Hurting my feelings for being special might be fun but that doesn’t mean it’s ok! I had to teach my mommy this and now I want to teach everybody! If she can learn so can you 🙂
I like when people have fun and I want to make people happy but I can’t let people hurt my feelings because it’s not fun for me and it makes me sad! 🥺 Imagine how it would feel if everybody had fun hurting your feelings. Well that’s how I feel!
And it’s not worth it. When you hurt my feelings it’s only fun for you for a short while but for me it hurts for a long time unless you say you’re sorry. Some people hurt my feelings so bad I still cry years later but I bet they don’t even remember having fun hurting my feelings! 😭
I used to cut myself a lot because it helped my feelings hurt less. I started cutting myself when I was 14 and I was never able to stop because people never stopped hurting my feelings. I’m very proud of myself because I haven’t cut myself in over a year! 😃 The next time you want to hurt my feelings it might help to remember that. You wouldn’t want to be the reason I start cutting myself again!
So the next time you want to hurt my feelings try to think of something else fun to do. I have fun watching videos on YouTube 🤗 that’s just one example. I also have fun imagining if guys actually liked me! There are so many ways to have fun without hurting my feelings! And if you do slip up and hurt my feelings all you have to do is say you’re sorry and all the pain you put in my heart will go away! 🙂 when people hurt my feelings bad enough I always remind them to say they’re sorry. For some reason they usually don’t but sometimes they do and it always gives me a big smile 😃
Thank you for reading I hope you learned that my feelings matter and they hurt so much every day and even if it’s fun it’s not ok to hurt me even more! 🤗