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If a woman hits a man, do you think she deserves to be hit back?

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  • Lost_in_the_Woods
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    In general, I don't think hitting anyone back is the best way to improve the situation.

    I also think the general physical differences give men a responsiblity to work harder to control themselves because it usually wouldn't be a fair fight. (If a toddler ran up and punched Chuck Norris, he could probably shake it off. But if he punched the kid back, the kid probably couldn't)

    That said, we are all human, we are all different, and there is absolutely no gurentee that the man getting hit is stronger than the women hitting him. Everyone has the right to defend themselves.

    In school, I was backed into a corner and attacked by three girls who were all bigger than me. It started with a verbal argument between me and a girl I had a history not getting along with. We both said some pretty terrible things... And eventually she said she wanted to fight, came over and punched me right in the eye (I was still sitting down, and ended up with a nasty black eye for weeks)

    I blew her a kiss and said it didn't hurt. She stormed out of the room and I laughed it off with my friends (mostly girls)

    Then she came back with two other girls and they attacked me. Hit me so hard they popped my eardrum and after about a minute of telling them I didn't want to fight them while taking (hard) hits from 3 people who were all bigger and better fighters than me I was starting to black out. Backed into a corner my only options were to let them knock me out or do something about it.

    I picked up a chair, clocked the main one in the head and she hit th ground with her face. Before she got up there was already a pool of blood like a foot wide. They all ran, straight to the school nurse. In my defense, I didn't know chairs were sharp, but the angled metal on the bottom of a plastic school chair was like a full knife edge.

    I felt terrible. We ended up next to each other in the ER. I was sure I was going to jail but I really had no idea what else I could have done. Nobody stepped in to help me and they obviously weren't going to be civil and talk it out.

    Sitting in the ER I got a text from my crush. (Tiny cute little WWE fan who saw the whole thing)
    "Not gonna lie tho, it really turned me on when you hit that bitch with a chair" She gave everyone grief. A lot of people told me she had it coming.

    I was charged with a felony, but the (female) judge aquited me on grounds of self defense.

    Her dad gathered about 15 big dudes to track me down and kick my ass, but I walked right up to them and said I was happy to try to work it out with him. Mostly because I didn't want the two tiny gals I was hanging out with to get hurt. He actually listened to my side (I was shocked) and after he heard the real story he said it sounds like his daughter already beat me up so he didn't have to. (I still had a huge black eye, couldn't hear out of one ear... It was pretty obvious they hit me a lot more than once)

    Do girls deserve to be hit back, honestly, that depends on the situation. If you back over your girlfriends dog and she loses it, and starts swinging through the tears no absolutely not.
    In my situation, even the judge and her own dad said she had it coming.

    But for me, it's not about vigilanty justice. We all need to be civil. Anyone can choose to be the bigger person. And we all have emotions that get away from us sometimes.

    My opinion is that I don't think anyone has the right to hit anyone else else except in self defense and as a last resort. Gender shouldn't have anything to do with it.

    It really comes down to who is the agressor and why, and who is actually in danger.

    If your girlfriend smacks you for hurting her feelings, talk to her about it. That's probably the best way to fix it and get back to being happy together.

    But at the same time, there are women who love boxing. Some gals might want to have a bit of a spar. If both sides are willing perticipants I don't really see a problem. I just stay out of that sort of thing.

    It's a tough qu

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  • markml
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    Yoda Age: 43 , mho 79%
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    Probably not.

    If we're talking about brawling, like he might do with another man who tried to hit him, then definitely NOT. In an actual fight where he's not holding back, he's probably going to hurt her a lot worse than she does to him, and beating up a chick is just not cool!

    If we're talking about something mild that won't leave bruises or injury, but asserts that she shouldn't mess with the male lion, like a smack, slap, shove, spank, poke, or pinch, then it's more acceptable but may not be advisable.

    If he's raging with anger, then it's especially not a good idea for him to hit back, because he might lose control of himself. And even if he isn't losing control, his goal should be to de-escalate the situation, and if she's going crazy, slapping her probably isn't going to do that.

    So a completely non-violent approach is probably best. That said, he shouldn't just put up with it. There are some women who are abusive to men, and even if he's physically stronger, a berserk woman who gets violent a lot can be dangerous. I know men who've had or almost had serious injuries being around abusive women, so if she is that way, then he needs to leave her ASAP.

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  • hi_it_is_me123
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    I thought we are not equal and have biological differences and therefore deserve different treatment according to many gag uses. Where are all my guys who often say women and men are different? Suddenly they shut up and cry equality. I think it is ok to hit back for self-defense but not for revenge. I think you also should use the same phsyical force.

    If we want to be equal i want all guys to be slut-shamed to death. The whorish behaviour of men is accepted to the point easy guy is the norm for example. Then we should slut-shame them for being easy, promiscuos, dressing revealing and for not being virgin. We also should shame them for being leftovers aka being single dads aka hitting the wall aka being not young anymore for equality. Do NOT @ me. I often see how gag incels justify slut-shaming only women (and single mums) because women and men different according to them. I also see how they justify sexual harrassment aka cat-calling/groping/rape just because women wear reveal things. Ok then it should be ok to harrass these hypocritical idiots like this by gay men
    I am fully ok to hit women back under these conditions. Dont cry equality when it only benefits you and dont say then women and men are different and so they deserve different treatment

    Omg i see so many gag bastards that often said women and men are different and so both should be treated different and therefore only women deserve slut-shaming according to these idiots for example but now these bastards cry equality. I hate hypocrisy of many gag incels so much. I will get many dislikes but these days saying facts triggere people and make you get dislikes

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      Awww you get triggered because you know i am telling the truth. I believe men and women should equal rights and where tf i say women and men ain't biologically different. You assume also a lot of shit about me. I could not take you serious after assuming shit about my life.

