A lot of women are frivolous. They have a time table to get married by a certain age because they think it is a maturity milestone. Women often are very immature and have low self-esteem so they feel they need to prove it to the world that they are in fact mature… Hmpf, I got married I am to mature look at me *stomps feet*… It’s an identity confusion thing. They want autonomy from their parents, but they don’t want to feel alone so they latch on to some other random man that just barely passes muster and treats her OK. As a result they often get married just to enjoy excitement of the attention, pageantry, and status. Then later they bail on the relationship with excuses like they got married too young. Another common one is that there was a lack of commitment. They will see their spouse as just a friend, not a lover because the romance and drama isn’t there. Like I said, a lot of them are immature… They want life to be a romance novel with twists and turns. They like emotional roller coasters and like to stir up shit… This leads to another big cause of divorce, arguments. After reality sets in and their dream isn’t all that they thought it would be with their fancy White dress, rice, and dancing to wedding singers, they start to want things they didn’t look for in a man to begin with. They start trying to change the guy and train him to be what their fantasy of a man is, like he’s some sort of shit they bought at a store. Men being their own person don’t change into what they want him to be, so women think there is some sort of communication problem. Why isn’t he doing what I want him to do hmpf this isn’t working… So they start fights. Those fights continue to escalate and they enjoy the ups and downs of drama for a while, and then they get bored and want out because all the sudden there is just too much arguing even though they started it. A lot of women are just unhappy in general. They live depressed sad lives due to their own decisions. Often women will try to compensate for their inadequacy with money. They will partake in shopping therapy to try to fill the void in their soul. This often leads to large credit card bills, which leads to financial problems, which leads to fights over money which is another huge cause of divorce. Women continue that pattern with infidelity many times. They guy she is married to gives her this or that, but another guy can give her some other form of emotional support or excitement that she isn’t getting at home. Young women cheat far more than young men which is another common reason for divorce. Men tend to cheat later in life so that doesn’t relate much to single moms. Be careful who you marry, there are a lot of crazy women out there that are unstable and just lead very unhappy lives.
Wow.. Being that I am a student in criminology I just had to comment.. Its amazing, You sure think you know all the answers about women without even being one! Lol..
And no I'm not a feminist by the way. Some women are not like this at all.. Think of her more like a tigress. They are independent and they walk Alone. Most men that have issues with women, it stems from there childhood and issues with there mother in particular.. Vice versa women that have issues with thieir fathers.
@Dollface1991 nobody makes those claims lady, your just too much into your feelings right now. You women have to stop that shit
My answer wasn't a poll option but it's pretty simple. It has to do with what is natural, and what is artificially put in place by culture.
It's natural to want to have unprotected sex, which produces babies. It feels good, and humans are genetically coded to desire sex, as a sexually reproducing mammal species.
It's unnatural for sexually reproducing species to have "monogamous" relationships, which are an artificial construct created by culture. It began based off the idea that females of the species are inferior and as such, a resource for the "superior" males to barter with when negotiating with each other for land grabs, establishing alliances, and resource trading. It has been perpetuated by both genders in a similar vein: to extract commitment to a "deal", where the goods/services are the people themselves.
There are some who claim animals mate for life, but this scientific and statistic-based article dispels those fantasies.. As the article states, "Of the roughly 5,000 species of mammals, only 3 to 5 percent are known to form lifelong pair bonds... even the creatures that do pair and mate for life occasionally have flings on the side..." (sexual activity with additional partners is not considered faithful monogamy by human standards).
So to answer your question about single mothers, it's because it is natural. You'll see lots of single parents in other animals, it doesn't surprise me at all to see it in humans. I imagine only people who would be surprised or confused by this are those who hold irrational beliefs about the nature of humans.
I have seen women who plan their life this way, I know of two examples right now.
One has five kids with five guys, this way she can collect five child support payments. No need to work, and lives off the child support, currently looking for a well off guy to make another baby with, hope men stay away from her.
The other is similar, but instead doing child support when the babies came, she said she didn't know who the father was, went to a party got drunk and had sex with dozens of guys that she didn't know the names of. This way she gets lots of state help and doesn't have to deal with visitation and custody issues.
