Why can’t I fit in with other girls?

[Anonymous]

You know how girls are always close to each other, spending time together etc, heads close together and laughing? I wish I could have that with other girls but I don’t…I don’t think I’m bitchy or anything, but no matter how much I try to be nice and friendly, I’m shut out. What can I do?

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Thats the same experience I have.. its like your just forgetable... like being told it was so good to see you at my party abd thank you for the gift but really I gave the gift to her mother saying I couldnt make it cause my aunt died... it was always my aunt... and she thought I was there... but I didn't even go... so what you need to do is hang out with a girl one on one... then its just you and her abd you can't fade into the background!! So do fun events take one biking and the next one swimming.. be the fun one... the one with all the good candy.. until you hang out with every girl one in one in your group of friends.. then you see how they just include you.. but know if you need someone to lean on dont go to those girls they will back stab you honestly your better of doing your own thing abd the guys will come hang out with you... then they will make fun of you for being one of the guys... then they will start befriending you just so that you can help them talk to the guy they like once they talk to that guy its like you dont exist... so do your own thing girls or/and guys will make the first move to be your friend its a better chance of having a friendship beyond high school im still friends with one if them! Honestly girls don't make the best friends guys make much better friends! there's the rare girl thats a good friend but guys are a lot more down to earth... girls your age are very concerned with what everyone else thinks but guys dont care.. when you ask him what he's thinking about and he says nothing.. he actually means nothing!!! he's not hiding anything from you.. he's not lying he's litterly was thinking about nothing or so bizarre that if he tried to explain you wouldn't get it... example. the teacher is teaching a math lesson.. 1 x1 =1 .. the guy would get 1x ohh Emma dropped her pencil should I get it? Pay attention Matt the boy talking to himself.. 4x1= is what he heard when he listed and then notices Emma trying to reach it from her seat.. Aww I should have got that pencil for her.. he goes to get up to get it and the teacher thinks he has the answer to the next question and says his name Matt? He goes uh me? Can you repeat the question please? So they repeat the question and during the summary he hears kids playing outside school is almost over and he's trying to remember what the question was.. so then when you aak what were you thinking about when... when he says nothing he means nothing 90 % of the time the odd ones 10% will try and cover something up.

[doopayo]

Just try to find people with your interests. I’ve met most of my friends by either finding out we have similar interests or being part of a club

[VikingWarLord]

B1tches are catty most of them are only good for one thing, even women like yourself should know that by now

[noohair]

Some women are like you, you are not abnormal.