I was told women deserve to get hit by a man, do you agree?

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This was in the context of some women hit hard and hit first...

I’m like, dude. My boyfriend from high school clocked me in the face on accident and nearly broke my nose. Someone was holding his arms back when he was yelling at a dude. I was standing in front of him telling him to calm down and he accidentally punched me.

the guy goes, I’m so sorry for what you went through that’s horrible.

But some women deserve to be hit back. I’m like... hmmmmmm... I guess I would just run and not hit a guy back or not run and not hit back.

I took up running to escape violence.

Some women hit men and that’s not okay. But most guys can hold her down. He said he was joking, he thought I would find it funny. Saying he’d knock a bitch out.

I’m like... no. The guy that accidentally punched in the face was punching me with less than half force and it wrecked my face.

If a guy hits me might kick him if he’s trying to rape me, but then I run.

I’m so confused as to why certain guys now feel the need to “hold their ground” and fight women by punching them in the face.

I'm working in this with my friend because I think he’s mistaken.

But this isn’t the first time I’ve heard this. Some women deserve to be hit. Did they punch you first? Maybe/ maybe. It doesn’t matter.

I’m explaining why I didn’t marry someone due to abuse and this guy is like well...
sometimes.
He’s thin, muscular and runs faster. I’m like bye guy of 5 years.

My past psychopathic boyfriends were at least meaty and slow. P

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I a a strong advocate for en hitting women back immediately when they hit him first, and I'll explain why. There are two important factors.

First, most women are under the misconception that they can't harm a man because they are generally weaker than men. That is false. I was punched in the face by a pissed off girl at a concert. I didn't see it coming and it floored me. It cut my face and badly bruised my cheek bone. I will always have a scar from it. My brother was in an abusive relationship (she was the abuser) and she broke his nose once. And that was just one of many times she punched him. Yes, girls can hit hard and they can hurt a man badly.

Second, women know they can hit a guy and get away with it because most guys, like my brother, are taught not to ever hit a girl, no matter what.

Those two factors combined put men in a very bad position because women can and do hurt men without any consequences, and that must change. It's 2019 and there is no reason today that should be allowed to continue, and the only way it will change is for men to set the expectation that if a woman chooses to hit a man, there is a very good chance she will get it back.

By the way, my brother finally decided to end the violence and he punched his girlfriend after she punched him first. He gave her a black eye. She never hit him again. And yes, they are still together and doing much better.

Snakeyes7 · Accepted Answer

If anyone hits anyone unprovoked regardless of gender, they are going to get a fresh batch of “deep fried equality”... is what I would say if the Duluth model didn’t exist.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Most men have physical advantages over most women. Doesn't mean a woman should be wailing on a guy. If a woman can beat a particular man up, he needs to file charges and get out of that relationship. Same with a woman. If a man has the opinion that he should beat a bitch up, that's a red flag. Get outta there.

The_White_Queen · Accepted Answer

Actually I agree with the guy. Women should expect to be treated equally by men if they attack them, this attitude some women have that they can assault a person consequence free just because their victim is male and they are female needs to be put in check.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

Don’t date men into violence. Unless he’s defending himself, there’s no reason to hit anyone.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If a guy makes a "joke" about "knocking a bitch out," I would assume that he has a violent streak and should be avoided like the plague. That's not much of a joke!

0112358 · Answer

I really have no idea how to restrain an adult. I’m a slow runner. So yes if it came to it I’d hit back.

However note that I’m in my mid 40s and have encountered the need to hit exactly zero women so far.

Besides hitting back if she hit me, if a woman was hurting one of children she’s getting ktfo.

Lliam · Answer

Any man who would hit, abuse or frighten a woman is emotionally damaged. There's no excuse. Women should stay away from such trash.

I'll say the same about violent women. Any women who tried to get violent with me or anyone else would be left standing at the curb. She is garbage.

