When it comes to a man being “creepy” or not the only true standard women seem to use is whether they find a man attractive or not. Yes there are some standards like weight, age, height, facial structure, athleticism that factor into a man’s attractiveness or lack thereof.
However a lot of women act mysterious on this. When I was younger I met women who I thought were “out of my league” who thought I was cute. Then there were women who I had zero doubt would find me attractive but didn’t.
But as a man it’s almost ALWAYS up to us to make the first move. If we make a move and she doesn’t find us attractive then we are “creepy” or worse. If we don’t make a move despite her thinking we are attractive then we are shy and/or underconfident (which in itself is very unattractive).
Personally I am so f*cking fed up with women expecting men to be “confident” when they hypocritically want the power to label any guy they don’t like “creepy”. It’s a much deeper insult than they realize.
But men use that creep phrase for when it’s appropriate and justified. We use it when we get angry at a moron who makes the rest of us look bad. Women seem to overuse it to express a “feeling”.
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