Can I get my ex back?

[Anonymous]

So my ex broke up with me July 2021. We dated for 10 months and I think we crashed and burned meaning we spent too much time together too quick. But we had a great fun relationship until the last 2 months or so. I could feel it coming. Anyway I told myself when he broke up with me that I wouldn’t chase him. I followed my word however he hasn’t left me alone since. Usually once a week or every other week I receive communication from him. He’s dated a bunch (casually) but always reaches out to me. He never really gave me a consistent answer Of why we broke up. Once it was that he loved me but wasn’t sure he was in love, another he got cold feet and most recently he texted me this weekend, he got a new “toy” kinda like a 4 wheeler thing and asked if I wanted to see it and go for a ride. Of course I said no and of course that made him ask more. He found out I had see another guy a couple of times. He said over text at one point “ I thought you were it (I guess the one?) but you made me uncomfortable” what does that even mean from a guys perspective? I feel deep down that he still cares and is just scared but maybe I’m being naive and he just wants attention? I don’t know!!

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I think you can… He seems very persistent about talking to you and being close to you. I mean, if you want him… You need to let him know. Don’t play the cat and mouse game with him. He is very much still in love with you based on the context you provided.

[designer1]

No bc it sounds like all he’s struggling with is self esteem after the breakup. It sounds like he’s immature and has some growing to do. He doesn’t get to judge you for seeing other guys. You have every right to see other people and my advice is to keep doing that (at least until he grows up some). He sounds like a teenager.

[RealMarek]

If he wants you back he needs to want you back badly enough to tell you. He probably enjoyed the friendship aspect of your relationship and wants to keep that going.

[Anonymous]

Why the hell would you continue to communicate with someone you broke up with.

[Avicenna]

He's still trying to deal with mixed feelings. It's possible you could get back together if you can talk through things and fix/prevent what caused the breakup.

[Gwenhwyfar]

He still cares and is just scared but because of that he’s not a good prospect for a relationship rn. Until he’s ready to get back together with you you need to keep him at a distance.

[VaguelyAsianLisbeth]

I don't know it sounds like even if u got back together he would just keep fence sitting and not figuring things out u won't feel good

[Danny_dan92]

If it didn’t work the first time. It won’t any other time

[Uptowngirl88]

He don't want you sis lol. Move on stop bugging the man. If he wanted you he wouldn't have dumped you

[driven159]

people are exes for a reason the same reason will still be there if you can't overlook things then you not going to look over them later

[888theGreat]

I doubt it will happen

[In_Trance]

Nope