She has lots of friends. Why does she keep hitting me up about wanting to do activities?

[Anonymous]

Matched with this girl on Hinge about 10 months ago. We went on 1 date and she decided she only wanted to be friends. My mistake was accepting the friendship because I've now developed feelings for her as we meet up frequently and talk a lot. I should've said no thank you to the friendship and walked away.

She's always hitting me up on WhatsApp and particularly on IG over the past couple of months (we follow each other) as she keeps coming across activities she wants to do. Why does she keep asking me to do activities with her? She has many friends she can do this stuff with. Why can't she ask them instead? I'm pretty sure she isn't interested in me sexually or romantically so why does she keep wanting to do things with me when she knows I like her?

[Pegases]

Don't be friends with girls. They keep you as friends for the benefits, and you'll get nothing in return. Most womendont realize the flaw in this dynamic, they simply see the benefit they get, without realizing that because you're attracted to them, that it it's worth the torture for you. Ditch her, keep it moving, she's not for you.

[Tomsta]

My mentality in this (Which is extreme I will say, so take it with a pinch of salt) if you have strong feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. Cut all contact till you don't anymore. I'd wouldn't even tell them

My method goes even further "They don't exist to me", for me that's the only way to get rid of those feelings in a quick enough way where i can still move on with my life and not go down that rabbit hole of 'feelings'

[slatyb]

Just tell her the truth.” I’m sorry. You know I’m attracted to you, and it’s too painful to spend time with you knowing that it’s not mutual.”

[RealDaveThomas]

Why not?