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      Feminists? Everyone is now feminist for critizising men? I believe more in equity than equality and equity give women more rights

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      "What is with feminists always running from accountability?" What is with mgtow incels always running from accountability and getting triggered when we speak in your language? These day everyone is a feminist for not simping for men on gag.
      "What happened, I thought men and women where equals?" yes equal rights and equal lefts. So men should get raped by men the same amount women get raped for equality 😃 -satire. this is the logic of many idiots like you.
      "Now when it suits you, when you want to argue that men are so utterly beneath you that they should not be allowed to protect themselves, now your arguing we are biologically different?" Did i say that? Read again. I said men should defend themself. You also can defend yourself without hitting back. Most of you just want to hit back for revenge which is not self defence. I am fully ok hitting back when you need due to self-defense and i am also ok for hitting back for revenge under some conditions that i mentioned in my first post

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      "Sounds like your just trying to make any excuse possible to not be responsible for your own actions." -Me? Read again or learn to read moron.. I am just using the same logic as morons like you. The whole post is about hypocrisy of gag users. Sounds like you love projecting bullshit on me

      "Men and women are different, that is why its not a big deal if two men decide to fight each other but it is if a man takes a swing at a woman. However we also acknowledge personal responsibility and understand that women can also take responsiblity for their actions so if they violently attack a man first then it means he has every right to defend himself and her having a vagina doesn't mean she gets to be a piece of shit human being with out suffering any consequences for the behavior. " aww i love your victim mentality and how project bullshit on me again. Can you prove your bullshit? You also love to generaliz a lot. I am done repeating myself. Go learn to read. You can defend yourself. You guys are the one who always say women and men are different. Yes they are biologically different but that does not mean that they dont deserve equal rights. So if women and men are different and should be treated different, then you can't hit them since men have more physical advantage which lead to more physical harm-this is your logic. I have seen many posts of you. Dont be hypocritical

      "As for slut shaming, men are slut shamed. We are called players, fuckboys and womanizers." These are appreciated. Dont play the stupid, moron. Men get praised for being a hoe. Dont act stupid. There are thousand of insults like whore, hoe, cunt, skank, cheap, slut while men only get called like fboy, player which are also not really an insult. Nobody insult anyone as player. People would laugh at you if you call someone a womanizer to insult him.

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
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      "We are insulted and belittled and told all we think about is sex, that we use women and that our very sexuality is evil and bad (male gaze, sexual harassment because he checked out a woman) while the reverse never happens (women are not slut shamed nearly as much as men are and their is no movement to rectify this with men as their is with women). " women are slut-shamed for being a single mum, for being a sex-worker, for being promiscuos or even for not being virgin. They victim blamed for getting raped. All what you say is not even slutshaming. I wish we could be slutshamed like this. People also use this kind of "slut-shaming" to justify rape, harrassment since men are have higher sex-drive. Yes men have more sex-drive but men can controll themself. I always was against this kind of " slutshaming". Would you be ok for getting stared like a pig by gays? I am ok with getting gazed. This is not harrassment. It is only disrespectful if you look at someone for hours like a pig. Everyone look at someone but i agree with you that there are idiots who call this sexual harrassment. I think they need therapy-i dont mean it in a bad boy. People who were victim of sexual harrassment/rape act like this in my experience. I am kinda sorry for them

      "Also you don't shame a man for not being a virgin, this is true, women do routinely shame a man for being a virgin however because his worth is tied to how much a woman values him, he is not a person unless he is useful to her." -i agree with you. I only see that in Western women aks in westrn movies. For me these kind of women are cucks.

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      "So again, your saying shit that already happens to men to a far greater degree then what happens to women. But then why wouldn't you, your a woman and your two greatest powers are victimhood and lack of accountability." Aww you love generalizing again. I never said all men but you love to generalize, fucktard. You can't even read and dont understand my whole post, make me repeat thousand of times. You are the one with whole victimhood and lack of accountability but that is not because you are man, it is because you are not a man. See i dont generalize unlike you. You love to generalize women. I am kinda sorry for you. If you understand me, you get it thst i actually agree with you with many points of you. I just can't stand the hypocrisy

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      And i said dont @ me. Just agree to disagree with me. You reall did not understand me and therefore reply like this. I have no time for this

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      I may block you for a short time. Please read my post again so you can understand that i am actually agree with some of your points

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      I am going to be on in 6 hours. I dont like alerts. I also think you completely misunderstand me. Whatever bye. I have things to do

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      If you ask my political opinion, i dont like third wave feminists due to hypocrisy, islam, refugees, lack of expression, ignore real women's problems such as violence in labour wards in austria/germany or anal rape is legal in switzerland for example, and create problems instead of fighting real problems. I think men and women are biologically different but i am not sure if they should get the same rights because it is sometimes not possible due to biology. A man can't abort for example while a woman can do it. So women get automatically a right more. Men and women have different problems. I really dont care whether you hit a woman or not. I am just pointing out the hypocrisy of some people. If you say women and men should be treated different, then you can't hit women. I also support equity more than equality Again i reall dont give a f whether you hit women or not. This not the whole point of my post

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      I also saw how you victim blame the women getting assaulted if she wear revealing dresses at a bar and flirt with guys and then get followed and assaulted. You have NO RIGHT TO rape a woman if she is naked in front of you. If you get provocated by naked body, go have a fucking a therapy. You just prove how some boys can't take responsibility of their own dick. This is like getting shot or attacked by a feminazi for writing antifeminist posts. Then by your logic you ask for getting shot/attacked for writing antifeminist posts.. You also compare it with insulting a man and getting hit? Omg how are you real? How is the same? Are you saying she insult the guys with her half naked body and for flirting with them? Are you stupid, fucktard. It is not the same. She did not insult them or was mean to them. Now normal human behaviour such as flirting should have consequences like assault? . So it is her fault because men can't take responsibility and accountability for their dick? You are the reason why men get "slutshamed"
      I am so disgusted of you. I also saw posts of you how justify slut-shaming women. I will block you. I am not going to tolerate people.

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    • grega239
      grega239
      +1 y

      We are different, but if women insist on equal treatment, ok then.

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      I was with you until you targeted single dads. Now I will deny you a wish and @ you.

      Single dads will have it worse than single moms, because every time a man is seen with a child, everyone wants to think rapist. A single dad doesn't get the opportunity to just stay at home, he still has to get up and go to work.

      And what about male rape victims? Do you ever consider them? Because they actually get it worse than female victims. Because female victims of rape get all kinds of support and care here in the west. Meanwhile male victims are laughed at, told "you should be happy you got some pussy", or labeled as a homosexual. What, you're gonna say "suck it up" too hunbun? I dare you. You will be no better than any slut-shamer.

