How Do I Ask A Girl Her Weekend Plans?

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I was supposed to meet this girl a few days ago. She cancelled on the day as she was sick and told me she would make it up to. Yesterday, I asked her if she is free on the weekend, and she goes she is busy Friday and Saturday but she can spend the whole day with me on Sunday. I am a bit annoyed as if she really wanted to meet me and spend time with me, shouldn't she be offering a Friday/Saturday? All she told me was that she was "busy". I want her to elaborate a bit more and tell her plans. What can I text her which doesn't sound desperate or nosey? I can't exactly say "what are you doing/planned for Friday" or can I?

As FYI, we have already been on 3 dates and kissed, and she has told me that she likes me a lot.

Ronni69 · Accepted Answer

If she said she was busy then she has other plans. If you force the issue you will come off as pushy and annoying, and very well may not get another date. Just meet up with her on Sunday. If you can’t then let her know that you are unable to meet that day and leave it to her to set up the next time and day. If she doesn’t set anything up or contact you then she really isn’t all that interested. And you would be better off to move on and find someone else. Don’t waste your time on someone that won’t give you time. If it’s meant to be then it will work itself out.

Wanghe20512 · Accepted Answer

If she said she is always so busy and don't tell U the details that means she is not that much into you. U can try to ask her, I know a very nice fancy restaurant would love to show U this weekends or I have a surprise for U, U can secretly prepare her s gift or nice meal or flowers. Girls need to be treated and get some incentive

innerman · Accepted Answer

Drink a beer, will take away those thoughts of her with other guys on Friday... in your head. By the time you sober up, it will be sinday and you’ll meet your beloved

Realbanger87 · Accepted Answer

Dont wait and do anything further and just wait till Sunday to meet her

Needadvice1202 · Answer

She's definitely interested because she wouldn't be trying to make time for you on Sunday otherwise
She will probably naturally tell you what she was doing on Friday or Saturday when you meet on Sunday
Also she may be playing hard to get

SometimesASiren · Answer

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like she's very disinterested. I would back off.

roseline_ · Answer

It will be nice if you ask her how her outing was. And the perfect day to do that would be that Sunday when you finally hook up with her

exitseven · Answer

Maybe she is doing something with her family. Don't automatically think the worst.

Kaylz_ · Answer

She either has really bad time management (Easily noticeable) or she isn't into you, and doesn't know how to say it. You should try to treat her on days when you can instead of complaining when she can't.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Meet her on Sunday as she suggested and then just casually ask how her weekend has been going.

IncognitoBandito · Answer

Just hint around at the things she likes to do after hours

driven159 · Answer

Remember her life doesn't revolve around you and you have only three dates it doesn't make you a couple yet chill out

jasco · Answer

Hey what are your plans for this weekend, maybe you like to go see a movie with me?

Iron_Man · Answer

Just talk to her flirt with her and come right out with it

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

I would suggest you stop initiating contact with her. If she wants to see you, let her do the asking and make the plans.

Avicenna · Answer

Don't do that- ask her when she is free

sheikalana · Answer

"any plans for the weekend?"

In_Trance · Answer

The same way you just asked here

Christina_0013 · Answer

If she's interested, she'll let you know.

UdontNeedtoknow · Answer

Just ask her

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