How could anyone enjoy being a man?

[ElizaPam]

It's so horrible I would rather be dead than be a man. As a woman I get to actually enjoy life. I don't have to do corny shit like pretend to be tough and emotionless. I get to have fun and feel good with my appearance. Shopping as a man is depressing as fuck. Y'all don't even get to be the mothers of your own children. I would hate to be a father a woman would have me by the nuts and stick me with child support. I get to feel good about having boobs and my body is soft and smooth. My face isn't scratchy and my ass isn't covered in hair and I'm not humiliated by the fat on my chest. The opposite sex actually comes to me and compliments me and makes me feel good. When is the last time a random member of the opposite sex made you feel good?

The idea that I'm supposed to be a man because I was born with a penis is horrifying and I would rather be dead than be a man. I don't know how you can stand it.

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Also guys do stupid shit like hit each other in the nuts. Girls are much better company.

[TonyV]

All you did here was explain how some, obviously not all but sadly too many women are shitty and make life hard for men.

Being yrans is not the answer for any issue you listed.
Don't like fat on your chest? Then exercise and eat better, the answer isn't claim to be woman to claim the moobs are boobs.
Don't like hairy ass? Then shave it, I watched lots of porn, women don't atumaticlly have a hairless ass either, some of them have to shave it too.
I don't know why your upsessed with having the baby, you never will as a trans either, I'm just fine being the dad.
The fact that there are shitty women just trying to get child support and steal kids is a real problem but why be trans? Man or trans if I'm avoiding women either way I have to be attracted to men so why not just be gay? Or date a trans?

Everything you mentioned boils down to the fact that you've only interacted with garbage women, but instead of being logical and deciding you hate women sense all of them in your life have disrespected you, you decided to hate and disrepect your own masculinity, you decided that you were the problem, that's not a healthy mindset.

All your examples are ways bad women abuse men and somehow you end up hating men? How? Talk about victim blaming.

FYI some of us don't have to pretend to be emotionless, we just are, we were emotional and open with the wrong woman , treated like a doormats and now we don't open up, struggle to care about relationships, cause we've experience how quickly a seemingly perfect relationship just flips one day out of the blue for no obvious reason, she just leaves and won't even say why.

I use to ask myself what was wrong with me, why aren't I good enough but not anymore, it's her fault, she didn't communicate, she decided to keep whatever bothered her a secret so she can go fuck herself. I learned not to trust the fun girls, learned some redheads like any girl that proudly says she "life's in the moment" or uses the word "vibe" or if they believe "they can end any relationship anytime for any reason, even a marriage" they are a bad woman, they'll leave when I gets mildly inconvenient, won't work past anything, need their relationship to be a echo chamber where their partner agrees on every God damn thing 100%.

But what I didn't do is hate myself for being a man.

[nonratracereality]

Instead of people being humans they are becoming titles in which everyone is privileged or should be treated justly. When asking questions and looking for a bonafide response one has to utilize the other person's brain pattern think with their brain NOT YOURS. Because of infinite opinion we are the same species but want to be uncivilized about it. Because of the ills placed on society by man there are those that are subjected to its perks or its universal infinite relentless persecution of self. Sucks we are what we are the dice rolled and this us what we got most situations are winning and winnable. You just have to understand the code of everything in life there's a right and wrong. Not my wrong not your wrong the wrong. Example 2 people man/woman drops wallet, man/woman sees retrieves and gives wallet back. Right. After picking up the wallet they go through it. Is that right? there's a code and if you dont know that you will be in a circumference of circles that will continue to propel you into a thought process attempting to understand why it is the way its supposed to be. Can I reason with that and myself or who am I fooling?

[liel443]

If there's something to be jealous about men, other than the penis obviously, is the company. Men are much better friends to each other.

[ElizaPam]

No they're not. They insult each other as a joke. They hit you in the nuts and tell you if they'd fuck your mom. They call you a gag for any reason whatsoever.

[ElizaPam]

And having a penis feels weird and gross

[liel443]

Penis is awesome, I'm sure having one is great. And men make much better friends to each other than we are. They hardly ever get into a fight with each other.

[MORPHEUS_12]

I am a woman and I would totally be a man in another life. I think society has been too hard on men.

[snackthatsmilesback]

I mean women are fckin awesome but I like my body as a man. I like some of the advantages like being taken seriously in an auto shop, and peeing a lot faster and easier with clothes on, and getting more opportunities to show you're strong as a child, and not have periods, and take my shirt off if I'm overheating, and not need a bra, and my wife is into men so that's perfect.

