Girls, do you prefer guys who are wholesome and clean-minded? Or guys who are flirty and dirty?

[NovaCourier]

I don't why I used the Star Wars analogy, but, hey, it works.

What are you? Light side, Dark side or neutral?

Wholesome and clean. (Like a Jedi, I guess)

Flirty and dirty. (Like a Sith, I guess)

A bit of both. (Grey Jedi, I guess)

Other (say in the comments)

[petitedollbabee]

Neutral. I like a guy who is wholesome and kind hearted but knows when to be a little kinky and can have a darker sense of humour. Hard to find a man with both sides.

[NovaCourier]

I'm more on the wholesome side. I don't know about other men, but I don't like getting "kinky" because I don't like the idea of coming off as a stereotypical sex craving lunatic, like a lot of men are portrayed as.

[petitedollbabee]

Being kinky and being a sex craved lunatic are two completely different things. You can be kinky and keep it behind closed doors and private, and not harassing women like the stereotype does. You can also still be kinky and have a low libido at the same time, being kinky doesn’t automatically mean you’re wanting to have sex 24/7.

[NovaCourier]

I get that. I guess I over compensate, but still, I can't bring myself to do it. It's a principle I've sort of hammered into my head from a very young age, since I always detested male characters in movies or TV shows that just hunted down women at every opportunity. I always rolled my eyes and essentially swore to myself that I would never be like that.

[petitedollbabee]

That’s fair, kink is not for everyone, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being vanilla. We all have our own tastes in sex. And I can understand what you mean about the way media has portrayed men with high sex drives. But in the end that’s all it is - how the media portrays it. It’s not real life for the most part. There are guys like that IRL but they’re not as common as the media would have you think (thank god)

[NovaCourier]

I think the latest generation of men are less like it than our predecessors. Hopefully this trend will continue.

Still, I'll confess that I have fantasies like most people do, but having kinks and fantasies and wanting to actually do them are very different things. I, for one, will not do that in a billion years...

[Blackcosmo]

A bit of both but more on the wholesome side. Being flirty would be pleasant but the "dirty" part i'm not into.

[elizamichale1]

Flirty n dirty

[NovaCourier]

Tut tut tut!

[elizamichale1]

whatt

[NovaCourier]

One would think that women appreciate it when men keep their heads out of the gutter. 😆

[elizamichale1]

well yes but we also want u to be dirty a little

[NovaCourier]

You never seem to like it from what I've noticed. Hence I have taught myself to stick with being wholesome. I prefer life like that in any case.

[elizamichale1]

there's nothing wrong in tht honey we all have different choices n there r many women who dont like being flirty n all