My boyfriend is very anxious and nervous, what to do?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He refuses any psychological help, i bought some valeriana calm pills

He has this thing when something worries him he can't stop thibking about it in a negative way, so negative so fatalist, so pesimistic. His health is horrible due to all the stress he himself causes by overthinking

I said its contrproductive to worry about everything, need to focus on what can be solved, do not panic

I try to be supportuve and calm, he is very impulsive

But he drains my energy

How can i help him?

[SueShe]

Unfortunately, in your case, you will have to set priorities.

It is either his health or yours. It seems that it is not possible to have both under control. If he refuses to seek help, then you have to try to motivate him by placing him in front of a dilemma. Either he does something for BOTH of you or you will have to sever the relation.

Why should you ruin your own health for someone that refuses to help himself. He knows that his behavior is detrimental to his health and he knows that you suffer from it because you are dragged together with him into this hole he is digging.

If this situation continues, you will fall into a full fledged depression and then you will need help to get out of it. Is that really what you want?

You have no other choice than to tell him that if he wants a life with you, it is going to be to seek help or to lose you. Good luck.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He has stomach problem
He needs to eat 5 times a day in small portions not to not eat at breakfast then eat at 4pm then at 9 pm
I told him he needs to eat dietetic food
Im willing to even prepare food for him
He gets angry everytime i say the right thing
He nust stop smoke at morning when his stomach is empty
He won't listen

[SueShe]

The way I see it is that he does not care enough for his health to become active in attempting to solve his problem. My fear is that there is a deeply rooted psychological issue behind his behavior. He could even have been the victim of a trauma in his early years.

Addressing this trauma or facing the problem is something that is beyond his courage and that is why he is reacting the way he does. If he does not want to be proactive and gets upset at you for wanting him to become healthier, then you have done what you should have.

Just don't let yourself be dragged down by his behavior. You owe it to yourself.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

he is ex drug addict... al kinds of drugs literally everything

[Zolly99999]

He really needs professional help.. there is no shame in it.. I have do it a few times.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He won't
He doesn't want to

[Zolly99999]

That's the big problem... with out professional help he is only going to get worse..
I wish you luck.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Yeah
Not eoygh
I need a plan

[Anonymous]

Drain his balls.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He refused to have sex or to get a hj or bj i tried on Friday he literally moved my hand from his cock
He doesn't have sex desire due to stress he creates in his head

[Opinion Owner]

He should try smoking weed and/or exercising more. When you’re tired from working out it’s hard to be anxious.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

he smokes weed everynight

[Opinion Owner]

Wow and he’s still that anxious? I don’t know. Sorry.