To my surprise, even though I have only met her twice, she replied, and she was extremely friendly.
Her response was, "yea i think you guys need to talk. she probably doesn’t want to say yes and end up going in circles again." and "i did tell her that you guys need to talk it out when she calms down. there’s a lot of mixed feelings it seems on both sides. she does have a lot of love for you and i can see that but i think she really needs time to really think about everthing and lashing out will not resolve anything."
How should I interpret this message? A day prior to that text, my ex told me to move on and find someone else.
Her response was, "yea i think you guys need to talk. she probably doesn’t want to say yes and end up going in circles again." and "i did tell her that you guys need to talk it out when she calms down. there’s a lot of mixed feelings it seems on both sides. she does have a lot of love for you and i can see that but i think she really needs time to really think about everthing and lashing out will not resolve anything."
How should I interpret this message? A day prior to that text, my ex told me to move on and find someone else.
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Thank you all for the answers. I missed my chance. We broke up December 1st.
She reached out early January and wanting to flirt, I failed. i was processing so much other stuff (reconnecting with my daughters after 3 years of being abducted)
I found out that she kept in touch with my mother for several months while i was focused on my daughter and now that i sorted that out, she is giving me the cold shoulder. I missed out on a beautiful soul. Someone is going to be extremely lucky marrying her
She reached out early January and wanting to flirt, I failed. i was processing so much other stuff (reconnecting with my daughters after 3 years of being abducted)
I found out that she kept in touch with my mother for several months while i was focused on my daughter and now that i sorted that out, she is giving me the cold shoulder. I missed out on a beautiful soul. Someone is going to be extremely lucky marrying her
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1 y
Update:
She reached out, asked me to meet up for drinks. I said i can't make that day but i can make the following day. She agreed. A few hours before meeting up she texted me cancelling meeting up in person, and if i want closure we can chat on the phone tonight or over the weekend.
I replied " i enjoyed our time together. Sometimes timing is not on our side. I am thankful for the experience and wish you the best"
I did not want to meet for closure. She blocked me after. Thank you all !
She reached out, asked me to meet up for drinks. I said i can't make that day but i can make the following day. She agreed. A few hours before meeting up she texted me cancelling meeting up in person, and if i want closure we can chat on the phone tonight or over the weekend.
I replied " i enjoyed our time together. Sometimes timing is not on our side. I am thankful for the experience and wish you the best"
I did not want to meet for closure. She blocked me after. Thank you all !
