Anyone kind of fed up with women when they lie about not being approached or not being able to get a man?

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Like come on. We know you are lying through your teeth and had many opportunities to get with a decent guy but you kept shooting your shots for men far above your station who eventually screw you over.

At least with men it is understandable since the average male can go years and possible decades without ever getting relationship/sex despite putting effort in.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Yeah, as a guy i have ran into these type of women, especially on line. When they are talking to you and 6 other guys at the same time and its obvious what they are doing. They get all this attention from men and let it go to their heads so they set their expectations way to high, then complain about how they can't find a good men or that men only want sex. When the truth is you focus on guys that look way too good for you who are willing to tell you all the things you want to hear just to get laid. So instead of investing in the right type of guy, you get distracted by the bright shinny object and lose focus.

They never seem to realize that maybe its because your trying to date out of your league or you that they have unrealistic expectations. They are turning way good men because they think they can do. When in reality they are good enough looking to make guys want to hook up with them and tell them what they want to hear to get laid... while all the time they are chasing the wrong types of guys and turning way good men that would other wise be better to them.

So if they just did some self reflection and put more effort into the right types of guys, instead of excepting them to wine, dine and romance the shit out of them... they might find the type of guy that appreciates a women that invests and takes the time to treat a man right, and then learn that men actually do and can appreciates them.

You know the old saying that "nice guys finish last?" I do not believe in that, I think women that do not appreciate nice guys finish last in the end, and nice guys actually find better women when the realize that better women are really out there.

JamesDiaz11 · Accepted Answer

First, this is a call for proposals- she's seeking to garner attention from guys she may potentially be interested in.

Second, for women they are very specific on what "counts." This is why you can rarely trust a girl when she tells you her body count, as this will be limited by what "counts." Of course, what counts is filtered through how she views herself (few girls admit to being hoes, and they'll excuse any number of indiscretions on nonsensical grounds, e. g. "it was only 30-seconds")

In terms of girls claiming they're "not being approached," as you point out they don't count the dozens of guys who aren't up to their inflated standards. Most somewhat attractive, but low character, women like the one in the video are good enough for high-value men (i. e. men any woman would brag about having) to hook up with, or keep as a side chick (but no more), which distorts their view of their own value to align with their perception that they're a real catch... when they're not (which is why they're 30 and single).
In sum, an unappealing guy who dm's them/ flirts with them/ approaches them doesn't count as a guy "approaching them," they're simply creepers bugging them. Only a guy up to their inflated standards approaching them would count, but since she's over the hill, the guys she wants are hitting up younger women.

Sincerly_KittyCat · Accepted Answer

Who are you to deem the guy a woman rejects as decent? If the man doesn't check the important requirements the woman needs then, he isn't deemed decent. Further more why should a woman settle for decent? If you like settling for the bare minimum (decent) YOU can do so however not everyone wants that because to many settling for "decent" can lead to living miserable and unhappy

Subarugirl · Accepted Answer

There is always someone for anyone, I think that it's funny that men try to blame women for not dating them when they don't have any desirable qualities, just lower your unrealistically high standards... no I don't mean money. Though it is easier to make money then it is to be a good person with a good personality...

ManOnFire · Answer

I think some women lie about that because they think it will make them more attractive to men or be what men want to hear. But there actually are plenty of women out there who are the hottest thing in the books but not landing a guy because they're doing something wrong.

A lot of these chicks are wondering why they're single but acting snobby and unnecessarily rude towards men at their jobs, in public, in school, etc. Like a pig wearing jewelry but expecting people to lay out a red carpet for it, and then being shocked when it doesn't happen. A lot of women don't really make themselves approachable, but seem to think a guy will somehow feel inclined to speak. Most won't.

But even more common than this is the problem where a lot of women are dating or having sex with plenty of men, but are rarely able to hold onto these men. They either repeatedly "lose interest" or the men end up leaving them after getting the fuck or cheating on her. So then we come back to square one where these women are complaining about still being single or not being able to find Mr. Right.