_SOARER_ · Answer

Sometimes yeah, a woman deserves a smack. I think its something thats missing from our culture.
But men should only be allowed to smack their wives. And you never smack twice.
Also you dont do it for no reason either.

Its when you give them the last word, and they aren't happy with the last word, then you just quiet them down.

I have smacked all my girlfriends and they were cool with it. They knew i did it because of how they were acting. Also I am not a violent person. If they get smacked, they deserve it.
I also never smacked them hard. just with enough force to bring them back to reality.

YHL6965 · Answer

Women want equality right? Equality would be to punch them back as well, just like you would punch a man. However, I'm not for that kind of approach because there are better and safer ways to neutralize a violent women like armlocks for example. If armlocks don't work, full force should be used because that's the only alternative

Men are getting tired of women using violence and then hiding behind the "you can't hit me because I have a vagina". They are tired of having to be humiliated and having to run off the confrontation because they supposedly can't defend themselves because it would mean hitting a woman. If you want to be loose with your punches, be ready to deal with the consequences.

Keep that in mind when you shout for equality all the time, that getting punched in the face is also part of the "equality package".

I'm not defending violence, I want to avoid it in any way but I have little sympathy for those who choose the path of violence.

Anonymous · Answer

If women want to be treated as equals, they need to act like equals. I'm not going hold a 110lb man down just because I have an unfair advantage. He should understand that punching a man twice his size has consequences. Same with women. I don't hit people for no reason, but if I'm attacked, I will defend myself until you're no longer a threat. Whether that means you get the hell away from me or are physically unable to attack any longer makes no difference to me.

That's equality. That's what women want. I have no problem obliging.

R4vedave · Answer

I agree with the guy. There are some situations in which is perfectly fine for a man to hit back. Equality means women are not immune from response if/when they start attaulting someone. Doesn't matter what your gender is, if you assault someone, expect retaliation.

LogicBomber · Answer

10000% if a female acts like a guy she should be treated like a guy.
71% of all non-reciprocated violence is female to male because women generally use the "you can't hit me I'm a girl" scapegoat and idiots in society support them.

I full on agree that if a female is violent, she gets her pussy pass revoked and those who watch a bitch be violent and don't do shit but then get involved when the guy hits back... those people are garbage and are part of the problem.

Appetite · Answer

No one should be physically hit/abused regardless of sex or gender. People who treat you like that don't deserve you.

Freelancer95 · Answer

If I can restrain her easily enough I don't see any reason to punch a girl, that's just giving her ammunition to use against me later. However I know women the size of me and above who could easily knock me out, in those cases I ain't taking any chances. (admittedly that's my type anyway so I'm basically screwed)

Steve4783 · Answer

I believe no one desrves to get hit, But it is just that some women think that they can get away with hitting someone because they know 9 times out of 10 they won't get hit back by a guy and if they do they will claim assault and thats what men have always thought as unfair.
A man is always going to get in more trouble than a women for self defense.

Fey18 · Answer

I honestly don't know what has happened to guys these days... they have really descended into monkeys. They have no honor, no noble character, they are just useless basic creatures now.

MrMilti · Answer

Noone deserves to be hit. No woman and no man. If you have to use violence to proof your point, its because you ran out of valid arguments.

Thatsamazing · Answer

How about people just don't hit each other, period? Unless it's in a boxing ring? There, that's the answer to your Internet clickbait question. You're welcome.

markscott · Answer

No woman should be hit, and neither should she hit the man.

Truthatanycost · Answer

If you impose violence on another person... you do not get to choose how they react.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I don't know, probably. . . not generally speaking though...

Juxtapose · Answer

If you don't hit me, then you have nothing to worry about! If you *DO* hit me, I will retaliate without mercy.

admles · Answer

I have a basic rule - hit me, expect to get hit back. No one should be hitting anyone, ever. But, as my grandmother said, you raise your hands in violence to anyone, expect retaliation.

Anonymous · Answer

Problem is you. You have chosen those type of guys that hit women. Maybe from next time consider a good guy

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