I am not sure how common/uncommon that is, but there is low income areas that are known for this here.
In these cases they never actually got married, just hook ups. For the married ones, likely that women file is more often than men for whatever reason.
That's crazy.
@jay3344 @Jamie05rhs Yes it is and harmful to the children, likely why there is 2nd and 3rd generation people doing this.
That's sad. 😕
Most of your answers seem to be aimed at the woman leaving.
Relationships don’t have to be permanent anymore. Women can have kids and work without men so are more likely to leave. I was a single mum. It wasn’t my fault and most of the blame was on him. He slept with my best mate, took drugs and constantly drank. He wasn’t like that when we started going out. He kind of detached from the kids and I. I just got sick of his BS and left. So women don’t have to put up with crappy behaviour anymore
Its normal for men to be like that when the woman doesn't fulfill the feminine role. I know i get that way and its not even consciously. I just resent a woman if i have to be the one scrubbing the kitchen she's busy working. And a lot of the other things modern relationship people feel is normal. I personally would never be with a woman who works because i already know i would not be able to behave for her for a long period of time. So i see other guys in the same situations cope through the behaviors you're talking about and it makes sense. When i was young my girlfriend didn't work but one day wanted to and i started drinking playing video games all day and cheating. I didn't know why but years later and a few more relationships and now i know what the problem was and have since been able to avoid it with no issues.
We were friends for years then together for a few years before we had the kids. He wasn’t like that in the beginning, he changed as time went on 🤷🏻♀️ it happens. It’s all worked out for the best in the end
Women choose bad men in the first place. Women are the ones destroying relationships.
Dear lord... YOU picked HIM!!! And then got naked and fucked him. Quit making excuses.
@bamesjond0069 wow your a cunt
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As many of the women are saying it’s a two way thing. Both men and women are at fault, so with each of these reasons I’m speaking about both. Anybody who solely or almost solely blames the opposite sex is just biased.
1. People often date and have sex based on fun and excitement, without any sensible long-term considerations. They’re adult children. The woman gets knocked up, the guy doesn’t want a kid, they break up.
2. Many of us were raised in broken homes, and for many this means that they were never shown a good example of what a healthy relationship should be or how it should work. Nor were they given any guidance. They don’t know how to make a relationship work.
3. Our culture is just toxic, completely degenerate. Bad influences everywhere. Sex obsessed. Lack of morality. People are obsessed with getting laid, being desired by a bunch of the opposite sex, chasing validation.
4. Everybody has common sense answers to these questions but then they support a bunch of things which encourage this degenerate culture. People are idiots.
This is only speculation but the nuclear family at this point is just unstable. Marriage is an economic agreement, Marriage has always been an institution made to benefit the rich so that they can keep hoarding their immense wealth.
Because of the fact that workers are just way too overworked and have little time on their hands the idea of even having close relationships is extremely difficult. Dating and relationships are commodified with dating sites which prioritize physical appearance over actual human connections. Loneliness is on the rise despite us being in the digital age of social media.
That’s my observation as to why so many people aren’t getting married/single mothers at least
Ha you're a smart kid. Hopefully young people like you will bring the solutions we need.
Thank you :)
Mostly I think it comes down to people in general valuing present pleasure over long term planning. It’s more fun to have sex now and ignore the potential consequences than to either make sure the person you’re sleeping with is a good partner or to take steps to avoid pregnancy.
Putting it all one women or all on men kind of skirts around the fact that you need one of each to get someone pregnant. Single mothers just can’t ignore the consequences of their actions as easily as deadbeat dads so get stuck with most of the stigma.
This is what happens when people sleep around without birth control or condoms, a night of fun leads to pregnancy, the baby comes out of women so sometimes she gets stuck with cause the guy can run, sometime she don't know which guy it is and the guy don't even know a kid exist now, sometimes the dude is a piece of shit so she kicks him out.
Point is the moms tend to get stuck with the kid or want the kid more often. There are some single dads with the kids but the mom has to be a HUUUUUGE fuckup before courts give dad's custody.
So "dads" can run, dads can be kept away from the kids, and some dads don't even know they made a kid so that's why there appear to be more single moms, mostly cause there are more single moms.