      I'm disgusted of you, because women like you just don't seem to understand how much praise you get in the western world. You keep looking for shitty men to attack and then teach other girls to do the same. You probably don't even realize that most problems women have today are caused by WOMEN. If you'd stop shitting on us males for a second and look at the modern woman, maybe you wouldn't be so idiotic. Because all we males see is the modern woman. And our only complaint is why does the modern woman get away with things she isn't supposed to get away with? You can blame the simps who kiss women's asses for that. Go ahead and say "crying equality only when it helps you" like you've got ground to stand on besides a kitchen. 😂😂😂

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      @NightHawk99 this whole post is just a reaction of hypocritical people I have been on gag many years and i was shocked seeing such hate towards single mums as they are worse than rapists. I also dont understand why you get triggered by it so much, piece of shit. I never denied the problems of single dads, or men, retard. I am the one who defended male rape victims, gays but men themself laugh at me and tell me they have no problem with getting raped by attractive women. Just fuck off , idiot. Under every fucking question i see incels trashtalkin women or modern women. When you fucking keep seeinc ton of post thst trashtalk your gender then you would be worse than me. I am even too nice, idiot. I am done with this hypocrisy and antiman posts. This is why i deactivated my account many times. Also critizising men dont make me shitting on men, fucktard. I often say SOME men. I try my best to not generalize, piece of shit. I even include statistics, Studies and biological facts about men but i still get hate by retards. Tell me why i should be nice to any bastard on gag, when gag is full of incels. You are delusional when you dont see how many keep trashtalking women but when i am a little harsh, i get hate. I am fucking done. I am not even western woman. I am middleeastern but when i see what western women have to deal with , i am happy to be a middleeastern first time. Even our men dont hate us. Of course there are many nice western men but for some reason on gag i mainly see guys who trashtalk women

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      I can't help you if you are dumb to get that this post is not at nice sane not hypocritical guys

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      @NightHawk99 hey but i kinda regret this post. I write this post after seeing bunch of hypocritical guys. So i am really sorry. I should not have included male rape victims etc. I realize i kinda was too harsh and even offensive. I am sorry. I should not belittle men's problems. I know men have bunch of problems too. My problem is that sometimes i write such posts after reading bunch of posts that trashtalk women. Whatever i apologize myself. I kinda feel now sad about male rape victims etc.

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      NightHawk99 hello please read my last post

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      My problem with this topic is also that people just want to have revenge. It is perfectly ok to hit back due to self defence but many guys just want to hit back for revenge and call this equality.
      So i dont understand why some guys only think about equality when it comes to such topics. Whatever I am sorry again

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      I dont know if you are going to hit back for revenge, then hit her with the same physical force as possible at least dor equality lol.

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      I am apologizing myself again for this post

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      Good night then.

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      The difference between retaliation and revenge is simple.

      Retaliation is a form of justice. Revenge is a form of satisfaction. That's why revenge is considered a plate best served empty.

      No real man would disrespect a woman. But that doesn't mean he won't engage when engaged upon by any adversary of any kind.

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      At least hit with the same physical force when it is possible lol. Would you still hit your partner if she lightly hits you as a joke or in a friendly way?

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      Some people do it

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      Some people hit lightly the arm of their partner when they get excited by their partner

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      Some men hit their partners's asses lol.

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      This topic kinda confuse me a little bit since some people even say they will hit women back even if she does not mean to be rude aka hit his arm lightly

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      I dont know equity makes more sense to me. You can't make every things equal. I mean i can't fuck a man's holes with strap-on dildo just because he fucks the holes of the woman

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    • hi_it_is_me123
      hi_it_is_me123
      +1 y

      Forget what i said in my last posts sorry for spamming 😅 omg my last post is ridiculous

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
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      A playful jab is only that. The homies n I do that all the time and I wouldn't be surprised if any group of friends played the same.

      However, in a case where a woman slaps a man all because he said or did something that sounded stupid in her mind, the man has every right to slap her back. Nothing justifies actual physical force.

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  • CelineBV
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    Explorer Age: 29 , mho 52%
    +1 y

    These should be the only valid reasons to hit anyone, man or woman:
    - Self-defense for yourself or others from getting harmed/killed
    - Combat/Fighting sports

    I think the same should apply if it was a smaller, weaker dude slapping a bigger guy. Do you really need to punch him several times just to feel great that you '' finally taught someone a lesson'' and feed your ego/pride... knowing it was excessive, unncessary force? Same thing if it was a bigger woman vs a tiny 4'10 girl. The bigger woman would be in the wrong for responding to a slap from the tiny girl by smacking her multiple times or punching her; not needed.

    If someone is coming after you with a knife, chair, weapons then obviously that's a case of self-defense. If you gotta knock them out once to get out alive then do it.

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  • Smoke-n-Growls
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    365 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    Anyone who hits anyone needs to be ready to be hit back.

    That said, if it was the woman's intention to harm the man, he absolutely should act to defend himself - within reason.

    Dodging outta the way, redirecting/pushing her over, a controlled punch, or maybe my fave - a firm whap upside the head, open palm.

    Unless she was trying to kill him, excessive force could lead to an assault charge against him. Basically, if she was just smacking him weaking on the arm and he clotheslined her to the ground, that's going a bit far.

    But shoving a woman to the ground who is trying to seriously harm him, or otherwise getting yourself outta there? Warranted. And hard to turn against him.

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  • MCheetah
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    100%. Don't hit anyone unless you're willing to take five to the face.

    I don't give a f*ck about any of these sexist laws that try to say "if you hit her back, you'll be in trouble." F*ck that! If that's the case, then imma make it count then.

    I DON'T react well to anyone hitting me in the face. I actually had an abusive mother growing up and have very uneasy emotions (dare I say, trauma) about anyone putting their hands on me. If ANYONE over the age of fourteen hits me, all bets are off. I'm f*cking them up; no apologies. And I don't "fight fair," either; the goal would be immediate regret from them, to make sure they NEVER, for as long as they live, do such a thing, ever again.

    Man, woman, senior... Keep your hands to yourself. Treat each other with respect and there won't be any problems.

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  • booksontime2
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    None of the answers to this question state the obvious. Look: It’s not about being allowed to hit back because you were hit.

    The purpose of legally-permitted self-defense is not to “pay someone back” or to “get revenge”. Its purpose is only and exclusively to protect yourself from further harm and to stop the attack. In most sane jurisdictions it is very clear that any self-defense act must be reasonable in relation to the attack.

    So “a girl” tries to slap you, you’d be allowed to block her hand so she couldn’t slap you. But you would not be allowed to slap her back. That would constitute an attack in itself and not be a justified self-defense act.

    Each situation is different, however, the best answer to the question would be, - try to avoid hitting someone in retaliation, remove yourself from danger and call the police.

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  • VIVANT
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    524 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    I don’t think gender matters here AT ALL use of force should always be appropriate to the situation only when necessary and proportional -unless you’re life is in danger. People have to use some care when seeking with weaker people and this can be a man or a woman. Same thing if it’s between two womrn two men or woman man man woman etc etc

    When is it the right or wrong time to hit back - they light before off their meds and not aware what they are doing for Ed. So lashing out tho it can feel good is not a good general solution-is another topic but as for hehfwr it’s irrelevant in this case strength & side & ability ( a large person can be disabled) is what matters. in my opinion

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  • TheorionMage
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    SO VERY MUCH depends upon the circumstances...
    in this day and age, you cannot demand 'equity' AND genteel 'privilege' at the SAME time.

    There's a profound difference between a reflexive correction-ary 'slap' for having taken nonconsensual liberties and expected to tolerate being a 'punching bag'.
    I HAVE NEVER struck a female reflexively in anger FIRST!

