I guess it's a sort of reverse psychology thing. I did this recently, with no intent of getting back together---and got four messages on my phone and she had not called me IN MONths. It depends on what you want. It doesn't hurt either way because you MUST move on anyway. Agreeing to the break-up helps you move on. Ask yourself if you want her back, but don't reject her just to get her back. Reject her foR YOU so that you are better able to move on. The way I look at it, why be with someone that doesn't think you're the best thing that has ever happened to them? If you get them back, so what? It's like pressing pause while watching a movie only to continue where you left off. Move on, work on YOU, and time will tell if you are meant to be together. Whether this strategy works or not, either way it's the best choice...Reject her, move on, and live your life to the fullest.
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Yes, because when they break up with you they are expecting you to be crushed and that you just can't live without them. If you say "yeah, you're right... breaking up is better for both of us"
and calmly walk away they will start to think "oh no, she doesn't need me". And if you're not a huge crying mess after the split, it will bother them even more. They want you to be upset about losing them, they want to feel needed.
Yeah it is a good idea. When you do it, stay strong. Don't contact him. only respond to him when he says he WANTS TO GET BACK?
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