One of my classmates has given me a lot of mixed feelings recently, I like her quite a lot and we went out 1 on 1 for drinks at the start of the week. Things went well and we extended our time together more than expected.
I asked her out again this weekend but she apologised and said she was busy, which I told her no problem.
I made other plans with my other classmates and we all planned to go out drinking together. In front of everyone she asks me "oh isn't that the place we went on Monday?" This girl also expressed an interest in going but she already had plans as stated before and looked bummed about it.
About an hour before we were all due to meet up, she sends me a message saying she really wants to join but she can't. She asked me what time it'll finish and I said I don't know, it depends how much people want to drink.
She told me, okay then I'll ask you when I'm finished with my other plans.
I was having a blast with my classmates when sure enough, I get a message from her asking if we're still out drinking. I told her yes, you should come!
Not long after, she appeared with a huge smile on her face and joined in.
We have a group chat with everyone in it and she could have easily asked most of these things here but she opted to message me privately instead.
After everyone decided it was time to go home, she walked with me and one other female classmate back to my place since we live close before bidding me a good night. I couldn't invite her in since
1. I was wasted and 2. My other female classmate was also there and she would not have kept it quiet. 3. She very much seems like the type that only goes at her own pace.
Today I sent her a message because she tagged me in her instagram story and she reads it but says nothing.
I'm having a hard time figuring her out or how to move forwards, its like she's putting herself in my sights for me to pursue her but then running away or having second thoughts at the same time.
