Why do creep always target me?

[Sarahm342]

I don't know if I'm being over dramatic but I feel like creeps are always harassing me. From my last question about the creep in the car to other situations like I've had a guy take photos under my skirt I didn't notice at all going up an escalater then he tapes my shoulder and shows me the photos and says in posting these online and just walks of and I have so many more stories. Is there something about me that creeps wanna violate my space do these things happen to a lot of other women my close friends say no. This is how I usually dress and look.

[Satyromaniac]

A thief only steals at a place where there is something of value to be stolen, he/she won't rob an abandoned home/shop ever coz there's nothing to be gained.

You have amazing beauty and a great personality, obviously creeps and a$$holes gonna try to get/gain something from it.

The trick is to not change and never let them affect/undermine you.

You stay beautiful and just be a little more alert in public and on the lookout for someone who needs a public thrashing for indecency/disrespect.

Best wishes & Good luck love.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Creep target everyone, at least those they see as attractive.

Rather than let it bother you, try to put a positive spin on it and just realize they are only coming after you cause they think of you that way.

If they leave you alone, while that is a great thing it means they don't think of you that way. I'd also imagine technology has a lot to do with it.

Back before we were born, seems it was harder to do some of that tuff.

[Sarahm342]

I try, I know all my girlfriends have harassment stories some guys are just creeps not all but some just like some women are just as nasty to people I get that but what really is bothering me is that for me lately it's seems be be escalating like the photo guy why was he so brave to show me and tell me what he did and is planning to do with embarrassing photos he took of me do I just look like someone they feel comfortable being disgusting too?

[Aerissa_Jade]

He just wanted to hurt you, he could of just left and if you didn't know it wouldn't bother or hurt as much. Letting you know, if you have a issue with it, just hurts.

[dustybiker]

They target your beauty. They know they are creeps and have zero chance with you so they take.
Exactly why I took taekwondo to be able to handle myself in situations like that. I would have dropped his unbelievable ass and had him arrested.
I agree with the other poster in not letting it get to you or allow it to change you. Stay safe.

[Sarahm342]

Thank ykindas kinda hard to stay positive it's just so deming and my boyfriend hasn't been making it any better lately.

[dustybiker]

Ask your boyfriend if you can have a “serious discussion with him. No judgement”. Let him know how important his support is. He of all people needs to have your back.

[Sarahm342]

Thank you I've been wanting to do that but he hasn't been very understanding lately, he's been doing things that I'm not comfortable posting for everyone to see.

[dustybiker]

The person you are with should be your protector, you should feel safe with them. Does he make you feel safe?

[Sarahm342]

Sometimes

[Sarahm342]

Could you dm me I'd like to talk to you about my boyfriend privately

[SweetDumplings]

I'm not sure I just had this creep harass me on here so my only conclusion is you're really pretty and maybe nice and they see that and want to stalk and harass you, men and even some woman can be the worst sometimes.

[dustybiker]

Yes. Woman can be vicious too.

[Zlantur2]

It happens to anyone