Why are there so many single dad's out there not living with their child?

[dsgaboy]

Women initiate divorce 80% of the time

Men leave

Women cheat

Men cheat

[hahahmm]

Feminism celebrates women being individualistic which is totally against being a good relationship partner. The culture today tells women that it's a virtue to be a single mom. The government gives financial incentives to these women too. Also role modeling... studies have found that the daughter or sister of a single mom is 4-5 times more likely to become a single mom herself.

Guys need to think way longer before they go trusting/impregnating women. A lot of guys chose the wrong woman! At the end of the day, men can only control our own actions so it's time to stop giving attention to women who haven't really earned it and just looking hot or being a short term girlfriend doesn't cut it. But yes... it's a lot harder to think this way than to focus on having fun.

[dsgaboy]

That's really really sad how women think

[Crappants]

probably cos they didn't want a kid, but jus ended up with a kid as a consequence of jus wanting to bust a nut and not wearing a rubber or pulling out, theyre basically careless fucks who dont care bout the child they bring into the world, only care about the feeling in their dick

[Wonderer89]

Because women are still responsible for the majority of child rearing, and men are typically still the breadwinners. It’s still not common for men to take as much time off work to stay home with babies despite efforts to equalise parenting roles and studies show children under 4 should remain with one primary care giver. It’s hard to shift that balance once they are older but where possible it should as long as the father can give as much time as the mother was which often means taking a step back at work.

As to why the relationship failed in the first place it’s a multitude of reasons. Just because women more commonly fill out the paperwork for a divorce doesn’t mean she’s completely at fault - it just means she does more paperwork.

[dsgaboy]

Men work women stay home to raise the children, they both involve work, one is different than the other because they're different roles... KEEP IT THAT WAY AND THERE WILL BE NO ISSUES BUT NO WOMEN FELT HELD BACK IN LIFE BOOO WHOOO

[Wonderer89]

And when a couple separates there is then two households to support. Is the man going to quit his job to stay at home with his children?

Never mind, you didn’t want an actual answer or to discuss the actual fallacies in the support system of separated parents to justify skewed custody issues. Just want to shit on women boooo w (h?) ooo

[caitycat21]

The most commonly reported major contributors to divorce were lack of commitment, infidelity, and conflict/arguing. The most common “final straw” reasons were infidelity, domestic violence, and substance use. In my grandmas case she was being abused and that’s why she divorced her husband. Same went for my mom.


A lot of this goes unreported. I can’t speak for other though, that was just their experience

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Most women "take" the kids, mostly out of spite and their attempt to "punish" the man for whatever it is that made her decide to cheat and destroy the marriage.

[dsgaboy]

Yup that seems to be every woman's M. O.

[Mikejones2813308004]

So most of the time the court favors the women for anything for example if you work all day and she doesn’t she’ll win the kid because she can spend more time with them. Only way the man wins is if the woman is doing drugs sadly.

[dsgaboy]

And this is why some men don't want anything to do with women, the only reason we talk to women is to get in between their legs, with the courts the way they are, the JUICE ISN'T WORTH THE SQUEEZE ANYMORE

[Flower7]

Because they don’t want to be with the child’s mother.

[dsgaboy]

Probably because she is fat

[anylolone]

Most of those have been alienated from the child way before divorce.

[michael1469]

Because of a biased court system