    My Mother is an impulsive double Scorpio and my Libran Father tolerates MUCH.
    I too am a Libra however I HAVE NOT married that woman...
    at age nineteen, she and I had a verbal altercation and she tried to backhand me.
    I have a brown belt in several martial arts variants and reflexively I BLOCKED her strike.

    She wailed: "YOU HIT ME!" And I replied: "NO! I BLOCKED your hitting ME.
    Had I HIT YOU, your ass would be on that floor, possibly more!"

    The room got REAL quiet and she's never taken 'parental liberties' SINCE.~

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  • hellionthesagereborn
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    YEP. If you kick a dog and you get bit, is it the dogs fault or yours? I think we would all agree it would be your fault. If you punch a man and he hits you in the face, i was your fault and you had it coming. Any one who disagrees with this honestly just thinks its okay for women to be violent towards men because their is no way of justifying this and saying that its wrong to defend yourself against an attacker (I mean how little must you think of a person to claim they do not have the right to protect themselves that if some one wants to abuse them you expect them to just sit their and get abused? Its pretty fucked up.).

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  • JackSmy
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    No, NEVER!! Maybe she is just reacting, or stressed, or whatever, doing that!
    I HAVE NEVER, EVER Hit a woman, and I will not.
    If she is irrational, or drunk, or whatever, I will restrain her, and stop her from hitting me, by holding her hands.
    Men are typically stronger, physically, than women, and I won't go to a place, where hitting her, someone I love, makes sense!!
    If he hits a woman, what's to stop him from hitting a child?
    That makes me SICK, to think of it!!
    If a man cannot control himself, and NOT ABUSE someone, how can he be a GOOD MAN, a good Husband, or Father?
    I see so much abuse, and violence, in other cultures, and some saying it is because "God" says so!!
    BULLSHIT!! ABUSE, and BEATING, is just WRONG!!
    If you think that hitting someone makes sense, you ARE IN A BAD PLACE, and NEED HELP!!

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    • StunningANDbrave
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      "BULLSHIT!! ABUSE, and BEATING, is just WRONG!!
      If you think that hitting someone makes sense, you ARE IN A BAD PLACE, and NEED HELP!!"
      Then apply that to the woman hitting the man rather than being a pussy and getting smacked around because it's "thuh good thing tuh dooo"

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    • JackSmy
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      @StunningANDbrave My point was that nobody should be hitting and abusing anyone, but, since that is to COMPLEX for you to understand: I MAN SHOULD NEVER HIT A WOMAN OR CHILD EVER!!
      If she hits him, in 99.99% of the times, he is BIGGER, and STRONGER, and CAN CHOOSE TO RERSTRAIN HER, and DE-ESCALATE the situation, if he is a REAL MAN, that loves her!
      Life isn't Black and White, This OR That!! Sometimes things happen, and people react, and I WILL NEVER HIT A WOMAN or CHILD, but I will hold her arms, so she can't hit me. I will try to reason with her, and distract her "emotional" mind, and wait, the moment, or so, for her to return to reality.
      Hitting, is ABUSE, and if the other is not in their Rational mind, it is still abuse, and won't solve anything!
      People need to LEARN TO DE-ESCALATE things, that get to the "Violence" level!
      There are many emotional, and logical tools, that can be used, if known!!
      It seems that you know nothing of this, and prefer to resort to CAVEMAN ABUSE techniques!
      Let me know, if you want to learn how to be a Grown Up, and use reason, rather than ABUSE!!

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    • StunningANDbrave
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      Nah, you've been brainwashed into this line of thinking and are trying to morally posture, I'll bet you think it's funny when dudes get smacked/punched by their girls too. you aren't grown up, you're a weak bitch.

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    • JackSmy
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      @StunningANDbrave Dude, you don't know me! Don't be that punk, and make up shit, to make me look bad, when I won't hit women!! WTF is WRONG WITH YOU, THAT YOU THINK IT IS OK TO ABUSE WOMEN!!
      You are the one that women should be afraid of!!
      Just a slap here, or there, is OK? BULLSHIT!!
      NO MAN SHOULD EVER HIT A WOMAN OR CHILD, EVER, FOR NO REASON!!
      That is ABUSE, you ASSHOLE!!!

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    • StunningANDbrave
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      I never said to randomly haul off and hit women, pay attention "you think it's ok to abuse women" I'm saying it not ok to let women abuse you and they should keep their hands to themselves if they don't want to get hit back. You make yourself look bad by being a delusional twat.

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    • JackSmy
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      @StunningANDbrave You are such a piece of shit, to post this: "Nah, you've been brainwashed into this line of thinking and are trying to morally posture, I'll bet you think it's funny when dudes get smacked/punched by their girls too. you aren't grown up, you're a weak bitch."
      Then try to take the moral "High Ground"!! You are a manipulative LIAR!!

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  • Talea
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    Yep.

    Hit someone, expect to get hit back.

    Throw out that tired old excuse "but men are stronger". Then maybe don't hit them?

    If a guy hits a much bigger, stronger guy, does he expect the bigger guy to just let it go because he's so much bigger?

    NO!

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  • MRTICKLE
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    Ok, this is really quite simple.

    VIOLENCE DOES NOT SOLVE ANYTHING!!! It does not matter what gender you are.

    What are you going to achieve by hitting a man or a woman?

    Reading some of the comments from the women here they talk about equality. Equality has been an issue for decades and it is not something which is going to be resolved with violence or revenge.

    Why not adopt a more positive approach and sit down and talk about a situation. Learn to communicate, and listen to how each other is feeling and do this when you are calm because when you are angry you will say horrible things which you perhaps don't mean.

    Remember when you are angry you are not thinking rationally.

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  • SpiderManFan2002
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    It depends.


    If she’s got enough strength to hurt the guy, and he hits her in order to defend himself, then sure.


    But if she hasn’t got the strength to hurt him and he’s basically not affected by her hit, that suggests he’s a lot stronger than she is, and it wouldn’t really be appropriate to hit a person who is much weaker than you, even if they hit you first. Restrain them at most.


    The same would go for a smaller weaker dude and perhaps a bigger stronger dude, smaller weaker dude and a bigger stronger woman.


    A deterrent from hitting somebody shouldn’t really be “they’re gonna hit me back and beat me up” but instead, just hitting anybody regardless of whether they are stronger or weaker than you is wrong.

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    • lucas262
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      Was a case where a man coughed on a Karen. They got him for assault. I shit you not. So it's not about strength. It dosnt take much to swing a hammer in someone's face so.