Moose304 · Answer

About a year ago I removed all the firearms from a man's home and latched onto him for several days until we could get him into an inpatient facility. This guy is an engineer across 2 different disciplines and makes almost 200K a year. The reason we placed him on suicide watch was his wife left him. They had been married for about 2 years. I don't think I can call him an Alpha male, but he did love "Katie" with all his heart. They lived in a nice gated community and she always was driving a nice car. Then one day another man came into her life. This guy is in management working for one of the social media giants. I don't know his exact income but it's a hell of a lot more than 200K. This question reminded me of this story. All of this happened over the summer of 2021. Then a while back the guy dumped Katie. Katie is I think 30 years old. Enough girls do settle that this is a problem. I am thankful for the girls that are good and stay loyal. However, the ones that are not loyal are making you all look bad! JUST as all these "bad boys" make all of us guys look bad!

cth96190 · Answer

It is true.
When most women are young they ride the carousel, then they have an epiphany about age 30 and declare themselves to be “ready for a good man.”

When I was a teenager and then a 20 something I could almost not get a date, because I was not a scumbag.
The two women who I was stupid enough to love tore my heart to pieces, which red pilled me and left me psychologically incapable of feeling romantic love for a woman.
Not long after I turned 30, women who had been riding bad boys when they were younger began to make nice with me. There had been zero encouragement from me.
Some were individuals who had rejected me when they were younger.
It was darkly amusing to watch women who had once told me to FOAD tie themselves in knots as they tried to make nice with me.
Even today, post-wall women do the dance in front of me. These women would have told me to FOAD when they were 20.
While I was working at a turf club event, last Saturday, four women made the first move. One who was there with another man slipped me her number.
When I go to church, it is almost embarrassing how the single/divorced/widowed women invite themselves to sit with me in the cafe after the service.
They cannot figure me out, because I do not make a move on any of them.
What I see are women who would have rejected me when they were 20, who are looking for a meal ticket. The bonus for them is that I adore cats. 😻

DWornock · Answer

Unlike men, women are not logical. If a man doesn't meet her standards, in her mind, he doesn't count. A girl will chase after the hottest men that will fuck her, and reject lower value men. However, men date down but they don't marry down. Therefore, typically, the only men they want and the only men they f**k or out of their league.

Therefore, from ages 16 to 28, they reject guys that don't meet their unrealistic standards. It is until about age 28, after dozens or even hundreds of one night stands and a half dozen or more going nowhere relationships, that they realize they must look for a guy that will marry them; not just fuck them. However, at that age they have lost their bloom and are no longer the young sweet, sexy girl that men are attracted to. Therefore, the Beta males they rejected when they were young, sexy, and beautiful, don't want them. Instead, they want someone like there were in their teens and early twenties.

Since the Beta male they rejected when they were young and highly desirable and now not interested, they look around and ask, "Where have all the good men gone?" The men are still there but they don't want older women that have lost their bloom. Instead, they want the desirable girls like the girls they were when they were 6 to 12 years younger. Sexy much younger girls never ask that question. The question is only asked by older women and far less desirable women that have lost their bloom.

Anonymous · Answer

not following you.

Things are difficult on both sides and there's truth in each perspective. you realize most females aren't so logical right? e. g. they can go to a bar, have 3 guys talk to them they aren't interested in or challenge them so bad they fail, then walk away frustrated there are no guys available. They want what they want... whatever that is... that's human and emotional.

too much and deep of a question to gain much value typing. So answer is, no, I don't care.

p. s. check the bible (not that you believe or care, but what the heck) for how many times it says to trust women... or humans in general. my $ is on zippo! realize, that our emotional damage (wounds) means we can perceive things differently and wrongly, but argue like heck to defend them.. even kill... while being wrong, but think we are right! Women being more hormonally variable, can be tricky.

You should get to know that first gal, she's open for the right fella. gonna be a toughie I'd bet...

DaySpring · Answer

I get it brother BUT... All due respect, I, you, and everybody needs to worry about us and only us. We all need to stop playing the victim. One can't be tired of women playing the victim but say it is okay for men to do it. Guess what? Life isn't fair. It's not fair for me, you, her, him, them, everybody. Grow and overcome. Life doesn't care. Time doesn't care about our excuses. And both will gladly run out while we sit here and play victim because we have well justifiable excuses.

