What's your view on this female mindset "my money is my money, his money is our money? (Page 2)
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This is some c*nts mindset, not a normal female's.
Thankfully I've always had the luxury of trust (meaning I knew he won't waste our money) and could count on him spending money carefully both his and mine.
I disagree... I believe there should be his money, her money and there money... I think each should have there own money just in cases somthing happened... I'm a domestic violence survivor and I felt like I couldn't leave due to money... I think everyone should be able to get out of bad situations...
My view is that person wasn't raised right. No clue how to be team, contribute or be selfless. I wouldn't trust her in starting a family let alone not taking off when times are tough.
Well women ultimately find vast majority of male's unattractive physically with many relationship being born out of financial benefit and/or fear of loneliness. So it makes sense that some women have that mindset when her original interest in said male was his money.
Not true. Most women are attracted to men.
not according to actual studies
Show me that study that says most women are lesbians
Again you are using a false narrative and dishonest debate tactic. My argument was never that most women were lesbians but rather that most women find the vast majority of males physically unattractive. This does not mean they are gay just that they will focus on top 20% of men who will form a harem around them.
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One such evidence of this comes from the okcupid study which showed that the vast majority of women found most men physically unattractive.
Again. Most women are not with men because they physically are attracted to them but rather for their services and what they can offer.
You still didn't understand.
You disagreed with my point which was "Most women are attracted to men"
Do you understand that bisexual women are attracted to men?
Show me a study that says most women are NOT ATTRACTED TO MEN
You opposed my point without understanding it.
Usually when a woman is at her physical best, she will shoot her shots with men far above her station and get used for sex/short term relationships. Once she his mid to late 30's many of these women due to peer pressure, biological clocks, and creeping in of potentially being lonely for life will pick among their orbiters (men who they know like them but never gave them a chance because they were to busy focusing on Chad) to be their beta provider. These men often get the shit tier deal of having to take on the boring husband/good boyfriend role with the girl in question often hiding her wilder side from him.
I disagreed with your point that said most women are attracted to the vast majority of men physically. This does not infer these women are gay or bisexual just that they do not get sexual arouse from the physical presence of these men and they often have to bring extra to relationship for these women to want them. This is why in most relationship, the man is often the one chasing the woman and initiate most conversations.
And again i have shown you the study but you are just so full of it and want to "win an argument" that you don't even read my point correctly and just reactively answer back.
It’s ridiculous, I think both people should have their own separate money and accounts because there’ll be less arguing that way over who spent what. My boyfriend and I have our own separate stuff, and then whatever’s left over from our checks we put into a “going out” jar, then we’ll go out somewhere at the end of the month like a concert or a restaurant. But sometimes we both don’t put in much for the month and don’t go anywhere either 🤣
That is not a feminist mindset lmao that is just a shitty and selfish mindset. has nothing to do with feminism, but hey nice trying to spin it that way.
I said FEMALE NOT FEMINIST
Maybe next time you will be more attentive before getting insulted.
No one touched your feminism. It is just cringy how you want to defend it even when no one said anything about it.
But go ahead and get offended all you want. That will only hurt you. I don't care.
Most feminists I have come across were dumb like you.
I know what you said, I also know what you're implying. Maybe use your brain before getting insulted.. I'm not even a feminist XD but nice try sweetie :*
No you didn't. I didn't mention feminist.
You're not a feminist? Then why are you constantly defending them?
I'm not defending them, I'm just correcting your misunderstanding of what it is. You don't seem to be able to comprehend it.
Keep defending them. I will keep calling them out on misandry
Feminism and misandry are not synonymous.. at least try and use the correct terminology
Why are you not a feminist?
Why are you a judgmental bully?
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"I'm not even a feminist"
So why are you not a feminist?
Why are you a judgmental bully? ?
I knew you would avoid answering.
You contradicted yourself.
You claimed you're not a feminist. I know you are one
Why did you claim you're not?
All right is everybody going calm down or am I to break out the popcorn and place bets which one is it everybody made their point very clear here so enough is enough!
@yofuknutz please do, I’ve been dying 😂. Through our this whole conversation. I think it’s really funny when total strangers try to tell me the know me better then I know myself
Subaru I got $5 on you $5 on marish so that way I could never lose.
Totally don’t agree with it - who raise their kid to believe that?
I believe my money is my money and his money is his money
No, I don't like by that code and wouldn't let anyone else live that way towards my money.
It is all just our money... that is how my wife and I view it.
Its nonsense.
His money is HIS money.
My money is MY money.
Agreed
I'm a married guy and I hold responsibility of providing for the whole family. By grace of God, I have always been in a comfortable position to do that. So in our 25+ year marriage, my money is for all in a carefully managed way and her money is for her to spend in whatever way she wishes.
I don't have an issue with it in other relationships but it seems a little too "separate" for my liking in my relationships. I like to be one, almost. Like a unite. Nothing between us. And that's not coming from a place of greed, its very, very likely I'll be making more than the girl I end up with.
That started off as a tongue in cheek joke that men would tell about their wives. I guess that has been a running joke for so long now, some women actually take it seriously. All I have to say for any woman that I meet who thinks this to be true... good luck with that.
Weill quite obviously its utter utter bullshit , you cannot have you cake and eat it too , its either the induvials ( same for both ) or each on their own , but there is no way it can work as per the question.
It's unfortunately true. Every woman I've been serious with thinks this way.
Misguided and severely annoying. My money is MY money and his money is HIS money. Other than our agreement to split the home bills evenly, I have no rights to his money and vice versa.
It’s not right. it’s about equality. Both partners should take the responsibility of expenses equally.
Seems a bit entitled to me. I'm happy to share and I do consider my money to be my wife's money, but I don't think it's a good mindset to think we're entitled to someone else's things.
It’s an entitled and selfish mindset.
If we’re dating/in a relationship then your money is yours and my money is mine unless we’re sharing or pooling resources equally.
If we’ married then it’s our money both ways.
Mine is mine. His is His. That's my mindset. He doesn't owe me.
This is true until you get married and then it is our money. It doesn't matter who makes the most. you have to work together to figure out what you need to buy and what you don't need.