Because conservative school boards and education commissions don't actually give a damn about taking their responsibility seriously and actually improving children's futures by investing resources in programs that help them become independent. The rabid screamers that have all the time in the world to disrupt school board meetings but never to talk to their own children also aren't doing anything to relieve the problem.
It's also the economy, stupid. Single motherhood is often the only career option open to a lot of young girls whose home lives become too claustrophobic, and you really don't see any teen moms on Rodeo Drive and 5th Avenue, do you?
Single moms are women who want to cuck a man but werent smart enough to pull it off directly
@RandomDude21114165 Who are you go judge lol. I can pull off anything I have. Let me say anyone that needs attention and act out like this to do it and even spits anything like this out of his mouth is why he can't get laid and is bitter about it. Big man hiding behind a keyboard to get attention lol. No life? Why do you care what anyone does lol. No life? I do whatever and no I am amazing. I don't care what some loser prob at home with mommy thinks lol. Try harder.
@RandomDude21114165 want to insult or upset me on some internet nonsense try harder lol. You make yourself look dumb isn't going to effect my sleep or money lol. Men like you hate confident women that make the money, do what they want and handle the buisness. Try it sometime lol. You are not like someone that can upset me that the dumbest nonsense I have ever read? What happened a girl did that noise to you lol. Prob you seem desperate for attention she prob dominated the hell out of you lol. So sad self hate you convey. Get some help for those issues dang you drip in them. Maybe an education would help clearly you don't have one. I do it's how I can read ya like a clock give me a break. Waste of my time.
Conservatives are pro school choice :) so just not accurate
@Joshua0213 You owe it to yourself to do some research on what is meant by school choice because you obviously don't know.
That you don't have to go to the shit school :)
A and C are true. Single motherhood can either be due to divorce, or out-of-wedlock births. In both cases, it the woman that leaves in majority of the cases. Me leave more than women in one case only, if it was a casual hook up and they wanted nothing to do with a baby, but the womsn decided to bring the child into the world against the man's choice. In relationships when the man wants to be a father but the couple aren't married, it's usually women who break up and prevent the man from seeing his children while requesting he pays child support. We all know what divorce statistics look like, 80% of divorces initiated by women and the number goes up to 90% for college-educated women. It's a messy situation.
People lacked the ability to stay celibate til marriage and gave into temptation. They werent with who they thought and someone ended up a single parent. Now if theyre single after having once been married, its often because one of the partners cheated or was abusive
Or died
a. She thought having a baby would hook him so she 'forgot' to take birth control.
a2. She can't keep a man cause she's not high quality.
b. He's dumb enough to impregnate a woman he knows isn't good girlfriend/mom/wife material.
b2. She lets guys who aren't good dad material impregnate her.
c. She has lots of financial incentives from the government & she's lazy.
d. Studies found that if a female is raised in a home with a sister or mom who is a single mom then she's 3-4 times more likely to also become a single mom. It snowballs.
d2. Bitter single moms teach their daughters not to trust any man and to be stupid about birth control/sleeping around.
e. Lack of social shaming in the modern age means there's little pressure on women to not be single moms.
Immature males raised without strong male role models, culture that praises high body count, society that models lack of accountability, need for instant gratification. Women raised without strong men in her life, raised seeing moms poor choice in men, glorification of drug dealers, criminals etc makes them seem appealing, may not be looking for traditional family, etc etc etc the factors are endless faulting both men and women. It's shitty and self imposed in many ways, forced by ignorance in others.
Breakups when they had a kid at a younger age. It's not always the guy though, sometimes the mother is a hot head too.
There were some nice girls that even I never expected to birth a child at 14, like they were smart and making As easily. Cute boy enters their life, pro life, and unprotected sex while being fertile just adds up. I remember my g/f at the time was like "yeah that's not happening to us" Her mom got her on birth control early.
My cousin got on the pill at 15. I think it's just the avenue that my aunt got pregnant at a young age and wasn't keen on her daughter making the same mistake.
Interesting that you did not ask why so many with kids are divorced but zoomed in on single moms!
