Anyone else cannot stand coward or weak women?

[Anonymous]

So, not sure where everyone is from and what cultural or stereotypical beliefs on women you all have but here in the US there is a belief that women are supposed to be submissive, weak, cowardly, etc.

It’s pathetic.

I don’t understand how some women can just take abuse, sexual abuse, rape and do nothing.

Defend yourself and fight.

You may die and you will certainly get hurt.

It’s okay to cry, be emotional, etc.

But fight still

I’d like to know if I get into a tough situation my woman can and would help me out.

Would I want her to? Naturally, I’d want to keep her safe, but imagine a woman staying with you during a fight and fighting alongside.

Fortunately, I’ve been alongside such women.

To me, it’s not attractive to be with a WEAK or COWARDLY woman.

She’ll do nothing for you when things get tough.

She can’t even defend herself.

She’s just good to use for sex/physical purposes for certain men. (I’ve seen this many times)

But gaining something of quality from her?
I don’t think so.

Weakness is never a strength.
Strength is never a weakness.

Updates

+1 y

Did you try to fight? And defend yourself?

Well, that’s different

I’m talking about women who haven’t tried because they think they can’t do anything or they’re afraid, hence them being cowards.

I’ve met women who were 80-90 pounds soaking wet who didn’t care that they were fighting me, someone who is a lot stronger and heavier than them, during grappling matches.

Got my ass handed to me a few times.

They kept trying and fighting

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, let me just explain something to you.
No one wants to just “take” and “do nothing”about sexual assault, rapes, physical abuse, or anything in that nature.
Women do want to fight back. No one wants that stuff to happen to them - No one in their right mind.
But, I think you’re over simplifying it. It’s not just “stand up for yourself and fight back.”
Lol, it’s complex and not that easy. You already know that men are biologically stronger than women, and when a woman is being raped or physically abused, they can fight back but it doesn’t do them any good. The man has already got an upper hand because he is stronger than the woman.
Also with rapes, sexual assaults, and physical abuse, there’s a thing calls “flight, fight, and freeze.” I’m sure you’ve heard of it. It’s a common emotional and physical response for some people to just freeze in traumatic situations like that. Also, some women fear retaliation if they fight back, so they freeze.
What you fail to realize is that women are more likely to care for you in the long run if something does happen to you. Just because she can’t defend herself or you as much you can defend her, that doesn’t mean she is less valuable or she is a coward. It’s more complex than that, and I tried to explain it the best I could.


I have had horrible shit happen to me where I had to defend myself and a guy, even with self defense training, weapons on me, and being able to speak up for myself… But I couldn’t and it didn’t work. It only got me even more hurt. Does that make me only good for sex and a coward/weak because I still got hurt? Or do you think I’m “quality” just because I at least tried?

[Asker]

Oh plenty do just want to take it and do nothing about it

I've heard and seen this

Did you try to fight? And defend yourself?

Well, that’s different

I’m talking about women who haven’t tried because they think they can’t do anything or they’re afraid, hence them being cowards.

I’ve met women who were 80-90 pounds soaking wet who didn’t care that they were fighting me, someone who is a lot stronger and heavier than them, during grappling matches.

Got my ass handed to me a few times.

They kept trying and fighting

I think you’re making it MORE complex than it needs to be

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Willful ignorance.
It’s a shame, I would’ve thought you’d sat down and at least understood. Thanks for the reply though…

[Asker]

No, I understand.

I think it’s you that cannot understand me.

So, you don’t believe cowards also exist?

[Ellie-V]

I’m cool with staying in my weak place. I don’t want to be called for putting up a good fight. I’m tiny. 4’11 and my meat is not muscle 😂

[Asker]

You can try.

That’s all that matters you know.

It doesn’t matter that you’re 4’11”

[Asker]

That’s the whole point of this post

Some butt hurt and/or cowardly/sheltered boys and girls here though

[Andres77]

Dude... most of your opinions I agree with.
But if you are completely dominated and threatened and used and then your kids are threatened if you choose not to comply...
You have not experienced that.
If you have not experienced that... then there is NO WAY THAT YOU CAN POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND IT.
Don't you dare judge those who have been beaten into submission.
Just shut up and learn some more of human nature.
Just the fact that you posted this question proves that there is SO MUCH of human nature of which you are completely ignorant.
I'm not insulting you.
You're young, I'm older and I've done EVERYTHING IN THE MILITARY that you could possibly dream of. And I'm the son of a woman who has tolerated horrific abuse and she taught me how to deal with it after she'd received therapy.
Consider yourself fortunate.
You're a strong young man.
You will never know what it's like to be a small weaker woman.
Don't you dare judge them.
You're a Sharp young man but don't think for a second that you completely understand human nature.
Yes, abusive relationships are horrific.
Yes, young women that are in these relationships have some hard choices to make.
Instead of demeaning then... offer up hope in whatever advice you can give.
So many of them feel trapped.
And then a strong young warrior like yourself demeans them for "tolerating" their existence?
Just scream at the top of your lungs that you're ignorant.
I know you mean well.
This is obviously beyond you.
Go volunteer at a woman's shelter before you say anything else.