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  • MotorcycleMan
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    Even if Ronda Rousey hit me I think I would have trouble hitting her back, but that's just me.
    I have heard men say that "You should never hit a lady, but if she hits you first, she's not a lady".
    The thing is, that in general, there is a disparity of force here, so a woman hitting me is not the same is me hitting her. On top of that, it's just the way I was brought up. You never hit a woman. If a woman is angry enough to hit me (and I'm sure more than a few have been) it's enough to block their blows or just hold them so they can't hit you. There just isn't a need to hit back and I would look down on any "man" who felt it was justified. Sorry, just my sexist upbringing. ;)

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  • The-Wise-Phoenix
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    In the world we live In today i would say yes she deserves to be hit back.
    One of the reasons why we have so many women acting up in public these days is because they think they can act with impunity because of this old idea that a man should never hit a woman ever.
    I think a man should never hit a lady.
    A lady is a woman with manners and grace who would never give anyone a reason to kit her in the first place.
    But understand that having a pair of boobs and a vagina doesn't automatically make you a lady.

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  • bolverk
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    I've done door work and worked security at more that one big name holiday parks in the UK (begins with B), and when fists fly gender disappears, in every case I'll try to block and restrain but I've had to drop more than one 'guest' when they've continued throwing punches and the number of females who think they have the right to throw punches have increased over the years, If they are willing to throw punches then they cannot complain when they are on the receiving end, but they also must realise that men are used to the strength they have and can control how hard they hit, they just as easily knock a woman on her arse as knock her out.
    In answer to your question, Yes, If a woman hits a man, then she should expect to be hit back, especially as now they are claiming parity with men, responsibility for what you do is part of that, if you don't want to be hit then don't hit anyone.

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  • hhadeshatesme
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    if you hit someone regardless of gender you should expect to get hit back. Don’t want to get hit then keep your hands to yourself. Not saying to go around beating the shit out of women but even a shove is enough to get the average women out of your face

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  • 1Lovelylady
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    Absolutely! No person or animal deserves to be anybody else's punching bag! Men are naturally stronger than women so please men do take caution when you slap back. But nevertheless if you slap her back she will realize she's overstepped her bounds and find better ways to communicate.
    I would either slap you back or call the police so that you know that this type of abuse will not be tolerated.

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  • TheOracle10
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    Depends, if its meant to inflict harm I will restrain her but to be honest women don't seem to understand how much stronger men are. And as such they make mistakes like attacking men, most men don't fight back because they know the women's attacks will do no damage and probably don't even hurt. But if a woman did not stop, I'd beat the shit out of her to teach her a lesson, adult women should not be attacking men and expecting them to not defend themselves, this is childish behavior and needs to be corrected with some physical teaching.

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  • scentoflavender
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    Of course. If you choose violence, it works both ways. If you don't want hands, don't give hands.

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  • AmandaYVR
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    No. She deserves to be restrained to stop the madness.

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  • blank_expression
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    If she is a feminine woman having an emotional pissy-fit and she hits under those conditions then no. However, if she is a feminist that strikes to (I love their use of this word) “intimidate” then she deserves a full out equality egalitarian knockout blow or maybe a good sidekick. I think any blow that could potentially reset her feminist brain to normal is probably justified.

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  • Sarahr123
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    Yes if she hits him hard or with objects then she should be hit back but if she is a lot tinier and weaker and only hit with her hands then I think the guy should lay off hitting back as she’s a lot smaller and weaker and he may seriously hurt her. I mean we don’t realise how strong we are when angry. She might go flying across the room and then God knows what’s going to happen.

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  • weasley8
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    No one should hit anyone unless it is actually necessary in order to protect someone from injury. Gender is irrelevant. The issue is the harm that someone does, or would do, if they were to hit another person.

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    • Lyubyets
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      Its called self defense lol, if an attacker gets injured thats just karma

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    • weasley8
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      The question wasn’t about self defense though. It was about hitting back. Which sounds more like getting even than self defense. Self defense happens in advance or during an attack. Getting even happens after an attack has already occurred.

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    • Lyubyets
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      Ok then its self respect

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    • weasley8
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      And I could very easily call my point being the bigger person. Pride doesn’t help situations like those.

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
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      Self defense can happen during the event agreed so if she is hitting you continuously then what would you suggest?

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    • weasley8
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      If she is actually doing harm, and it is more than just an annoyance, AND, you can’t block what she’s doing, or somehow restrain her, then yes. Hit her back. But only as a last resort, and not any harder than necessary. The goal shouldn’t be to hurt her. It should be to prevent her from hurting you. And I would say the same thing if it was a guy hitting a girl.

      If she isn’t doing harm, and it’s just an annoyance, than just walk away. And if you can stop her without hurting her, than do that.

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
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      Agreed , also woman always goes for the balls. it could be life threatening 🤷 .

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    • weasley8
      weasley8
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      That’s not life threatening. But I didn’t say it had to be. I’d say to protect yourself if she could hurt you. Which that would.

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
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      Getting hitting in the balls could even kill a guy but it's still stupid to hit someone and expect the someone not hit back be a guy or girl nobody will in the moment will think I must hit back with this force it might be instant reaction

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    • Lyubyets
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      How about fuck ur feminism and guys raise their hand and smack the arrogance out of her

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  • Hawner
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    As a general rule, no.
    1. Violence is never the answer.
    2. Normally, a man's strength is greater than a woman's, to the harm inflicted on her will be greater as well.
    3. The moment you reply violence with violence, it doesn't matter who was in the right of the discussion, you lose as well.

    While she would still not "deserve it" per se, an exception can be made if she initiated the fight and is going to continue. The man has the right to defend himself.

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  • ArztSchlachthof
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    If she's at least as powerful (power that comes from strength or martial arts knowledge), then yes, it's self-defence in a life-threatening situation.

    If not, then no. With great power comes great responsibility. As you wouldn't knock out a child that rams it into you on the street, you wouldn't one-hit some furious lady with your mighty elbow-finisher.

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  • Coulis
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    Oh this is really tricky because some women are very very abusive and I think it's a double standard that is not necessarily hard and fast all the time. I mean if you got some five ten 195 lb woman pound in your butt and she's about to kill you like you better defend yourself bro. Or get the heck out of there if you can.

    But don't sleep on those small girls because I know this girl in school she was like five foot nothing as she could take down anybody.

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  • Slartybartfast
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    I don't think I could hit a women.

    It's so much a taboo, like canabalism, most men (at least where I'm from) would die first.


    Like I told my 5 year old nephew, never fight a girl , if you win, you beat up a girl, if you lose, you got beat by a girl , it's a loose loose situation.