Given it takes a man and a woman to make a baby, the reason seems obvious - the man does not take responsibility for the child post separation/ break up / divorce as the case may be.
a small percentage could also be because of surrogacy (either wanting a kid but not a man or surrogacy gone wrong)…
even smaller percentage could be pregnancy from unknown male - drunk and fucked or rape or prostitution..
by the way I have been a single mom for 8 years and have chosen to be single because my sons dad would want nothing to do with him. I am all he has. And he turned out to be an amazing young man in junior high.
He wanted nothing to do with you and your anxious, neurotic, hateful, controlling spirit
What dad wants their kids to hate them. Obviously it wasn't his kids he left. It was the other adult
@RandomDude2111419
I deeply feel sorry for you that you believe this especially when you don’t even know me. May there be light in your life.
I think i know human nature well enough to say a man wouldn't leave his kids. He left the demon that spawned them
you're used to your smalltown where everyone believes your bullshit. This is the internet
Because we live in a time humans refuse to take self responsibilities.
“She was ra##d”
“It was an accident”
“I don’t like condoms”
And etc..
Please now. Who cares about the consequences.
There are 14 different type of pills plus up to 3 months girls can take the abortion pills.
But they avoid all that.. just because.
A lot of girls think guy will leave but a child won’t.
And being raised by a single mother. Without a father absolutely sucks!!
Especially for boys.
because the government subsidizes it. If there was no government financial incentive it wouldn't be this way. Like... If getting a divorce or getting pregnant out of wedlock meant that both parents would be financially forced to move back in with their parents, there'd be about 90% less single moms. I remember when I was a young child there was one kid in my elementary school with no father and it was a "big deal". Now this dynamic has spawned a culture that not only accepts but encourages the behaviors that lead to this. There is still a very very low divorce and out of wedlock pregnancy in many countries where the government disincentivizes single parenthood. If you get divorced or have an illegitimate child in China, the parents are basically fucked, It will be hard to even register your child for school. the divorce rate in China is nearly zero
D all of the above. Some guys are just about f ing and that's it. Some guys want sex and a relationship. Unfortunately women usually go for the the former. some Women expect a lot from men, tons of cash, giant house, giant dick. It's a lot of pressure for guys. We're supposed to do it all. Sometimes women are way too obsessed with finding that dream guy who doesn't exist and ignore guys who have a lot of the qualities they want but aren't willing to give them a chance. Be it weight, hobbies, car, career, women ignore them and wonder why after 4 kids with like 1-4 guys why men treat them bad and assume all men are evil rapists and "pigs". So unless you've were raped having kids with someone is a choice and they made it and they chose who they were with. So it's a lot of things.
Men leave period.
Men leave by cheating and betraying their partner.
Or by literally leaving.
And because of that; the baby grows up witnessing the separation and watching the cheating or growing up without a father figure. So the cycle of the cheating pigs repeat.
I had bad things happen to me as a kid, and as a result I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy, I don't recreate the behaviour. I'm pretty damn sure this "hurt people hurt people" reasoning is complete bullshit.
@ManHater me closing my legs doesn’t mean one of you pigs won’t cheat
@emyywolf Maturity calls for accountability. You talk about how bad men are by cheating and leaving, yet you're the ones who open your legs for these men. It takes two to tango. If you happen to be more picky and choose to try and find an actual decent man instead of someone who gives you the tingles by displaying his 'bad boy' charisma, maybe you wouldn't be in the position you are in.
By you closing your legs may not stop certain men out there from cheating, but it does help YOU not deal with the negative consequences.
Oh and fun fact: women cheat around the same as men.
@TruthBringer So I’m not supposed to sleep with a man whatsoever to avoid him cheating on me?
STFU! Get tf out of here! You’re literally one of those!
"me closing my legs doesn’t mean one of you pigs won’t cheat". But at least you can be content knowing that they never got to have you. So you didn't lose anything. They never took anything from you.
@Jamie05rhs So tie saying I should not have sex ever in my life to score getting cheated on?
STFU
@EmmyWolf You said previously that you don't want a relationship anyway. So why does it matter?
But no. Theoretically, you should only have sex with someone after they've made a commitment to you and proven themself faithful.