There's plenty of disadvantages and tbh it's been an old fantasy of mine to be able to have a kid, which I know will never be biologically possible. But if I was a woman a lot of things I do like about myself would change, and a lot about my life would change too. I'm sure I could learn to like being a woman eventually. But in the big picture, I much prefer myself as I am now. And I enjoy my life. I hope you enjoys yours too.

[Ekke118]

Like girls and enjoy the role. Half of the role comes naturally, so its not pretending as you said. The other half is helped by positive reinforcement. Imagine instead of having a "body that is soft and smooth", you get to be with a person that has that and that loves you for bringing strength and stability.

[Mac-One]

@ElizaPam
If this is true for you "The idea that I'm supposed to be a man because I was born with a penis is horrifying and I would rather be dead than be a man. I don't know how you can stand it"; what is is like for you being a girl with a penis?

[Mac-One]

correction "what is it like"

[ElizaPam]

It's horrible but I can live with it I would rather die than be a man

[Mac-One]

@ElizaPam Hang in there and enjoy your life as a girl. What inconveniences have you experienced with your body and how do you compensate?

[ElizaPam]

It's honestly pretty much ruined my life I have horrible anxiety and not very many friends

[Mac-One]

@ElizaPam How are you accepted by other girls?

[ElizaPam]

They treat me like any other girl usually

[Mac-One]

@ElizaPam It is great that they accept you in spite of your inconvenience.

[Mac-One]

@ElizaPam At this point I find my penis to be unnecessary, inconvenient, and annoying. Would really like to have female genitals. Would still continue my life with my wife and hope to be able to experience going out occasionally with her as a girl.

[ElizaPam]

I hope you get to experience that. Being trans is the hardest thing I can imagine but it's worth it to feel like yourself!

[FunkyMonkee]

The only thing I like about it is the muscles and the deep voice. If someone came up with a machine where you cold step in, close the door, someone outside pushes a button and, seconds later, I step out as a girl, I'll be the first in line to try it!! Being a guy is boring as fuck!!!

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

I am a man.
I don't pretend to me emotionless and tough.
I have fun and feel good about my appearance.
I love how easy it is to shop.
My child will be mine.
Court is not nearly half as bias against men as people think.
I get to feel good about my muscles. I love feeling hot when I flex.
I had a girl compliment me the last time I went out for drinks.

We are not perfect. But damn I love being a man.
If you don't, then don't be. Be what makes you happy.

[Twalli]

Because I never felt bad about being a guy. I don't want kids and made sure I can't have them so any woman that wants to stick me with child support can pay a lawyer a shit ton of $ to lose when I show the record of my vascetomy. I work out to stay in shape because it feels good as bd my hair is part if me. I don't really talk to anyone so most people respect my silence.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

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[Anonymous]

Looking at your photo, you look pretty ugly with no boobs. You have to give birth and have periods. No thanks. Men get to boss life, women don’t. Being a man with a muscular fit physique and successful is unbeatable. Women are so hormonal look at this post 😂, women always have to worry about their safety. We don’t need compliments that’s why. You do realise a lot of men just ‘smash anything that comes’ they’re lying to you. They just want your pussy.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Don't be rude. Look at what she posted.
Just because hurting my feelings is fun doesn’t mean it’s ok! ↗

[StrawberryShake]

This is such a troll question lmao
I would love to be a man in another life though.

[ElizaPam]

I'm not a troll I'm trans being a man would be horrible

[StrawberryShake]

I still would love to be a man

[ElizaPam]

But why?

[exitseven]

I really like being a guy. There are a lot of things good about it.

[Xoirwinkan]

"The grass is always greener on the other side".
You're not really a woman, are you? Take at a look at your chromosomes.

[TheAfrikan]

Being aam is the most interesting thing on earth, being the leader moat often n I do not need to wear any makeup to look great.

[billluc69]

i love girls but im glad im a guy. i like to play with both

[Anonymous]

Be glad that as a woman you're not expected to make the first move or approach guys or take the lead

[xamm89]

It's nice not having to cramp up every month

[Hangry06]

Well good thing not everyone is the same as you

[notwoke]

Yeah, but the world is my urinal!

[Waldoe]

Men are Strong, I've been one for 71 years

[Reijen]

Yeah, you have an odd idea of what manhood.

[Anonymous]

You keep telling yourself that. LMAO