’m all for equality, get punched back
Get punched back , but you still gonna hit soneone 😜🤣🤣
Someone*
Generally no, especially if she was just defending herself. But we do live in a just world and there are men who would not like it and gladly throw the punch back. It is what it is🤷♀️
And I am against all violence, so noone should be punching each other!
And what if she isn't defending herself? It's bold of you to assume
What about a man defending himself?
yes... the old saying is "Violence begets Violence" or you get what you give, or if you bring violence into the relationship, you might get your ass whipped
Yes. Whether it's the best decision for the guy will depends on the situation.
Actually, if you hit anyone first, you deserve a punch back, but it's not always the best decision.
No, I don't thing she deserves to be hit back, mainly because no matter what if Police get involved the man will be in the wrong, so , strong advice to not hit her, think about your temper get a hold of it, have to lock it down and get control of it.
I was raised NEVER hit a woman. Would you hit your mom? That woman might be or maybe will be a mom someday. So how would you feel if someone hit your mom? Take it like a man and just walk away if it escalates then call a cop let them handle her.
She absolutely deserves to be hit back but that likely means he will go to jail.
Those who start fights get hit, just like beekeepers get stung. It's only natural.
You set the rules with your actions. I just play by them.
Yes. I don't play that "Never hit a woman" bullshit. If she hits me or continues to hit me after i told her to stop, im going to knock her lights out
Some women are just too much we can't deny it, but as a gentleman you should not hit a girl no matter what
Then a lady shouldn't hit a man no matter what. So what's your excuse for women being too much?
I don't seriously know! Like I'm not in the league
Same goes with men who seriously don't know. If you're not excusing men then you shouldn't excuse women
If a girl is going to ball up there fist and hit you like a man the I don't see y u can't smake the shit out of just to scare her
depends on the context of her hitting. just straight up punching as in a physical fight, yes. its called self defense.
All the women in thus thread saying" no because men are stronger".
Why pick a fight with someone you can barely hurt and can slap your makeup off?
Because they see modern men as their horse and themselves as the horses rider. They control u, which means u are not allowing u to hurt them, even when they beat u
NO! the fact she was a bitch won't make me be a jerk. I won't lose my good manners.
No one deserves to be hit and I wouldn't hit a woman cause I don't want to and I would do much more damage considering my size.
It's not an excuse for women to hit though.
Absolutely. At that point she's no longer a woman, she's a man. Which makes her fair game.
For a single hit or slap no, I have been hit by women before and it never even crossed my mind to retaliate.
If its an assault then I think at that point you defending yourself and pushing back to get her away from you is ok.
Nope , unless she's littro tryna kill u then no its not okay to touch a woman , if she's just angry in the moment and its your other half for say let her take all her energy out i mean she's probs cute angry anyways
Yes, if its uncalled for, but like only with the same amount of force.
it really depends on the mood and intensity of the situation, right?
If it was unreasonable of her to then yes. Reap what you sow.
Yep. If you're throwing hands you should be ready for them to be thrown at you.
Absolutely yes. However, as a man, if I do that, it's a guaranteed trip to jail no matter what she did to me first. Just another reason why women aren't worth it.
not deserve but 'actions have consequences' or maybe 'cause and effect'
If she's gets smacked back then she deserves it. You don't put your hands on another adult to assault them.
No! He is stronger than she is and could hurt her. He needs to just Walk away and if this has happened before he needs to stay away!
So why are women so stupid to go and attack someone who can slap them into a coma? You dont see men picking a fight with bears do you?
I don’t have the answer to that. All I know is people are still Crucifying Chris Brown. That is why I said it is better just to Walk Away!
The United States was one of the strongest nations in the world, yet Japan still attacked.
Who is stronger DOES NOT MATTER. All that matters is are you dumb enough to deal that first blow? Because if you are, you better be strong enough to take the second one.
I'd say yes but I also think the guy should never hit a female because too much weighs in the negative if he does so.
Nope buttttt if he lets his sis mom aunt etc hit her back I wouldn't even be mad.
Not like that. But please men have some dignity, if a girl hits you leave her forever.
No. I think that man should relax her and stay calm. Or get out... :D
Depends on how she hits him, the back of the hand no, the fist maybe.
depends on the reason, if it's unwarranted then yes
No. I get the chivalry thing is being questioned, but violence begets violence.
I don't make any discrimination. How attack me is going to become an enemy. Enemy is genderless.