@emyywolf “STFU! Get tf out of here! You’re literally one of those!“
Funny you say this after I’ve spent an entire day taking care of my sick girlfriend, cooking, cleaning and going outside multiple times to get her whatever she needed. I’ve also actually never ever cheated in my relationship or any of my previous relationships. But nice to see you’re struggling with some cognitive dissonance and start to throw shallow ad hominems to defame my character. All in a desperate attempt to dodge accountability based on common sense.
No genius, nobody told you that you cannot sleep with a man just to avoid getting cheated on. People are telling you to choose your mates strategically and do whatever it takes to lessen the odds as much as you can of getting emotionally wrecked by the types who are known to do the things you’re complaining about. Some reading comprehension training will do you good. But I can honestly smell some misandry coming from you, so not sure whatever logic will actually get through you. Because it’s always men’s fault, isn’t it?
Too many guys are overwhelmed with the responsibility that comes with having a child. They leave the moment they see a chance.
They blame women getting pregnant and are just too focused on their pleasure, they are not ready to settle down and feels its their right to have sex as much as they want.
Lots of reasons. Here are a few...
- Hookup culture
- Men who get women pregnant and are not ready or willing to be fathers (no different from women who have abortions, except men don't have that option).
- Women who have sex with men without considering whether they would stick around.
- Half of marriages end in divorce (women file 70% of them) and many divorced fathers are not allowed to be part of their child's life.
- It is often financially advantageous for women to divorce men.
- Some women never tell the father of their child that he has a son or daughter.
Also, there is a large number of women are single mothers by choice. There is even a Single Mothers by Choice organization to encourage them. Personally I can't think of a more selfish thing to do as a parent than to CHOOSE to bring a child into the world knowing he/she will not have a father in their life given the fact that fatherless children suffer in so many ways their entire lives.
www.singlemothersbychoice.org/
I only know why some are single mothers, I am talking about the ones who were never married to child's father (this excludes rape victims). Its because of:
Poor choice in men
Men who are shooting their loads into women without taking responsibilties are degenerate morons.
Hook up culture.
Low self esteem.
Basically stupid people that should not be having sex in general.
BS sexual liberation on both gender. (Male and Female Whores)
Tough question, the single mothers I know were either knocked up without any intention of getting together, thus they are now single mothers. Those that were married, if they had kids all they did was get divorced and now single mothers.
I was a single father raising my daughter, so I am on the other side of this topic.
It takes two to tango.. there are as many single dads as much as single mums. I can rephrase this question and ask you the same: why are there so many single dads?
or
why don’t parents supervise their kids/not teach them about the consequences of practicing unsafe sex?
Culture and media, also modern feminism.
"Have sex sex sex", WAP!!! Rap songs, pop songs, pop culture...
It's all over the place, have sex younger and younger, it's okay, women just have sex like all men supposedly do... Oh you're pregnant, just kill the baby and do it again. Too late for an abortion? Oh well.
I hope you see my point, culture is destroying societies, this playing fast and loose, this anti marriage and anti religious society is leading to lives without purpose. (I'm atheist for the record)
We need a push for responsibility, this includes areas in sex and behaviors.
It's not a new development, since I was born out of wedlock in 1970. There were a lot of single moms than 2 🤗. It probably just seems like an increasing problem because divorce and single moms in wedlock just wasn't done in the 40s and NOT SO NIFTY FIFTEES
From my experience, the most common reason for single moms is men abandoning their children. Divorce really isn't the most common reason for single motherhood. Its quite common for men to not take responsibility towards their kids.
Being a single mother isn't as stigmatized as some decades before. Women by then usually got a shotgun marriage, had the baby somewhere else, or had abortions to hide their "shame".
Also, a lot of men leave their partner to never come back.
Because human beings as a whole don't want to take accountability for their actions. Women have unrealistic options and tend to lack loyalty while men who have high value tend to not want to be stuck with one woman and so they have multiple kids with multiple women. It's a cycle. And the children pay for it. It's a monolith to pure selfishness and the children carry the burden of the parents who committed such heinous acts.
I don't think it categorizes that simple... at least not all of it
Lots of unique situations out there...
