True or false: many women are ruining their chances of being a WIFE by sleeping around and focusing too much on career? (Page 2)
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Women who focus on becoming a wife, with no career, are extremely vulnerable in divorce as they have limited means of supporting themselves.
Exactly. I’ve seen this play out and I’ll never put myself in that risky situation.
education keeps us safe.
THEIR Life to 'spend' as they see fit...
years they can NEVER re-live for the choices NOT taken.
Though adoption is not so much frowned upon, as once was.
( And the ONLY option for LGBTQ partners)
The Native Americans have a saying: "TAKE nothing but MEMORIES, ... and leave nothing but footprints"
the poll is very telling , guys split 50/50 , girls heavily say its false. i suppose a lot of girls sleep around when there like 18-20 so that stage of life is long past by the time there looking to get married usually mid to late 20's.
I think that if they focus so hard in one direction they'll let time past them by. People come and go but you also have to live. As a man you have to pick a side. Show her the support she won't forget you. If she makes time you don't take it for granted.
While careers have logically nothing to do with a person possible chance of marriage but constantly sleeping around with others might be it. What happened if you tried meeting a nice guy/girl who finds out your sexual pass, it would realistically worry them if the guy or girl is faithful or not.
As a man I think it is very hypocritical that always has been to call a man that sleeps around with as many women as he can instead yet a woman who sleeps around and may enjoy sex as much as any man it was referred to as a s*** w****. If a woman wants to have a f******* life and enjoy a career more power to her.
Add to the list disfiguring themselves with tattoos, piercings (especially in the nose) and weird coloured hair.
There seems to be a contest among young women to make themselves as physically repulsive as possible.
Not so much the seeking career part. However there is a balance that needs to be struck between career and personal. This applies to men as well.
The sleeping around is different. No man wants a woman who sleeps around the town.
Promiscuity is a turn off to me for sure. But if she's career driven or not Idc so much as long as she likes what she's doing and not working over so many hours as I need my alone time with her.
Career is not the issue. It's just women aren't loyal these days or have a high body count that turns men off.
False. Only insecure partners who couldn't handle them would say so. :)
I don't know any women that are focusing "too much" on their career lol, but that's not a bad thing! Or many that are "sleeping around", and if so, probably aren't "advertising" it. That's not necessarily "bad" either, depending on her and the circumstances. Who doesn't like sex?
Lately, I think people remain teenagers forever. It used to be something that was only clearly seen in men, but now it is even more evident in women. People don't want to become Husbands or Wives and continue to behave at 20, 30, 40, 50 as they did when they were 14. It is not a question of study or career, it is a question of values in life, and current values are not adult values, but adolescent values.
Yes, they are good individually but destructive together. Women while young sleep around with bad boys, most good guys stay single and focus on their careers. Now that after a certain age and established career women want quality men with careers and will not date those bad boys anymore as they don't have carriers. Now the good men with careers can date young women who are more fun and without career burden as they had been ignored their whole life.
It's a circle of misery.
First, you know that both wen and men can sleep around while focusing on a good career right? The weekend and Friday night are for that.
Second, good guys get laid while they are young too. Any guy that takes care of himself and has some social skills can get laid.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 that depends, sleeping around is way easy for women than men, and men generally pursue higher careers than most women. Most high-quality and high-paying jobs require a lot of education and hard work at the beginning.
Not anymore. Times are changing. While both things you said are mostly true, is easier for women to have sex and more men persue high careers, that is dying more and more. Women today want to be successful in the workplace, in fact most management university students today are girls. And guys have sex easier due to hookup culture and women's sexual freedom.
by that logic what's the point of marrying a man then? It's very easy and quite common for women to become abused by their husbands/boyfriends when they are financially depended to them. I agree that men like younger women and I accept that but that gives me more reasons to become financially secured cause in less than ten years my husband may not find me attractive anymore and would either cheat on me or break up/divorce with me thus wasting my time either way.
*get abused
@poof_22 Women like older women too. I have seen my friends dating 10-20 years older guys while being 20-25. It's not about maturity. Older guys are dumping them too after sex, but they will not date a not so popular similar-aged guy with less money. Plus women are always hypergamous even if they are not total gold diggers. Women with high education and money only look for men with similar or more status. But those men are happy to date less qualified women, so a lot of career women find it very hard to land on men of their desire.
Today women make more than their men partners in 1/3 of all relationships. A good chunk of women have no issue with a partner that makes less. My wife makes more than me.
There's a plathora of traditional and none traditional women. However, the thing is that marriage is not that beneficial to women as we think. Statistics show that even thought both modern couples that work the same hours and gain the same amount of money, women are still the ones doing the majority of household chores and childcare... so basically women work 24/7 lol If she wants to keep her standards high so be it cause she ain't losing much either way.
*as we think
too many typos and grammar errors but ignore it.
@poof_22 yes cause women don't choose the men who will share equal chores with them. Let's say I am a guy who can and will do equal work with you at home and outside. But I am seeing almost every guy that I know, doesn't do those stuff at all, yet their girlfriends love them like crazy. In real life, I have actually seen a lot of women lose respect if the man cooks, cleans, and sews stuff. One of my guy friends is getting married and I talked with his fiancee's a little back. She was very excited to take care of his man after marrige. That will make me wonder why I have to do much in mine.
I know a lot of women who wished their partner helped them with the chores, some even found it hot if they did that which is pretty sad Lmao Was their partner the primary privoder? If so their reactions would make sense since its usually traditional women who risk being financially depended on the man.
Those girls unfortunately end up with dudes that are usually not good , or end up settling for a guy they don’t love.
The career? Not necessarily, unless you are unbalanced about it. The sleeping around? Definitely. I don't know many men who would knowingly shop for used and damaged goods.
Nah, that's what misogynists tell you in order to shame you for making your own money and afford your own living and not be able to be taken a financial hostage (so that you are cheated on while he has a secret 19 year old sugar baby on the side, that he sees after work in the hotel).
Focusing on your career is never 'too' much. You are chasing your dreams and you surely have to give it all.
Rather than being gender specific, people who come from a traditional and cultured background would never prefer 'people' who sleeps around.
That aside, i prefer ambitious, career driven women. I and my people these days prefer women like that
Finally someone made sense. This world needs more people like you❤
if marriage is a goal for said women then yeah those have the potential to get in the way
Sleeping around is definitely not attractive and if she is too wrapped up in her career, that is not attractive either.