Describe your ideal relationship?

[Anonymous]

How is the chemistry, the conversation, the dates, drama? etc

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forgot to mention, the sex as well.

[butterfly_girl]

My ideal relationship is the one I have with my boyfriend :)

The chemistry is out of this world, it's been 6 months and he still gives me butterflies whenever I see him or talk to him or even think about him :) we get on so well and this was pretty obvious from our first date, we went to dinner and took ages to order cos we couldn't stop talking and it's still like this, I spend the majority of the week at his and now we're thinking about moving in together.

We still do so much together, we've been on holiday together, we've been camping but we also have lazy days in bed too which is awesome. He's like my best friend, I tell him everything and anything, never have I once stopped to think whether I can talk to him about something cos he's understanding and there's no secrets between us, he knows pretty much everything about me and I know so much about him.

We don't have drama as such although I do have a history with ex's which isn't pretty and that has come into it a little but we dealt with it and even when my ex was emailing him, he handled it so well and just basically told me that no matter what any ex would say, he would never take their word against mine.

We haven't argued as such but we have had a few disagreements but it's never been anything too serious.

Our love life is incredible, I can honestly say I can't imagine being with anyone else.

[Eiffelgirl21]

I am happy for you. <3

[butterfly_girl]

Thank you! :) x

[ShootingStar5]

I'm lucky enough to currently be in my ideal relationship. :) We get along great, only 1 fight in 5 months so far. We have a ton in common and very similar personalities. But here's what I was looking for before I found him...

Chemistry/sex - there has to be a decent level of attraction and physical compatibility with each other. As long as the sex isn't terrible I'm happy. It usually gets better the more intimate you become with each other anyway.

Conversation - It's important to have a lot of stuff in common so we can have stuff to talk about. But I also need to have someone who doesn't talk constantly either. I enjoy peace and quiet quite a bit so it's nice to have someone who can be happy spending quiet time with me too.

Dates - anything and everything. I have a lot of interests, so I look for someone who enjoys doing a lot of different things and/or is open to trying new things.

Drama - I have a zero drama tolerance policy. It's okay when you have an argument over somethingg every now and then, nobody agrees all of the time. But I don't want to be with somebody who will pick fights over silly things.

Other things I look for:

-someone I can respect

-someone who's laid back

-someone with a good sense of humor

-someone who generally treats everyone nicely

[Eiffelgirl21]

My ideal relationship:

-Someone who makes me #1 most of the time

-Someone who I can talk to about anything and vice versa

-Someone who respects me

-Someone who loves me for me..and not make me change

-Someone who accepts me (^might be the same haha^)

-Someone who will be there when I need him the most

-Someone who isn't mean to others..but, at the same time, strong minded

-Someone who likes to do random stuff..but only sometimes

-Dates are fine..restaurant, movie, park...Both of us would switch off paying.

-50/50 relationship

-No drama..if there is drama..sometimes it can't be helped..talk to me about it..I can be there for him.

-A guy who only wants and desires me.

-Random surprises..little "i miss you" texts...

-Someone who appreciates me and shows it.

-Most importantly, someone who is looking for love. Or at least not trying to avoid it.

[Distant]

Conversation would be intelligent but not necessary. I can sit in total silence if I enjoy the person's company enough. Dates would be spontaneous and random. Her idea or mine. No drama whatsoever and the sex would be frequent and amazing and sometimes following a sesh and a bit of gaming ;)

[Anonymous]

I'd love to be physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to my boyfriend. BUT, I am realizing how this is too much to ask for. I can't decide if I'd rather be bored, hate sleeping with him or not be attached to him. Or if giving up only one of these wishes is enough.

[ShootingStar5]

It's not too much to ask for. I found someone who's perfect for me in every way. They're tough to find, but they're out there!