I agree trust should be number one. As for the abuse and chivalry connection I think that is bogus. That is just a guy being nice in order to suck you in for the abuse. I wouldn't call that Chivalry because if there is abuse afterwards then it's just a guy being diabolical not chivarlous.
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Do you think the guy should always drive to the girl and pay for dates?
@Priv9696 It depends, I've done dates where I just meet someone somewhere for the first date, and we both pay for ourselves. I've also done them where he picks me up and pays, cause he asked me out or I drive and pick him up cause I asked him out.First dates are always the harder ones to know, after a few it gets easier to figure out.If I do not like him that way, then I'm okay hanging out as friends and always paying for myself.it just varies to the situation.
Hi, would you cnsider an older man like me?
@curry_uncle That is very sweet of you, but I am happily in a relationship with a wonderful man. I will take the compliment that you asked! ❤️
Would you leave him for my chivalry?
@curry_uncle Likely no as he is quite the gentleman himself. Sorry.
@curry_uncle hmmm getting a bit weird there aren't you?
@PrettyPriya Every girl likes a man who opens the door for her and spanks her ass hard when she passes by! It it not true?
@John_Michaels_2020 Not this girl. So, I will have to say false.
@yyyuuuiii thanks man!
So you mean that women should do the same for men?
If she's not civil then she's no lady
Yes, so I've seen ape like men, of course, and women who behave like the five letter word. We all should be civil and act accordingly.
You don't understand what chivalry is. It cannot exist in am equal society it is inherently unequal.
I do understand to an extent and i dont believe that majority of men were chivalrous in the past. I did not see any old man who were chivalrous to his wife for example. It is just a myth that is created by hollywood in my opinion
That is why i believe that modern men are thousand times better and more chivalrous than men in the past
Am i chivalrous when i open a door for a man which i often do for everyone? Chivalrous is just another word for being nice. And you should be nice to your partner. Doing some romantic lovely gestures or being chivalrous such as opening the door etc is normal to me. Everyone do unnecasary but clingy/chivalrous things like opening the door for your partner.
I've experienced this as well. Only from the "Chad" perspective. You know how many times a girl complains about certain behaviors from men, yet I happen to show these behaviors as well. And when I ask them to show me how they look like, they are always unattractive. And when I call them out on it by saying that I did these things as well, but for some reason I'm allowed to, they giggle and say "Yeah, but you're different".
@TruthBringer Yeah dude I've experience the same thing. When it comes to chivalries, jokes and even harassments women can be very hypocrites. The same law applied to "betas" genetics wise do not apply to alphas looks wise. That's why I say men should be careful whenever receiving advices from women, they usually say that being yourself and nice is enough, but when they say that, they're most likely thinking about a dude handsome like Harry Cavil.
Oh I stopped taking women's advice a LONG TIME ago. You should ask the fisherman on how to catch fish, not the fish itself. Often they themselves don't even know what they want. They say they want A, but they often go for B. My knowledge about female nature comes from both experience and other MEN. The last thing I would do is listen to a woman when it comes to this topic. Their values and truths change with their feelings. And we all know their feelings change like the seasons.
Why do you think that is?
@Jamie05rhs well from personal experience, I have found that some men tend to think they know more about what I want then I do myself. I am sure there are more reasons and that it's a lot more complex than that, but that is what I have seen.
@Subarugirl What is it that you want?
Well chivalry is defined as courteous behavior, so yes, I would not only want that, I would expect that from any romantic partner.
@Subarugirl Maybe they act that way with you because you're just immature
@OneManOnly01 well that's calling the kettle black, don't you think.. shouldn't you be in school right now? Maybe brushing up on your sex ed?
@Subarugirl I'm really exhausted of this. Why don't you ever talk to me without taking jabs every time?
@Subarugirl Also, were you still in school when you were 18? I think you took a very long time to finish school
Lol. Sounds like you've dated too many egotistical guys that want to order for you.
@red324 ordering for a woman is a turn on …men just don’t guess what they want lol she’s involved
@coachTanthony Fuuuck that! I ain't ordering anyone else's meal. I don't date children.
Actually, as a matter of fact, if I was with a kid (whether my own or a nephew or niece), I would let them order their own food, too!
@Jamie05rhs lot of women don't like this
@Jamie05rhs He's talking about asking them what they want to eat and then ordering that food for them
@OneManOnly01 Yes exactly. It’s sophisticated especially at a five star restaurant. But I digress lol
@Subarugirl there is also a discrepancy between what women “say” they want vs. what they really want.
"well from personal experience, I have found that some men tend to think they know more about what I want then I do myself"- Maybe because they observe your actions and take that seriously rather than your words. And this may not specifically apply to you, but I hear often women complain that men tend to know what they want better than them. Which in the case of men who actually induldged in learning female nature and manage to be successful with wooing them is indeed true. Women don't always know what they want. They think they do by saying they want A, but often go for B. Actions speak louder than words. Again, this may not apply to you, but may very well be the case. Just because you don't like the idea of someone knowing what you want better than you yourself, doesn't mean they aren't wrong when that person actually observed your actions and see a contradiction with your words.
@coachTanthony 5-star restaurants perpetuate the old order of aristocracy and patriarchy.
@Jamie05rhs You can eat on the side of the road, nobody said you can't. Just try not to get run over by a vehicle
@OneManOnly01 I know. I don't do that shit. She should have her own voice, and not have to have her wishes and desires filtered through me. A woman is a human being equal to a man. You know they can own their own bank accounts these days? They can even vote! 😱. (sarcasm)
@OneManOnly01 Ha Ha. Very funny.
@Jamie05rhs And they can eat the food they want, why does it matter if they order it or the man does as long as she's eating what she wants to eat?
@OnlyManOnly01 I have absolutely nothing against people with disabilities. But I don't date mute women.
@Jamie05rhs So since you want her to do everything by herself, DON'T EVER do anything for a woman! If she's getting crushed by a wrecked car don't save her let her do it herself okay?
@OneManOnly01 If she NEEDS help, I will gladly help her.
@Jamie05rhs You're a stupid clown, what's your preferred pronoun?
@Subarugirl Just curious, what do you think of genderfluids?
@OneManOnly01 that topic is not relevant and I'm over the bigotry towards the LGBTQ community.
@Jamie05rhs LOL it's called being classy.
@coachTanthony I AM classy! But I'm also a feminist. That "traditional" stuff doesn't fly with me. I find it repulsive.
@Jamie05rhs It's biological. Men are born to lead, protect and provide. Women are attracted to these qualities whether they like it or not. Sorry.
@coachTanthony Well said, but both feminists & male feminists will never grasp that reality. Denial is a classic defence mechanism for those who don't possess these qualities.
@Jamie05rhs You're a feminist? Are you also a masochist? And are you a man?
@coachTanthony I'm not attracted to those types of women. Sorry.
@OneManOnly01 Yes, I am a man. Yes, I am a feminist. No, I am not a masochist. Nor am I a sadist.
Just let it slam back in their face😂