Got myself in a similar situation...
Sometimes it's one person, sometimes both made bad decisions... in my case, a court needs to figure that out bc I'm tired of her fckn it up and me caring for it
The woman has sex with the man expecting that, once she gets pregnant, the man will be more likely to stay.
The man gives in expecting the situation to be nicer than what really is. But after a while she realizes there's all kinds of unexpected issues. For example that the woman is a problematic person.
Bottom-line: both rushed and acted based on fantasy.
Poor choices in men, widowed, not getting on the pill or using condoms while hooking up recklessly, and even the unfortunate event of rape.
Let's not forget about those that choose to be single mothers and are capable of pulling it off without a man.
Irresponsible men, most probably. It's easy to make a baby but taking responsibility isn't.
I was raised by a single mom and a sister, because my father was good at making babies but not at taking care of them, as the many brothers I have indicate, so I'd never do the same, if some day I impregnate a woman. Sometimes I think this is the only way for me to have a family of my own.
Social changes and endorcement of being single led to people not wanting to stay commited. In past years it wasn't socially acceptable. Men mostly just want sex, but before they had to get married to be able to have sex. Now if you don't like the woman you live with, you can just leave her and find another one ( and you could have sex with her).
A combination of things.
#1: The relationship didn't work with her baby's father for whatever reason.
#2: Divorce happened.
#3: The father is dead or in prison.
#4: The father is seriously sick or has major health concerns which doesn't allow him to be with that woman and his kid.
#5: The woman was raped.
#6: The man abandoned the woman.
#7: The woman abandoned the man.
Having sex with a man that has no intentions of committing to her/marriage etc.
Depends on the individuals situation. I know single dads too. It can be for a bunch of different reasons. I know a woman whose spouse passed away when he was in his late 20s (I think) and she had a daughter with him. It’s a sad thing to talk about, but that’s a possibility.
Men are so cruel. men tricks women with sweet words, then has sex with girls and leaves the women. however, if women were smart and did not have sex before marriage, they would not allow this cruelty of men.
"Men are so cruel" You mean the top tier men who display bad boy charisma that seem to work in getting you. Don't conflate the top tier men who know how to woo a woman with the majority of men. If women in their mass stop getting tricked by sweet words and actually start to believe the actions, perhaps all of this 'cruelty' wouldn't have a chance of happening. And I'm happy you've given a practical solution by mentioning that women should wait until marriage before having sex. That's one very easy way to weed out those mischievious men. In the end, if a woman ends up spreading her legs (willingly) for the wrong man, she is also to be held accountable for her own actions. It takes two to tango, afterall.
You rush things, get married have kids.. Like why do have to do all that? Or fall for the bad boy. Takes a long time to know if you were meant to be together. Marriages are silly, a silly religious thing, that tells (dicates) you how to live life. In the end if I had a child with someone, I'd be doing my part. I do not get how a lot of husband's get away with not doing much. And the poor wife works all day, gets gone works some more.
Usually because of shitty boyfriends who were abusive and/or just super toxic, or she cheated on the boyfriend with an ex or random dude, but sometimes the relationship just didn't work out or fell out of love... or a 1-night stand that ended up with a pregnancy
That is what happens when people have sex as a recreational activity or as means to get something they want - they forget that it is primarily a way to reproduce and are then wery surprised when pregnancy occurs.
seems relationships get hard at some points, during times of change, and relationships blow up.
Selfishness, belief they are better off alone than working through it together.
curse of the 1960's?
People are too stupid or lazy to figure out how birth control works or to use it properly. While sometimes this stuff fails. I think if you really dug in. Most instances of failure would lead you to user error.
Cause' guys pump n' dump. They bang a chick, then if she gets pregnant, they say, "Nah-uh, fuck that shit" and leave, leaving the chick as a single mother.
You should watch Youtubers "Better Bachelor" and "Taylor The Fiend" because they give great explanations as to why this is the case.
Because many women do hook ups/casual sex and get pregnant then wonder why a man that has casual sex with her won't suddenly commit.
Some of them purposely get pregnant from casual sex so they can get child support.
Women date opportunistically, and they do not use any of the 33+ methods of contraception available to them.
