How much do girls care about a guys race in terms of a potential partner?

[Anonymous]

I only ask this question because the girl I really liked, the only pretty girl to genuinely express interest in me, rejected me a year ago after we met off one of the apps and went out some. She is not the same background as me. She was black-Hispanic and I am white-Jewish. She told me she was just looking for something casual at the time. I just hope my race didn’t factor in at all.

[Cynicaldreamer]

I wouldn't read too much into it- she really might have just been looking for something casual.

As for race? Same as guys- it varies. I think it depends more on how she was raised more than anything (is her family and/or friends okay with her dating outside her race). I've liked guys outside my race before, but they've refused to date me due to what their families or others might say to them. Or they never dated outside their race so they were uncomfortable doing so, even though they liked me.

But again, it just depends. You could have asked her, but I wouldn't dwell too much on it.

[ZS007]

I think we can't know for certain. Anything is possible. Personally, just cause I live in a very close minded and racist country I wouldn't date someone from another race. Cause I don't want to deal with my family. Even if I have debates with my fam we keep disagreeing, so I wouldn't go looking for love and in the far future complicate my life.

[Asker]

I live in the most liberal state in the US

[ZS007]

then it might really be the case that she wants casual stuff

[Avicenna]

Like guys, they have preferences, and usually they prefer people from similar backgrounds.

[Asker]

I don’t have a preference really

[Avicenna]

Most people do

[Asker]

She just has to be pretty you know

[FilmGuy93]

They care a pretty good bit.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I don't really care about the race, but I admit that I have more attraction to some ethnicities. 🤭

[Asker]

Do explain

[lightningwolfo]

Well we all have preferences, and there are still families that only want their children marrying the same race as them. You’re never really going to know for sure.

[Msputiton]

Never really been something i think about.

I never walk around going i must only date this race. I'm not a robot preprogrammed to only date what i was instructed to date

[Pinay_ako]

Idc what skin colour you have, but if I’m into you, nothing else matters to me!

[mandyfire98]

Race has never been an issue with me in dating. I've dated outside my race before and would again.

[TacosRAwesome]

I want someone that has the same or similar culture to myself so as they can get the local vibes.

[Anonymous]

I prefer a white husband since they're less likely to be sleeze bags and will actually treat me like a princess

[Asker]

Racist

[Opinion Owner]

How is that racist?

[Asker]

Stereotypes… and also there are plenty of white sleazes. I would prefer a pretty girl of any race who would treat me wonderfully

[AndrésC64]

Racist much?