Girls, Confused girls actions?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a girl for about a month , earlier in the week we were hanging out it went well , kissing cuddling. We made plans to go dancing sat. Sat I called her , it went to voicemail , so I texted her if she wanted to do dinner before. Later that evening ( too late for dinner) she texts me back , that she wants to do something low key since she was out the night before. While I made some suggestions on what to do she completely ignored me and my question said she has to go. Later on that night she texts me asking " what did you end up doing?" She could have rescheduled with me or told me she's not interested , and apologise. I found it rude. I could have done something better with my sat, thats why I decided not to reply or contact her again. Confused?

[SueShe]

It is obvious that this lady never had any intentions to do something with you or that you were merely a backup plan. The the main plan failed for whatever reason, she contacted you to see whether you could fill the void on a short notice.

Looks like you are more of the friendzoned type of person that one takes out of that zone but only in emergency cases and that one puts back as soon as there is no longer a use for that person.

Don't reply to her mails or requests and let her think about how to handle people. If you are dating that kind of person, then you should really look into finding somebody a little more responsible and mature.

[TrueConfection]

There's nothing to be confused about. She's a jerk and should have just cancelled on the first place. I wouldn't reply or contact a person who did that to me either.

[Catharine_N]

I think she isn't interested just by the sounds of what you described

[Anonymous]

She has other options other than you. Get over it or look for someone else.