Can I get my ex back?

Anonymous
So my ex broke up with me July 2021. We dated for 10 months and I think we crashed and burned meaning we spent too much time together too quick. But we had a great fun relationship until the last 2 months or so. I could feel it coming. Anyway I told myself when he broke up with me that I wouldn’t chase him. I followed my word however he hasn’t left me alone since. Usually once a week or every other week I receive communication from him. He’s dated a bunch (casually) but always reaches out to me. He never really gave me a consistent answer Of why we broke up. Once it was that he loved me but wasn’t sure he was in love, another he got cold feet and most recently he texted me this weekend, he got a new “toy” kinda like a 4 wheeler thing and asked if I wanted to see it and go for a ride. Of course I said no and of course that made him ask more. He found out I had see another guy a couple of times. He said over text at one point “ I thought you were it (I guess the one?) but you made me uncomfortable” what does that even mean from a guys perspective? I feel deep down that he still cares and is just scared but maybe I’m being naive and he just wants attention? I don’t know!!
Can I get my ex back?
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