How to stop being so fucking annoying?

[Anonymous]

Everytime i try to make friends

Or even friends on twitter they eventually unfollow me or block me.

Honestly I'm annoying. Like sometimes I feel I do too much or text too much. I am an eager girl. I do see my faults but literally no one likes my annoying ass😂 I try to make friends I try to be social and nothing

And please dont say well its life or welcome to being a guy or a "creep" because most girls if not all girls dont go through this.. I am told I'm beautiful and maybe looks have nothing to do with this but no one likes me🥺

It does sort of hurt cause wtf am I supposed to do with my life. Just stick to my boyfriend all the time? I have some haters but all of them can't be haters right? Like it has to be me. I'm nice, outgoing, fun to be around but I don't know I want to be less annoying.

Please dont tell me to not change. I have to or I'll end up alone with 42 cats... thanks

[DaveJord]

Here is the deal … so when I was a kid there was no such thing or belief that shaming someone was a bad thing. So if you where annoying people, they flipping told you at a young age and eventually you got your ass beat up at some point if you didn't figure it out. It was called play ground justice.

So in todays world all those tender hearts will tell you that all my child hood experiences were wrong, or mean or just terrible. But honestly they were not, learning how to deal with real bullies at a young age taught me so many life lessons. Number 1 being if you don't want to get beat up, quite acting like a dumbass.

So I hear what you are saying and what you are asking for, and answer is that society failed you. Society promotes this belief you can be and act how every you want and nobody has the right to tell you different, and if they do its because they are shaming you. But now you have no self control and nobody wants to be your friend, because you sound like a spaz.

Well stop being a jackass and get with the program and stop believing everything society tells you to believe. Your annoying, because you have not sense of boundaries, nobody cares about your opinions or wants to follow you on social media... so get offs social media, shut the fuck up, and stop harassing your friends about stupid shit nobody cares about.

Back in my dad even if your mom and dad failed you would get your ass beat by someone until you figured out how to act right.

[Asker]

Listen dave I do not take kindly to threats or being talked to like I'm some fucking idiot. Lower your fucking tone. Do you have a wife or girlfriend. Do you speak to them like this. I see where you're coming from but you're an asshole. I'm damn there 30 years old and you're chastising me like I'm 6. Grow tf up. You could of approached this all differently. I may be annoying but I won't let 1 soul fucking disrespect me.

[DaveJord]

And this why you never learned how to act around people... and why you probably have no friends. You asked for the truth and you got it and now you attack me. So you are someone I would never have spoken to or wanted to talk with and I would unfriend, ignore and avoid otherwise.

Good luck with your life.

[DaveJord]

And for the record I never once threaten you... you just made that up... reread my post... I never once threatened you or said I would take any action against you. So that alone speaks volumes about why nobody is your friend like I did say, you sound like a spaz... and you just spazzed out on me. Don't worry about it, no need to apologies.. I already understand.

[Asker]

Your tone of text was chastising. And rude.
"Well stop being a jackass and get with the program and stop believing everything society tells you to believe. Your annoying, because you have not sense of boundaries, nobody cares about your opinions or wants to follow you on social media... so get offs social media, shut the fuck up, and stop harassing your friends about stupid shit nobody cares about."

Dude fuck u. Go to hell. Just because someone gave u wedgie all ur life doesn't mean u can treat someone else like garbage

[slatyb]

Impossible to say without more details. I'm guessing you are just too needy when you meet people. Do you monopolize conversations? Are you overflowing with TMI? Counseling might help.

Maybe find an activity group that interests you, and going and trying to be a bit quiet? It's hard to give any advice without actually meeting you.

[Sam_The_Savage]

42 cats 1 dog (boyfriend) 😂
No worries honey just relax you're not born to impress everyone. Do whatever makes you happy you're funny 😂

Why you ask question as anonymous?

[jahaims]

You become pleasant by being a good person.

[Asker]

But what if I'm annoying. I already know I am a good person... not trying to sound conceited or anything. I just need help on maybe making friends or something

[jahaims]

A good person isn't annoying. Annoying qualities stem from not being self aware or not caring that you do those actions. If you aren't self aware you can not grow.

[Asker]

Wow. I literally just made a post about how I grew up not being self aware... like yesterday. How can I become more self aware like sometimes I'm just so fucking hyper and manic i dont regard anyone around me and I'm aware of this NOW I'm just really a fucking loser. Smh

[jahaims]

Okay so regard people around you. Not that hard to think through. If you know what actions you do to annoy people you just stop those actions.

[DaveJord]

Well she just over dramatized the shit out that... Jesus women don't you see it?

[FilmGuy93]

All you have to do is literally just not make yourself a superficial and/or unpleasant person to deal with. Being liked and wanted as a woman is incredibly easy lmao

[Asker]

I don't know how to not be unpleasant. If I did this post wouldn't exist...

[FilmGuy93]

Just don't be argumentative or overly forceful with your opinions

[Asker]

So can't stand up for myself and have a strong opion as a woman. Got it

[FilmGuy93]

That's not what I said? What I said was don't be needlessly abrasive.