I feel nervous, about my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I feel anxiety and stress due to my boyfriend not stable lifestyle and his hobbies and his emotional non stability, immaturity

Is it time to end it all?

Even a thought abouthim makes me neevous...

When i think about other stuff i feel calm and good

[watercolor_lions]

Relationships are supposed to be the support system for you against the real world.

If the relationship isn't bringing peace (unless you are married), you should leave.

If you're married, you should go to marriage counseling.

If you're free and not married, you can be choosier and find someone that you get along with better, and whose baggage you can handle. It sounds like you can't handle his baggage. And that's okay. You don't want to savior date.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Light909090]

You want to believe That feeling stress and anxiety is worth it.
Me nah I don’t stress I don’t worry because I don’t believe that’s what I want I don’t believe anxiety and stress is beneficial to my mental health

[Light909090]

Therefor I supplement it with Anxiety stress is not good and is evil and is Pointless and then I don’t feel it

[Wise4myage]

Sounds to me like he is not the right guy for you.

[Asker]

He son steals... he needs to be at police dep getting him out
His ex is a crackhead who calls him in the middle of ghe night insulting him and asking for money or for drugs
He himself likes to fight a lot he has short temper, he is very outgoing but very mouthy he gets into troubles because of this
He eve had a fight with his boss 6 years ago... got his eyebrow split in 2
...
Now when he is with me he says he calmed down
But i know when he disappears for days or doesn't wanna talk to me or see me
Something is going on AGAIN

im tired of this
He is good person, kind heart... but
It been 2 years

[Anonymous]

What about him makes you nervous and stressed?

[Opinion Owner]

How is he immature?

[Asker]

Please read my answer below