Girls behavior (from a girl) ?

Question

I find it harder to understand things about girls when I’m one. I just don’t really know what to do. I thought it would’ve been easier to understand but it’s hard. I barely find any resources on it either, do you guys have any tips or answers? maybe even resources?

how do you know one is interested?
what does eye contact mean? what should I do when we make eye contact?
what don’t they like?

Crazybeeguy · Accepted Answer

It depends on the age group, young girls are just wanting fun. More mature women are looking for a stable relationship. Again that is not perfect advice it depends on the women. If you like this girl spend time with her. When you are interested in someone what did you do to show interest? Usually when women are interested in a guy there is touching involved. Not the hand on the shoulder, thats a friend touch. When she touches you hand and spends more time trying to hold it or that intimate like touch that means she's interested. The only thing nowadays women don't do that much anymore. Flirting nowadays seem more like complimenting the way they look or dress. When flirting was done it was more like a dance a play on interactions. The idea of being direct is the most practical way, I have done that approach many times and it doesn't seem to work. It takes the "fun" out of the interaction. She might be interested in you no matter what, she probably likes the alure of you and the chase. If you play a little more hard to get, if she tries harder to get your attention then you know. Welcome the world men have to deal with. Does she like me does she not? she's flirting but she's not seeming interested in me. All kinds of terrible mixed signals, thats the one thing you don't want if you both are interested in getting together. Good luck

Nikki6t6 · Accepted Answer

Just play it cool… you can’t use the same tactics you use on men… all you have to do with a dude is say hi and he gets a boner.

You already know this but it’s hard when the coin is flipped… Women don’t like to be crowded… take your time, be cool… when making eye contact don’t give the bum’s rush with the fuck me eyes and come-hither smile. A nice glance and genuine smile are best.

If things are progressing either she or you will eventually open conversation. If it’s you instead of saying that she’s just beautiful (to vague)… state why you think she’s beautiful… she’ll appreciate the fact that you took the time to gather your thoughts and are sincere…instead of just trying to look at her tits…. you know women can spot bullshit a mile away…

Something to the effects of… wow, you have really interesting eyes, they look unique, I love the color…. are they hazel?

Bottom line… I’m not telling you anything you don’t know… just remember… just be yourself / cool and don’t b. s….

Ukrainianbuddafly · Accepted Answer

You are asking how to know if a female is interested? That honestly varies because each human being is different. Eye contact is when they look you in the eyes. If someone cannot do that when they speak with you that's not a good sign. As for me I don't like games, lies or wishy washy behavior. If I have to guess how you feel about me or where we stand I'm just going to get bored and/or assume you aren't interested and detach.

MindYourEyes · Accepted Answer

Best thing to do is straight up ask. Analyzing and taking notes n all that just gonna make you overthink. Cause sometimes you can assume they’re interested but they really aren’t. It can be just how they are with everyone. Or someone they trust a little more. It’s complicated.

NicoletteXO · Answer

Ok forget worrying about eye contact and all that stuff. I would suggest drawing your awareness and energy back to yourself for a while. You are so concerned with analyzing others that you are losing your powers of awareness. As a woman, our deeper powers of awareness come from connection to our own bodies. When we are deeply connected to our bodies, we will intuitively understand what is going on for another person. This is why mother's are typically much better at attuning to small babies than fathers (not always, but mostly). I recommend doing regular things that get you in touch with your body - yoga, dance, hiking in nature (something you enjoy of course) - then you will be in a relaxed and embodied state, where you will be able to 'read' others much more easily, because your judgement will not be clouded by mental anxiety and concern around being liked by others.

justlookin69 · Answer

Working with you women is a one step process that requires our complete focus and understanding to deal with. You women can all of a sudden change your mind, get mad over the smallest and most insignificant shit, making you go from cool to hot in 0.0002 seconds.

Dealing with the female psyche requires years of dedicated patience and understanding… and more patience; patience of a saint. And even still with all that, we can never fully understand you because just like your post states , you don’t know what the hell is going on with you, where us men here… we’re simple and logical. A girls behavior is beyond measuring or understanding but me personally I still try with not as much patience as I used to have.

MCheetah · Answer

NO ONE understands girls, *especially* other girls. As guys, we know the basics of what they want (height, physical protection, money, confidence in a partner, etc), but how consistent they'll stick to that and how logically they'll behave is completely f*cking random. The world's leading psychologists don't even understand women/girls.

Moimaris · Answer

I don’t even understand myself but I think in general a girls way to show she is interested is
- making herself more visible (walking by to many times)
- touching our hair
- eye contact probably too but I think guys have more need for eye contact than girls because it can bw intimidating
- dressing nice/better than usual

007kingifrit · Answer

i don't understand the question. normally you would ask "why do girls do x" or "what does it mean when a girl does..."

what do you want to know about girls? there are no "resources" for this kind of thing just age and experience

LavenderLuna · Answer

Girls are hard to understand lol. Even if she has all of the “signs” that she’s interested you can never be sure. If you catch her staring a lot, that could be a big clue. Maybe if you make eye contact you should smile at her and see how she reacts.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Not all girls/women are the same or act the same... How people show interest can differ from one to the next... When in doubt, well that's where communication comes in.

saturnianqueen · Answer

That’s because every person is different and as much as we want to, we can’t generalize everyone. That’s why. Don’t expect every girl to act in a specific way. As you meet more people you begin to understand this

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Me and my ex started going out when we started staring at each other but sadly it ended when she loss my class ring my late grandparents bought it for me.. I like when girls smile, giggles, gives me body language that she wants to get to know me more

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I have no idea.  Are you talking about wondering if other girls are interested in you? I am straight. I have no idea how other girls think.

karaspara · Answer

I'd love to be able to help hun but 1) I'm straight and 2) I think relationships/dating are tough no matter who is involved

RasberrySlushPuppy · Answer

Forget all these questions. The excitement of finding out yourself and getting a few surprises is worth it. Trust me, keep your innocence.

collie22 · Answer

i figured she was liking me cause i had a feeling she did or maybe i just made a lucky guess anyway she kept touching my arm and that's what i thought

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

All I know or can remember is they think it’s funny when you look at them after they’ve been staring for a while. (Well, maybe some. That’s how one special variable has behaved)

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

That's a road less travelled , and those who travelled it never returned to tell the tale

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

Yes it's hard to figure out girls, it's a mystery, lol

pinaypixie · Answer

if you perceive people as different from you, regardless of their gender, you will focus on the differences rather than the similarities

TrueConfection · Answer

I'm straight. I have no idea other than flirting.

Rachelspiks · Answer

Eye contact actually means something?

JosyJosy · Answer

By asking them directly.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Girls are complicated welcome to the club

msc545 · Answer

We don't know either.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, good luck with that.

15_Debo · Answer

hey I can help u

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