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  • keniyaa
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    well nobody should be hit but some men will just sit there, and be like if I punch them ima hurt them but at the same time woman and men should keep their hands to themselves. And no one will have to get hit, but how I was raised is if they hit you knock the shit outta them, otherwise they gone beat the life out of u. Also boys protect they mom when someone is trying to hurt them because das they momma, not some random girl they feel the need to protect they mom same for a sister

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  • Feelicks
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    I'm going to say eventually. Like it's pretty easy to just deflects a single punch from someone but if she just keeps coming eventually you're going to have to do something. I suggest a joint lock, and submission hold until you can pass her off to police.

    Gotta think of the optics even if it's justified self defense.

    That said if she's got a weapon I'm gonna do what I gotta do. Chick's can stab or shoot you just as easily as a dude.

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  • FunkyMonkee
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    Yes! Why is it okay for her to hit but not him? That's like saying, if she shoots you point blank, should you shoot her back? If ANY human being, no matter WHAT they've got between their legs, does something against another, they should expect to have it done to them, too!! If you can't take it, don't dish it out!!

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  • Question_091
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    I'll just say, if you hit the wrong man, he'll quickly demonstrate his stand on "gender equality". E for everyone.

    I don't men should hit woman, just like women shouldn't hit men. But if it happens, acknowledged that the atmosphere has shifted.

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  • Nik1hil
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    If a rose prickles you..
    Do you throw it on ground and stomp it.. No..

    There are 4 options
    1) If she is weaker than you overpower her.
    2) if she is stronger.. Give a strong hit enough to stun her for a couple of seconds and RUN..
    3) if she is your girl and weak.. Then overpower her and kiss her whole body until she calms down..
    4) if she is stronger but your girl.. Shield yourself dodge her attack... Never hit her back.. And RUN!.

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
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      Roses always cones with thorns no matter how much you would be careful they will prick you unless you cut them.

      But may be a slap could calm down people be it guy or a girl

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    • Nik1hil
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      @Aakash_Hangargi nope.. I suggest kiss her instead of slap..
      You get sugar and she definitely will snap out of it..

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
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      Dude you are going to be booked under rape charges 🤣 which is more worst than assault

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    • Nik1hil
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      @Aakash_Hangargi
      Rape is penetrating..
      Kiss isn't rape.. 😂🤣
      Besides if you don't want to kiss and it's a stranger..
      Just Tickle her..
      Girls surrender when tickled badly. 😂🤣😂

      There are many ways instead of hitting her..

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
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      Kiss and attempt to rape sexual harasment lol in any case keep a lawyer friend who can help if you want to kiss a girl whose in fight with you 😜

      You try n tickle her she will hot you in the balls and peper spray you.

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    • Nik1hil
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      @Aakash_Hangargi well if you are that scared.. Then you should buy a taser gun for yourself

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    • Alejandro3000
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      @Nik1hil avoid the situation dude, women can grab real hard and are also the most vicious. So if you went in for a kiss she'd grab your balls squeeze so hard you'd probably piss your pants feeling that blinding pain.

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    • Nik1hil
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      @Alejandro3000 kiss is for when your girlfriend or wife is mad at you..

      Other random girls are getting tickled or I am running away.. Not kissing a stranger... I ain't idiot

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    • Alejandro3000
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      Haha I see, her mindframe has been tipped over the edge to slap or punch. You'd be walking into violence 😂

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  • Trex706
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    Usually not. I'm all for equality but as a man if a woman hit me I wouldn't hit back unless I felt like I was in actual danger, which probably wouldn't happen. Not to sound sexist or full of myself cuz I'm not hella tough or anything, I'm just not scared of a woman hitting me. I'd just stop her like I would a child if she hit me 99/100 times

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  • AgentRED
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    The only problem I see is that if you hit her back it’s considered assault and us guys are the ones who go to jail and then the case goes to court the entire room will side with the woman Because ya know, women always win in the end and all that. She gets to get rammed by 20 other dudes the next weekend while you rot in prison for however long the judge orders it.


    Yes, I think she deserves it. Don’t go picking a fight where you can’t back it up or whatever the saying goes.

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  • MissGeorgia
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    Yes. Hitting is never acceptable... unless it’s perhaps in some form of self-defence.

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    • Arivor
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      Unless, I am, as a lifeguard, trying to save you from drowning, and you panic and try and crawl on top of my head... Yes, I will knock you out and save both our lives.

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    • collie22
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      @Arivor good point arivor.

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    • magiusX26
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      good point Arivor

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  • exitseven
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    No, men never should hit a woman unless she has a weapon and you fear for your life. I had an abusive relationship but I would never hit her.

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    • Wiredone
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      Hey brother, I feel exactly the same way about it.

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    • exitseven
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      @Wiredone Check out some of these responses.
      Guys, would you ever hit a woman? ↗

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    • Wiredone
      Wiredone
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      I remember you asking that question. I still can't believe how many guys would hit a woman.
      Honestly, if I saw a guy hit a woman I'd probably put his lights out

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    • exitseven
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      @Wiredone I have a story about that I will PM you okay?

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    • Wiredone
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      Yeah that's fine

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  • Anonymous
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    No one deserves to be hit in general, if a woman hits a man, as a woman myself, she's in the wrong as the best way to handle any situation should be without violence. If a man hits a woman she shouldn't hit back and if a woman hits a man it's same - either talk about it or if it's serious take the serious route.

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  • askandgiveAnswers
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    If a woman is a batter and she beats up the guy in which does happen. The guy should record what happens as a hidden camera. And then leave. Depending what is really happening, this is only a point of her beating him. Not of if she a control freak or nuts as she isn’t taking her pills for a mental issue. Or if she drinks too much. Or if she needs someone to talk with as she feels rejected a lot of her life, many of emotions can be.

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  • Friendlybro79
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    I want to say it's not ok, but I really don't know. I think the ladies opinion on this matters more than what we think.

    If i had to give an opinion i'd say if a girl is throwing hay makers, and you really didn't do anything wrong to deserve it, I think you're in the right to defend yourself. That said, In that circumstance, I'd try to just stop them from hitting me rather than punch back. I'm not comfortable with that.

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  • Ayanna240
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    there is a chinese saying:

    Think twice before you get into a fight

    1. if you lose a fight, you get sent to the hospital.
    2. if you win the fight, you go to jail.

    Sure you can beat up the woman who punched you first, but at the end of the day, you do not get off scott-free either.

    The law will punish anyone who uses force unnecessarily (if its not used in as a way to defend yourself).

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    • CelineBV
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      This is what I've noticed in most ''hitting back'' videos. The guy that got slapped or punched didn't feel threatened for his life or safety. He hita in retaliation and more harder (or more than once) just for the sake of equality rather than a real case of actually self-defense.