[Asker]

I ignore you writing me about your military career because I think it’s all bullshit

There you go, that’s why I ignore.

Fuck off now

[Andres77]

When you come to selection... let me know.
I'll meet you here and have your candy ass sent home.
One never knows who might be here.
Figure it out.
Peter Schoomaker hired me in 1990.
Just hope I never find you.

[Asker]

No idea who you really are man….

But okay

[Andres77]

When you get to camp Mack all you'll find the pics from your post "how do I look, ladies?" All over.

[Asker]

Sure

[NathanDavis]

hopefully... you will never end up being raped by other men while you try to advance in your military career, you know that happens to some, sometimes right? and there's little or nothing they can do about it

same goes for ending as a PoW... the kind of torture and abuse you could get from that and not being able to do a thing...

[Asker]

Already did

And enjoyed it thoroughly.

What’s your point?

[NathanDavis]

you already got raped and enjoyed it?

well, that's determination

[Asker]

No, it’s not.

You know what is?

Your dad and brother having a bet to see who’d get off first watching me.

After 3 hours of draws and ties, your stud dad won 🥇

THAT is determination in my opinion

[NathanDavis]

now, this explains a lot of your post... lol

makes sense now...

[Asker]

Glad I was able to clear up any confusion.

Sometimes, you got to explain things slow for the dummies

[NathanDavis]

to each their own

[Asker]

Amen sport

[backdoorman]

Women are strong in their own ways, different ways than men are. You sound like you want women to be like men. If that's the case, you will always be disappointed in women, and you will always set them up to fail in your eyes

Be a man, and stop expecting women to be like you.

[Asker]

Be a man and expect women to be stronger not weaker.

Strength should be a HUMAN thing

Not just possessed by men

[backdoorman]

I am a man, and I expect women to be women, not men. As I said, women are strong in different ways than men. If you expect them to physically fight, most will always disappoint you because it's not in their nature the way it is yours. For most, you're asking a lamb to be a lion.

[Asker]

Fighting is human

Don’t know what you’re talking about.

No, it’s offensive to say women are lamb

It’s a choice

[backdoorman]

Ah, so you're one of the naïve fools who thinks men and women are the same. Sure dude.

[Asker]

No I don’t.

She can be feminine

And not weak

You think they should be weak and are all weak.

[backdoorman]

I don't think women are or should be weak, and I never said that. What I said is that they are strong in different ways. And for most, it's not in their nature to physically fight the way it is yours.

[Heartache0405]

Until they become so entitled with empowerment that they start falsely accusing people of things they didn’t do and continue to gain victories for it. Which is why I refuse to have anything to do with women. They can do whatever they want with anybody else.

[Jackblue]

You are being rather self-righteous. I am a man but I wouldn't fare well in a boxing gym. Women might take a self-defense class and still be violated. Some people are strong and some weak. It is the way it is.

[Asker]

How am I being self righteous and not instead just honest/direct?

[Jackblue]

Being weak is not shameful.

[Asker]

What the fuck? Fuck yeah it is

Okay, I found our disagreement

Goodbye

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't expect a woman to stand and fight beside me but I also don't expect to find myself in a position in which I will need to fight.

[sirderpsalot123]

Men get raped too. Do they also "just take it"?

[sirderpsalot123]

A lot of the time (sometimes they might freeze out of fear) women do try to defend themselves and that just make the man become even more violent. She might do everything in her power and it might not work and that still isn't her fault. How are victims pathetic but rapist/abusers aren't? This is a new take on victim blaming.

[sirderpsalot123]

And what kind of man would want his woman to die for him

[Asker]

For sure, some just take it.

Some fight

What’s your point?

Cowards exist

Strength exists

Your point?

What kind of a woman would want her man to die for him?

Do you see what I’m getting at now?

[sirderpsalot123]

I see people have done a decent job explaining why you're wrong. It's clear that you'd rather just remain ignorant. Have a good day.