Girl with a boyfriend has confusing boundaries?

[blissinanarchy1]

Broke up with my girlfriend recently so I been shooting my shot. I got a female coworker... and her boundaries confusing the hell out of me. She's cool people, and I won't lie, she is bad as hell. Big butt Spanish girl, beautiful face. She swerved me when I tried to get her number, but in a friendly way, saying she got a boyfriend. She was cool talking though. So, the topics get sexual with her. She's like a "man's girl". She's straight, but she talks about other's girls asses and stuff. Like points them out. She was talking about sexual stuff with me, but not sex WITH me, if that's understandable. Sex with her boyfriend. She told me I'm very good looking, and talks about her own butt. I bluntly said "Are you trying to get me to look? I will." And she commented that she didn't want me to, her boyfriend would be pissed. I told her how when my ex cheated on me, I posted our sex tape, and she said she'd watch it. She follows me and comes to me at work (we're coworkers) a lot to talk to me, and wanted me to come to her, but I'm just confused. She gives me this vibe she really wants me to hit, but doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend, or leave him either.

[HollyK21]

I think she enjoys the flirty dynamic you two seem to have, and probably the attention you give her specifically, but is trying to behave herself as to respect her relationship. If I were you, I’d put a stop to that and keep things casual. I understand having a crush, thinking she looks good and all that but she’s being messy and attention seeking, you shouldn’t want parts in that.

[LazerBean]

She just likes attention

[KrakenAttackin]

Not confusing, she wants you as a beta orbiter.