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    • Ayanna240
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      @CelineBV gotta know the law. Men who hit back much much weaker women, are just immature kids in a man's body. Unless the man is a little guy, a woman will never be a real threat to a man

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    • Birdlegs
      Birdlegs
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      @CelineBV under the term “self defense” there are places in the US were you can shoot somebody for less. The stand your ground law says that “a person who is not engaged in an unlawful activity and who is attacked in any other place where he or she has a right to be has no duty to retreat and has the right to stand his or her ground and meet force with force, including deadly force, if he or she reasonably believes it is necessary to do so to prevent death or great bodily harm to himself or herself or another or to prevent the commission of a forcible felony.” So even if someone only BELIEVES they’re in danger they can legally use deadly force against someone

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs there is no danger if she punched you then stopped. You decide to try to win the fight by throwing a punch at her sending her to the ER. then when cops show up, you do not even have a single bruise on yourself. Sorry dude, you will just be arrested and hauled off by the police. The typical sized woman is no threat to the typical sized man. And if you want to prove self defense, you better have the bruises to back your story up.

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    • Birdlegs
      Birdlegs
      +1 y

      I was just saying how wild self defense laws can be look at the George Zimmerman case he fatally shot a teenage boy because he “thought he was in danger” and was acquitted

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs No woman can fight zimmerman like trayvon did. Travyon was a pretty tall big black kid.

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    • Birdlegs
      Birdlegs
      +1 y

      No he wasn’t😂he was 5’11 158 pounds and he was unarmed while Zimmerman was armed and out weighed Trayvon by almost 30 pounds. I’m not comparing this to men fighting women my whole point was that self defense laws can be crazy

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs sounds like you just love blaming women. how many 5'11 women do u see walking around? its pretty hard hard to prove to police that a 5'3'' 120 pound woman is a threat to a 5'11'' 190 pound guy.

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    • Birdlegs
      Birdlegs
      +1 y

      Ma’am what are you talking about😂 I’m not relating it to women at all. I was saying self defense laws can be crazy that has nothing to do with men or women😂

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs you can't just say that u believe she was a threat to u. U gotta prove it and the police / court must believe it.

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    • Birdlegs
      Birdlegs
      +1 y

      I’m👏🏾not👏🏾talking👏🏾about👏🏾women👏🏾 all I said was that law can be crazy and gave an example of it in effect

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs i believe u r because u r desperately trying to justify a man hitting a woman.

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    • Birdlegs
      Birdlegs
      +1 y

      I literally didn’t say woman at all. Not once have I brought up women😭are you trolling me?

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs i think you're trolling me on here

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    • Birdlegs
      Birdlegs
      +1 y

      I like you @Ayanna240 this is my favorite type of conversation wanna be friends?

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    • CelineBV
      CelineBV
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs You said. In that George Zimmerman case, he really thought he was in danger and was scared for his life. In most of the ''hitting back videos, the guy is seen only reacting in anger and keeps saying ''equality time (b word)'' and wants to get back at her, to ''teach her a lesson''. He isn't doing it because it was really needed such as a girl charing after him with a knife and punching her once because he was really scared.
      It's the intention behind the hit back that counts. You gotta asked if it was really, necessarily needed and there was no way out or was it not needed and you could've easily restrained her and call the cops?

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    • CelineBV
      CelineBV
      +1 y

      @Birdlegs These are exactly the words you just said ''he fatally shot a teenage boy because he “thought he was in danger” and was acquitted"

      That is way different than hitting back a person for the sake of equality and ''payback time''. You didn't do it to protect your life/safety but just to feed your ego/pride.

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    • jspl90
      jspl90
      +1 y

      I think most men if a woman slapped them once they would like wtf why you do that but a continued assault I think it can be instinctive to push them or hit them especially if someone is going for the face but I can admit I have seen some of the "equality" videos and was somewhat amused but yeah defend yourself in the heat of the moment but after assault is over you run after them to give them a smack is exessive no matter how satisfying it might be

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    • CelineBV
      CelineBV
      +1 y

      @jspl90
      That's the thing they feel satisfied afterwards. Even some guy here clearly said ''you gotta teach them who is boss''. The point isn't to be happy, satisfied or teach someone a lesson. It's to simply defend yourself when you really needed, when you really had to and not because of ''equality time'' and then walk away or call the cops afterwards.

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @jspl90 here’s something you have to understand: you can get arrested for punching someone back just cus you wanted to win the fight. The only time you wouldn’t get arrested for punching back is if you are doing so in a case of self defense. But let’s be honest , the typical sized woman is no threat to the typical sized man. Unless she is carrying a gun Or is a UFC fighter , she is usually no threat to a man.

      And lastly when a woman punches a man, it usually leaves no marks. If a man punches a woman, there is a big likelihood that there will be blood and that she gets sent to the ER. Nobody is gonna believe you that the woman was a threat to the man in this case

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    • jspl90
      jspl90
      +1 y

      @Ayanna240 how about if she tries to claw his eyes out or kick him in the groin or has something other than just hands but assault is assault but yes sadly the justice system seems to be heavily leaning on the side of the women🤔and trying to subdue someone actively trying to harm you is difficult even when you are trained for it

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @jspl90 well you can definitely defend yourself if there is a valid threat. But just make sure that you can prove it to prove when you’re being questioned.

      But quite frankly, it’s very uncommon for a woman to want to claw a mans eyes out or commit such extreme acts of violence. Men tend to be the ones hitting women more than the other way around. Men are the more violent aggressive gender

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @jspl90 but honestly, the typical Sizes man can easily shove The average woman to the ground if she tries to claw his eyes out. It’s really not that hard. Unless you’re a short weak little guy, I don’t see how she will be a threat

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    • Diablopawn
      Diablopawn
      +1 y

      @Ayanna240 that doesn't justify the action of a woman to hit a man. unless she has a deathwish.

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Diablopawn I think you would be in more trouble if you murdered a woman who tried to slap you. You would be in front of a judge for murder trial regardless

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    • Diablopawn
      Diablopawn
      +1 y

      Well i don't think that i will ever get into a situation that a women hits me, because i have the attitude that whenever anyone hits me, i will hit back. people that abuse their power are usually the ones, that only do that to people they think they can.

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Diablopawn you will still get arrested by police. it doesn't matter if they are abusing their power or not, it won't excuse you from being in trouble.

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    • Diablopawn
      Diablopawn
      +1 y

      Bullshit. Never got arrested when i've hit back so who cares?

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Diablopawn because she didn’t report you to The police. If the cops were there , you wouldn’t get off free.

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    • Diablopawn
      Diablopawn
      +1 y

      In the country where i live, we have the mentality innocent until proven otherwise. If you don't know how things work, you might want to learn a bit more. Stop putting up stuff you don't know about.

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    • Ayanna240
      Ayanna240
      +1 y

      @Diablopawn In every country, its not legal to hit someone back unless it is done so for self defense. It is this way in china too.

