Girls, Ladies why do women give out thier number and not answer?

[Thehandsomeone]

Okay I can understand if the guy is a creep or the woman is just not interested, but at the nightclubs why women flirt back with you, dance with you, have drinks with you, heck even kiss you sometimes, then at some point you guys exchange numbers only to have her not answer your calls or texts? It is confusing why do they waste all that energy and time on you if they are just going to not answer their phone? It is almost as if they just used you for that night?

[SueShe]

I would never ever give my number out to anyone outside my family.

I do only speak for myself and not for other women.

When guys ask for a girl's number, it is because they have very specific intentions. They are not going to call the women just to ask for the time of day or the actual meteorological conditions.

Also, guys are usually at fault if they ask for a girl's number with the hope to get under her skirt afterwards and offer to pay for the drinks that night.

If you fall into that trap, then you should not be surprised that the girl (s) don't call you back.

[Thehandsomeone]

True but not all guys just want sex, don't get me wrong it would be nice :D but my intentions was to actually get to know maybe date, however you could be on to something if women think all guys want is sex? then that now makes sense why they wouldn't answer thier phone after the night club.

[SueShe]

What would be a good reason why a guy would want a girl's phone number if not for something intimate on the long run?

What is the final aim, the ultimate goal why you want to have a girl's phone number? OK, you got it and you contact her (or she contacts you). What then. You get together for a drink and then what? You start talking and you find that you have some common interests. Good. And then what?

Always look at the final aim why anyone would want to have a phone number. It is not so that you can play bingo together or to just have a platonic relation for the next 50 years.

[Thehandsomeone]

Well that all depends on the guy and woman? I can't soeak for other men but me personally if there is a connection could end up in a relationship or a friendship or just dating? But im not in it solely for sex.

[PrettyPriya]

Maybe alcohol played a part and the next day they regretted it. Always a possibility.

I, for one, don’t hand out any information unless I’m interested. I certainly wouldn’t ignore someone.

[Thehandsomeone]

Good answer :)

[PrettyPriya]

@Thehandsomeone

Thank you kindly 😊

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG

[Wild_princess]

These are just some spontaneous things... that doesn't mean they are interested

[Thehandsomeone]

True but why waste a person's time? I would never waste a person's time this way or even give out my number and then not answer? Lol

[Anonymous]

One night stand or just a one night fun thing. I’m not too sure.