Do men really think that women hate them?

Question

please explain and what way do you think we hate you?  just because a woman tries to create stability for herself doesn’t mean that she hates a man doesn’t want them to help her along the way

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

I don't hate men. My dad was a man, my brother is a man, my nephew will be a man one day. The only reason I would dislike a man is if he's being rude to me, treating me lowly, and just disrespectful. I also do not like hypocrisy, don't tell me x is okay for you to do/get away with just cause you have a penis. If it's not okay for me to do it as a woman then it shouldn't be okay for you to do it either. God don't care what you have between your legs, He's going to judge us all the same, no one gets a pass for having a penis or vagina. Anyway, most men are okay and very nice to get along with. 🙂 I haven't had a whole lot of negative experiences with men.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't think most men think individual women hate them personally. I think it's more that they feel like society is pretty uncaring about men, and it's kind of true.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

There are men that believe women legitimately hate them and there are men that believe women barely tolerate them or look at them with disdain or contempt.

Take GaG for example. How many users of both sexes do you see mentioning their anger and frustration to the opposite sex and list their reasons why, only to see the opposite gender get into spats about it? Too many. We don't take the time to indulge or understand each other because of past experiences and any time we see something that reminds us of them, we immediately slot that person as a bad one or whatever we want to call them. I will admit, I have to hold my tongue at moments on the site here because there are some known users that say abhorrent things that create division more than grounds for understanding.

In simpler terms, men know that they have to do a lot to simply catch a woman's attention, much less keep their interest if they succeed in getting them to talk. Women have plenty of options when it comes to men and will drop men without a second thought the second they see something they don't like rather than discuss or work with the flaw. Same goes for men. No one wants to take the time understand each other or work on issues that arise. They would rather get rid of the problem and find someone else who doesn't have it.

A lot of men voice frustration at women having high standards because they are upfront about their independence and come off as making it a point that it comes off as beating a dead horse. "I don't need a man!" "What do you bring to the table?" "Men ain't shit!" It comes off as antagonizing and unpleasant and only creates distance.

Women say this. We see it, we hear it, we don't want to deal with it. Women come off as very unattractive and unapproachable with these words and this mindset because then it is militant and carries masculine energy. Men don't want to deal with women that act like dudes. We would just just be gay if that was the case.

We don't like women that come off as hostile or like they have a chip on their shoulder with something to prove. Society is showing women that to be strong, they need no men, need to be fiercely independent and high value and career oriented. Souns familiar? They are being told to act like men.

Men don't care about your education. They don't care about your income. They don't care about your independence. At the end of the day, men want a loyal, trusting, faithful woman that will support them, can be nurturing, in her feminine and let him lead the relationship and them to their shared goals and values and accomplish it as a team. As a couple. As a unit.

We don't want a woman that is stuck in her masculine that challenges everything we say and do. Has to always be right. Can't admit when she is wrong, or apologize when she fucks up or makes a mistake. Always needs to have it her way. A sense of entitlement or cherry picked privileges and frame it as equality. That is what a lot of women flaunt these days and we could care less about it. More power to them at the end of the day if they want that, but if they ar seeking a man, they want someone on a higher or equal level or they will be less than pleased with who he is as a person, only mentioning his shortcomings and lack of things that she believes he needs to be successful. That is why a lot of us believe hate us. No one wants to settle, man or woman, and they believe they deserve more than what they truly are or have at impossible standards that no one can hold.

Anonymous · Answer

I think women are girls are pissed with past experiences dating shitty guys, or growing up in a loveless environment with an absent or rude father and all of these things will culminate into a big issue in her mind. When girls become young women they understand eventually that women in the work force are put down, not paid as much. Third wave feminism is extremely toxic where tons of young women and girls and older women following these female-made ideologies. Feminism is not sparking "change" it's sparking hate. The same way young men will rant about being single and hating women because of a, b and c, x, y and z is also hate. If Feminism truly was about change, females would not bash each other (ex: questioning why a Muslim girl wears a hijab) ... Not every girl wants to show off her body. For me, I don't think women and girls hate me, online yes, but in person I have a friendly rapport with women. If you ask any female about me, most of them will say, yea he's a little weird with his sense of humour but overall he's a nice guy and a honest dude for the most part. Another thing is, you attract what you are around and what you become. If girls are 13 years old and have friends from elementary to jr high to high school, chances are they will all be into the same stuff -- what they listen to, what type of guys they like or will pursue, and etc.