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  • JosyJosy
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    If she's okay with hitting people she can expect to be hit back

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  • topramen1565
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    If a guy hits back then the guy will be charged heavier putting them in an impossible position. Even if it was self defense, they still will be treated as the bad guy.

    But generically, if someone retaliates with violence they are just as guilty. The girl does deserve some consequence but violence is never the answer. However, if they keep attacking, then let loose but don't kill them. Some ladies abuse their femininity.

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  • Jeremy_loves_coins
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    Returning fire with fire never works. Id just try to step away and mind my own business. Dont care who hit me. Hitting back is just gonna make things worse.

    Also, just not caring shows that them hitting you doesn't affect you. They have no power or control over you.

    Unless it gets physically threatening. Like with a baseball bat, or aimed at sensitive/vital areas. I would put up a fight if I had to, but only for self defense.

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  • NightHawk99
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    Yes. Self-defense is self-defense. War is war. You harass the lion in his jungle, he'll bite you. You poke the snake with a stick, he'll bite you. We as males shouldn't be and won't be any different. It's all about survival.

    I feel sorry for the simps...

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    • IDontBelieveIt
      IDontBelieveIt
      +1 y

      If you witness domestic violence at a young age like I did the consequences are life changing! They should get anger management.

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      A vast majority of deaths from domestic violence are males. I hope it's just me, but a lot of women seem to throw water on that.

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  • kellytheman
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    I never really got in a physical fight with a woman except my younger sister but I she start pulling my hair or start swinging I put her in a loose bear hug and pick her up. She usually calms down and gets tired out and for odd reason she finds it funny me picker her up. Obviously then is we was still kids though.

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  • Anonymous
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    Unpopular opinion, yes. If you hit anyone don't be surprised when they hit you back.

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  • FriendlyDrugDealer
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    Regardless of gender or sex, people need to keep their hands to themselves. You put your hands on someone besides self defense should be met with the same response.

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  • AndyOh
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    IF she does it out of anger, oh hell yeah I will hit back.
    I played the nice guy before and, after the second time... all bets are off.
    So I learned that is 'she' hits me, I will hit back. If it becomes a fight, I will win!

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  • doopayo
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    Depends on situation/context. In general no one should be hitting anyone in the first place

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  • Honesttguy
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    Yoda Age: 34 , mho 48%
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    Just pepper spray them, people are not used to seeing guy punch women it brings emotion, but pepper spray works, police does it is all good.
    Its acceptable in society to pepper spray aggressive women.

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  • Agape93
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    Yeah. You assault someone, you get what you get. Categorical imperative, assholes.

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  • Maniwishiwashome
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    Personally I wouldn’t hit her back because it would be no contest. I’d avoid her trying to hit me at all cost though, situational awareness helps, body language is give away too. Most physical altercations can be avoided.

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  • tatianamay
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    My grandpa always says: never hit a woman. never hurt her either physically or emotionally

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  • Ukrainianbuddafly
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    No because they are usually much stronger and don't know their strength but I also think no adult should act like an animal and should be able to control themselves by acting civilized

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  • Ontheotherhand
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    A man should never lay his hands in anger on a woman. Men are stronger (generally) and can cause further psychological damage to the woman.

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    • Grubhub
      Grubhub
      +1 y

      You’re probably a simp

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    • Aiko_E_Lara
      Aiko_E_Lara
      +1 y

      When a man hits a woman once, he's not tolerated most of the while a woman can hit man twice or more and can be excused because "men are stronger" So yes multiple weaker punch can hurt more than a single but stronget punch. Men maybe stronger but women are much more protected so your argument is double standards enough.

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  • Wiredone
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    Guru Age: 57
    +1 y

    A guy can deflect her punch and restrain her but a real man would never hit a woman in any way, shape or form.
    Even if she had a weapon, you can still take the weapon and restrain her until the police came

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  • A_Bell
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    I hate violence, but I hope everyone who initiates it without reason should be throttled.

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  • SnakeBoop
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    Why did she hit him? If she's being a twat, then yes fucking belt her one.

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  • Aceusa92
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    You come at me like a man, I'm gonna knock you out like a man.

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      Well said brother.

      A feminazi disliked too. Those are bonus points.

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    • Ukrainianbuddafly
      Ukrainianbuddafly
      +1 y

      @NightHawk99 Having self control when another doesn't isn't being a feminazi. If you are a woman beater looking for an excuse just say that.

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      Stop accusing men of being woman-beaters. Nothing justifies a woman hitting a man unless she actually is hit first. And a feminazi is the kind of person that doesn't agree with that.

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
      Aakash_Hangargi
      +1 y

      Well you wanted equality you got it no longer weaker sex if you are a man beater then we can defend you are a threat to my life so not gonna stand injustice

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      @Ukrainianbuddafly You hear that? Don't you dare slap a guy just because he said or did something stupid. Otherwise you're no better than any woman-beater.

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    • DrHonesty
      DrHonesty
      +1 y

      Exactly

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    • Grubhub
      Grubhub
      +1 y

      Facts my brother

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    • Aceusa92
      Aceusa92
      +1 y

      @Ukrainianbuddafly defending one's self is not an issue of self control. Having a vagina does not grant you a magic "hit people with no consequences" card.

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    • RonnyBR
      RonnyBR
      +1 y

      wrong, if a woman hit you you should just block her, you should hit only if she continue to hit you, cause in this case is self defence, but if she throws you a punch and you ask with another punch is the rule of the jungle... you will not solve anything, if you have an argument that proves that you are right, explain it calmly and she will start crying and screaming, these are the signs that the attacker has acknowledged that whe is wrong, or send her to a psycologist

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      @RonnyBR I feel bad for you simps.

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    • RonnyBR
      RonnyBR
      +1 y

      @NightHawk99 you are just a kid, when you will grow up maybe you will understand, probabily you parents never teached you a education, but this is a problem of 90% of families in the world

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    • NightHawk99
      NightHawk99
      +1 y

      @RonnyBR Cuts real deep coming from a "man" who lets women hit him. 😂😂😂

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  • JoeyRock
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    +1 y

    As in the words of a great fella said:

    "I'm an advocate of true gender equality, a guy who has no problem doling out a drop kick to a female opponent."
    - Satou Kazuma

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  • Leavesbound
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    Guru Age: 66 , mho 37%
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    Deserves to be? Yes! But that does not entitle any man to actually do so. Many people deserve punishment but I leave it to higher authorities to carry out such punishments.

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  • TommyMountainFigure
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    392 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    Deserves to be hit back, absolutely, BUT a guy has to consider (if, or by) how much stronger he is than her before doing so.
    I could never, and would never hit a woman back.

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