I agree with illgiveyoumyheart. You're just worried about losing him so you panic and try way too hard. If he's stayed with you for 8 months then you must be doing something right. He obviously likes you for who you are, so just relax and be yourself. If you try to hard it could just end up backfiring on you. You could end up acting too nervous or doing something out of character that your boyfriend might not like. Just keep reassuring yourself that he's not going to leave because he likes (or loves, you didn't specify) you! He wouldn't have stayed with you this long if he didn't. Just keep repeating it back to yourself, yes even out loud! If you can give yourself positive affirmations like that eventually it will sink into your subconscious and you won't be so worried anymore.
In my opinion most girls get nervous around their boyfriend because he is cute to them. If you have been dating for awhile it might mean that the boy is just perfect for you. Don't be ashamed of acting nervous because boys like it when girls act shy or nervous around them, they think it's cute that us girls are nervous around them, it makes the boy feel more masculine when he sees you blush for some reason, so don't be scared to blush because boys find it more attractive anyways. :) Good luck.
-From Anonymous
what kind of nervous? a bad nervous or a good nervous?
You are the only one that can answer this question. No one can answer this for you without knowing a lot about him and you.
I mean if he looks like the Texas Chainsaw Massacre, then I would be nervous too, but you haven't given enough description.
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