I DO NOT include in the above Women who divorced by their own choice,
and Women who are now single parents who have lost their spouse due to death from a terminal illness or accidental death.
People dont know how to use contraceptives lol. I am actually shocked how so many people are so careless about it. If you are young and dont wait till marriage, use multiple contraceptives
It also scary how one night stands are a thing. It is scary to have sex with someone who you dont know
They know. They don't care.
Because they are emotional and have been raised spoiled and their choices lead to these results. If they would have been traditional as well as had a traditional mother it would have been the case.
I think all above and more. Divorced, no protection, pro life, one night stand, he left, he is in the army or anything similar, died/killed, prison and so on.
There aren't.
It's usually the same girls having more kids.
Western populations are going down, not up. It's one reason we need more migrants to make up the shortfall.
Girl I took to prom told me she intended to be a single mother. She's a single mother now.
Not unusual in a poor neighborhood , a baby is a womens meal ticket.
Men leave. But mostly because it's been a century since most men had the benefit of a genuinely Strong Male role-model instead of some caricature macho asshole
Crazy bitches? Dumb men? Women is men as an income source! Men use women as a reproductive conduit. Both are to blame crazy motherfuckers + men who are
sane/not ready=disaster!!! Wait unitl
you are ready for BOTH SEXES! Jesus you dumb fucks!
Marriage is a religious institution whether people want to admit it or not. The Communist socialist left is against the nuclear family. Thus there's less fathers in homes. Think about the next time you go vote.
Option D) It’s more profitable to have kids. The more kids the more the two return and government checks. I knew ladies getting $20,000 on tax return for being a single mom. The government is the daddy.
I want to be one as well, men are useless when it comes to raising a child. %90 of people have childhood traumas because of their dads. I would be 100 times healthier if my mom was a single mom as well
Same here. My Dad was abusive , and verbally abusive af. He threatened to be violent every single day. He yelled and my sister and I like if we’re in military. I have Anxiety Disorders and Eating Disorders because of that. Anything caused him to explode and scream at the top of his lungs. He’d also threaten to leave my sister and I in an orphanage and get rid of us.
Many times I wanted to end my life, or kill him or run away. Many times he’d also curse my mom out and make her cry time and time again. Nowadays I fear all men, never had a boyfriend because of it. I always also hear the same story of the hot men using the women for sex, getting them pregnant and then leaving them as single moms. The single moms seek a new man and usually that new man turns out to be a pedophile that will harass or abuse the child.
I hate all men. Every single one of them is the same garbage. They’re all trash. Pure utter trash. Then the men that are unattractive not only wish to be like the hot ones, but they too will cheat and become pedos. They’re ALL THE SAMEE.
@EmyyWolf you shouldn't think that, there are good men out there just like there are bad woman out there. My mother did beat me, she did it every couple of days. She used to slap me across the face and make me fall on the floor, she'd drag me up the stairs by my hair and used to lift me off my feet by my hair. She's given me big attachment and abandonment issues that I'm still trying to work over now. She used to start shouting at me for no apparent reason, she used to starve me as a kid, u was constantly hungry. She sold anything I got for my birthday or Christmas and then use it on her fags or diet coke. She never did any house work and I was left wearing dirty clothes. She even glued our cats eyes together with super glue. She kicked dad out and then lied and said he left because of me and I didn't see him for three months. But for me to hate all women is a bit much, I know of many other women who are similar or just as neglectful but that doesn't mean they all are. I mean what about your school teachers some of them are men and are nice, right?
Apparently a lot of men aren’t mature enough to handle the responsibilities of a family.
They aren't mature enough to handle any responsibility
It's a number of different things, sometimes in combination with each other. You can't force people to stay or be together.
Unprotected sex, being pro life, wanting to be a mom
Because they think the man will stay with her if she bears his child
Because so many men theses day unless it benefits them will leave.
maybe she's unhappy in her marriage and is getting a divorce rather than dependent on her husband, or having illegitimate children and raising her alone, or using only men as studs, having children and kicking his ass a few years later.
Because they’re self centered and think they don’t need a man to help take care of a child. They think life will be better without him
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