Men, how do you actually feel about being a man and find happiness in it?

[ElizaPam]

I don’t understand how anyone can enjoy being a man. I don’t want to be a man! Being a boy felt so wrong! I never looked in the mirror and felt happy until my cousin dressed me up as a girl when I was 7. That’s why I transitioned at age 14. I thought puberty would make me stop wanting to be a girl but it didn’t it made me want to die.

Don’t you wish you could feel beautiful and enjoy cute clothes? Don’t you wish you could freely express your emotions? Do you really like being covered in body hair? Do you really like worrying about being strong and tough and masculine?

Y’all always make fun of me and bully me and call me mentally ill. Here is your chance. I’m reaching out to you as a brother. Help me understand how I’m supposed to be happy as a man. Help me understand how I’m supposed to stop liking feminine things and start liking masculine things? How am I supposed to hate my breasts? How do I make the conscious decision to not like what I like and to like what I don’t like? What if my hairline moves to the back of my neck? How do I learn to be happy with that?

[Mac-One]

@ElizaPam I can think of many ways it would be nicer to be a girl. For one, nicer body without those disgusting male genitals. Girls don't have to have large breasts; small or flat would also especially be nice.

[Bricealan]

@ElizaPam I can't see many men wanting to transition to a woman. Neither sex has an easy time in this society or world. I really have no answers for you. Sorry

[Nikki1989]

I would never want to be a man either.

[fish5505_87]

I cannot imagine me as anything else, but, I guess my answer would be the same the other way around, I don't know any better. Just a note. I have never made fun of you, it's your life, live the way you want. I will certainly not judge you!

[msc545]

It is an unhappy accident of our birth that we are men, but we are pretty much stuck with it. Being victimized by women on an almost constant basis doesn't make it any better.

[Mike_Hum]

Stop your porn addiction. Go to therapy until you understand you're not a woman.

[ElizaPam]

I don’t watch porn lol you really think I’m some kind of pervert man. I’ve actually met trans people who are perverts and porn addicted so I know what you’re assuming I’m like but I’m not like that. Most trans women aren’t

[ElizaPam]

You shouldn’t caricaturize people. We are all human being. You shouldn’t form an image of people in your head and project that on other people. It’s not nice and it’s honestly just lazy thinking. We are all individuals and human beings

[Mike_Hum]

No one’s saying you’re not a human. You just need some mental help.

[Kingofkings1992]

How do you find happiness in being trans? Sounds horrible honestly

[ElizaPam]

It is honestly and I’ve come to accept that happiness will never exist the same way for me that it does for cis women but at least it I’m not pretending to be some big, hairy, horny rompin stomping chest beating man

[NathanDavis]

I just am

[Tomislav7]

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