I had a girlfriend go bananas and start pounding on me and punching and my basic instinct was tested and I did not hit back. I just constrained her and escorted her to the door. However, I think that men need to be careful when out, say on the street, and confronted by an unknown woman getting in his face because you really don’t know what kind of training she might have. So in that case I think men need to override that protect-women instinct and apply their defensive fight skills as if she is a man and I emphasize defensive.
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Shoo, if she trynna square up.. Why not? Although me I would just push her unless she know how to fight.. Then yeah I would defend myself.. Haha..
If it is actually self defense, yes. Unfortunately eye-for-an-eye is fair in concept but not so much legally. If she hits you once and you have ample opportunity to leave - for the sake of saving your own skin - walk away. If she's beating on you though, she won't let you leave, etc?
Lay her ass out.
Generally, I advocate not using violence at all but if you're in a situation where someone hurt you ad the only way to get out is to hurt them, then yeah. Men should be able to hit women back.
You should always defend yourself when someone attacks you.
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Back in my crazy days I punched my husband in the face and slapped him and almost pushed him down the stairs. I got anger management because what I did was really messed up. But he never hit me back once out of all those times.. I respect him so much for that. But he just restrained me if he did hit me though I wouldn't of been surprised. So the answer in my opinion if someone reacts with a hit expect to be hit back gender does not play part.
My boyfriend tried that on me once, I got angry and justifiably slapped him and he hit back. I called the cops on him the very next minute and got him arrested. That shit doesn't fly with me. He started begging me to drop charges but it was too late and I wanted him to learn a lesson. After he got out of jail he apologized and we moved on. Let's say he never made the same mistake again.
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in self defense sure.
Otherwise nope.
I think men who have no problem hitting women are usually assholes to be honest (from experience) i don't care how many thumb downs i get decent guys realize that a woman is a lot weaker.. my fiance doesn't hit women because thats how he was brought up and i have respect for guys like that. Seriously, everyone is about equality and therefore I think hitting back is okay. On the other hand you are lowering yourself on that persons lvl.
Nope just walk it off, anything resulting into violence is not to be confronted, if it happens just calm down and breath, under no circumstances should a guy hit a woman even if she is crazy woman 😅. If you have to defend yourself just run , running is the best self defence against crazy people.
No, absolutely not, if you feel that badly about a girl you are dating to the point you want to hit her (hit a woman) then id say it's time to end it.
A man hitting a woman is never justifiable. If a woman hits a man, worse-case scenario, he gets a swollen lip or a black-eye or whatever. If a man hits a woman full-force there’s a good chance she’s gonna end up in the ER or dead… If a woman attacks a man, he can physically restrain her until she calms down. He doesn't need to lay her out with a full-force uppercut.
I got hit in the chest with a dog leash one time when I was asleep. It's fuckin hurt like a bastard. I clicked out a little and was going to kick her head in but I ended up grabbing her by the hair and throwing her over the bed. She got a fright. That was just because I wouldn't get up back go to the shop. Nearly caved in my rib cage the mad boot. She's lucky I didn't put her in hospital
No, that will just make it worse. Even if a man hit a woman, she should just walk away
it's seplled MAN! men is plural! women is more than one woman, and MEN is more than one man. jesus tapdancing christ.
also YES, i've been attacked jsut for telling someone it's time to go. had BLEACH thrown into my eyes and I got arrested. i ahte that bullshit.- u
Every case is different. First of all I'm not going to have a woman pound on me and pound me and knock the tar out of me. There's some pretty strong girls out there that are big and heavy. I will defend myself. If I have to hit back then so be it and in that case she would have a big time coming to her
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWZ_gBHovqwViolence begets more violence, and won't solve relationship problems ever..
I've hit them in terms of slapping them on the behind as retaliation for punching me, where they are so well padded when they hit me. I wuldn't do anything else.it's never ok to hit a woman. NEVER
if she's actually a threat to your life? knife or gun a stranger sober. maaaybe
if she's your friend or girlfriend and had too much to drink no nevermost of the feminazis are running their mouths wild here, talking as if it's their birth right to hit guys. It's not. No grown adult has the right to hit another. But that also means that for the guys, we shouldn't hit back either. 2 wrongs do not make a right. Of course the situation is different if she's armed or highly trained in combat, and coming at you with malicious intent. Only then is it self-defence.
If they have no other way of defending themselves and are in danger then yes they should absolutely. In general though, violence is not the answer.
It would be sexist not to
It's equality!! Gotta have your counter attack ready. If you can't then a powerful retaliation will do.
If it is because of something I did, I probably deserve it. If I don't know why she attacked me, I should leave her be. I dind it difficult to think of a scenario in which someone would assault me, though.
Fuck that, I'm calling the cops and tell everyone on FB she hit me.
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