I get your level of thinking and I get their level of thinking, but time/life doesn't care. And that level of thinking gets us no where.

jshm2 · Answer

It'd not an issue you need to gatekeep.

There are qualified people who fail to get jobs, there are competent people who fail to pass tests. etc etc

It's only in your small mind that everyone gets what they wants - not what they need. Which is a reality check in most cases, or a beating in others.

In the case of the vid - she's probably an insufferable hot mess, who gets off on the drama more than the relationship. Some people just have terrible flaws - she's just not aware of that.

Snsl153 · Answer

I guess it has never occurred to you that even though from your perspective the "grass is greener on the other side", being female actually isn't the sunshine and roses you imagine it to be. So no, I'm not at all "fed up", because what you've said here isn't true, it's bullcrap.

Anonymous · Answer

No actually it's comical to me. Because when a woman can't find a man it's virtually ALWAYS one of 2 things. Either 1. her standards are just way to high/she overestimated her market value. Or, 2. She just doesn't want to put forth the effort to land a man.
Talk to women on here and you'll see their self entitled attitude right away. They'll ask why can't I find a man. And you ask them what effort have they given, to gage what they can be doing better. And they respond like you just farmed or something. "How dare you ask such a thing", she says. I'm a woman I don't have to do anything. And furthermore if I put forth ANY effort and it'll just encourage him to take me for granted.
How can you even reason with someone who uses this type of logic? Where they feel just being a woman entitles them to something.

KelleyNice · Answer

You... had many opportunities to get with a decent guy but you kept shooting your shots for men far above your station.

Of course that is how it is. However, that doesn't change anything because if we don't want him, he doesn't count. Therefore, if the only guys that approach us don't count, we are not being approached.

kitty71 · Answer

Im a woman and that is alie, maybe to some woman but in personal case what you described is true I never been really approached by guys not even to ask me for a decent date, I had never had a boyfriend before ever and Im still single. Im already used to being single anyway, but in my case is true.

PortraitOfTerd · Answer

im not fed up, im jus shocked more than anything, shocked that they dont understand why they aren't getting approached,
when we do approach girls call us creeps or pervs or rapists, so its really no surprise to me that girls aren't getting approached when they give that reaction, but then they wonder why they aren't getting approached, lol, theyre so stupid, i jus laugh at it

CasaNorba · Answer

hell yeah!

they say men are not chasing a lot nowadays but that's because we are obviously not desperate fuckheads anymore and notice how is usually the slutty attention whores that bitch about this the most.

like come on? what loser will be desperate enough to chase such cockroaches nowadays?

Apulu_Imback · Answer

Actually it is true that pretty women most likely stay single, it's because no one approaches them thinking that there are no chances that they are single. This is a fact.

Squaresquirrel · Answer

Keep telling that to yourself!
Or I might be really ugly as the last time I was approached by a man was in last August. I had a few smile at me since but that's it.
To be fair, I live in the countryside now, less people around.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I wouldn't say Im tired of it as I just dont really care about it. They can complain about this and that and Im not going to lose any sleep for them personally.

Trollololol · Answer

Bro what do you mean when you say the average male can go years and possible decades without getting relationship/sex? That's just pure ignorance. And to answer your question, no I'm not fed up with women claiming they are not being approached or being able to get a man, because you're just generalizing on the statements of a few. I'm sure not everyone feels this way. It's similar to me asking if I'm fed up when men say woman don't approach them.

Guy__ · Answer

Sure, but there are still good girls who never get chances and are approached only by creeps. Not all of them.

hahahmm · Answer

It's true that they can all get sex. But a lot of them can't get a quality man or get a dude into serious because to get that you need more than just looks.

Echosoul · Answer

One thing I notice is when they complain men don't approach them; yet they themselves never approach. They just sit there and expect to be approached and think there is something wrong with them if they aren't tripping over proposals.

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