Problem is just like how bad guy friends can influence me to hate on women, girls who are friends with each other can do the same. I see so much hate on here especially from immature females who take what I say out of context like im some evil monster. I am not cussing them out, I am not calling them a slut, I am not insulting them. There are many times where girls on here don't care about insulting me when they do not know a damn thing about me. That's hypocrisy at its finest because if a guy made 20 assumptions about a girl online or in real life, she will tell him to fuck off and block his ass, correct? Third wave feminism played a huge role in this but also the corruption of greedy ass men on the top. Both males and females are at fault for this mess, I am not placing 100% of the blame on women for this, it also falls on us males as well.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

The evidence is literally everywhere. Dating profiles laden with hate. Go to a party for grown folks. All the men go one way to talk sports, weather and bullshit. All the women go another way and talk shit about their men. Scroll through any and all social media for the last 15 years. Hundreds of thousands of posts BY women declaring men to be the root of all evil, and rife with hypocrisy about IPV, rape and “consent”. How many women are publicly honoring their fathers, brothers, husbands and sons? I’ve seen maybe 3 such posts, ever. Look at EVERY show on television for the last 40 years. Men are portrayed exclusively as barely competent, as compared to women, complete fools or pure evil. In the rare cases men are foolishly portrayed honestly or worse, brilliantly, the show is canceled early. Nobody wants to watch that shit! Ell oh ell! Have you seen the protests to end the observation of Father’s Day? Have women EVER collectively protested the drafting of men into military service, and all of the repercussions of NOT registering? Could there be a better example of hatred than KNOWING the most important man in a woman’s life is marching off to near certain doom, and they’ve literally NEVER done anything about it but cash the GD checks? Ell oh ell! Yeah…. THAT’S love alrighty.
There’s absolutely no doubt that women hate men carte blanche. They just haven’t worked out a way to tap us for our resources without having to pretend to appreciate us…. yet. Once they do, the pretense will end.

MementoMori_ · Answer

I wouldn't describe it as "hate."

I would describe it as natural differences in their perspective on relationships between men and women that leads to tension between the sexes.

For example...

Since women have a much more restricted time frame in which they can have children than men, it tends to make womens' perspective about time in a relationship different from mens'. From a man's perspective, women seem to be in a rush to make commitments in a relationship and from a womans' perspective men seem to waste a lot of time and never get to the commitment. This is often a cause of tension between men and women. You could call it "hate," but I think that is too harsh.

Many of these things that cause tension between men and women are driven by natural biological differences that the other sex doesn't understand well because they have never lived life as the opposite gender. It can be quite confusing to try to understand the other gender sometimes.

As a matter of fact I think that talking about these gender differences and trying to understand them is the essence of what this Website is based upon.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, we really think women hate us, or at at the very least don't care about us. It's a fact that is kind of hard to deny if you pay any attention. I'll just give one example to illustrate my point. Andrew Yang wrote an editorial earlier this year titled "The data are clear: The boys are not all right". He began by saying "Here is one of the biggest problems facing America: Boys and men across all regions and ethnic groups have been failing, both absolutely and relatively, for years. This is catastrophic for our country." He went on to lay out the fact, and they are very depressing indeed. It's clear men and boys are facing serious problems, and the inevitable repercussions have only begun to manifest. Now, you would think there would be some empathy and concern among women about this issue, right? Nope, just the opposite. Following the article are almost 4,000 comments from readers, and the comments from most of the women are pretty sad. There is no concern from women for the wellbeing of men, but there is certainly a lot of disdain. If you want to know why we men think women hate us, it's because women show all the time that they don't care about the welfare of men. Just read the article and some of the comments. Read them all if you care enough to. Or, be like most women and just move on.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/02/08/andrew-yang-boys-are-not-all-right/

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of women certainly hate men. There is no disputing that fact. You don't have to try very hard at all to find them. One of the highest rated books on Amazon is titled "I Hate Men", and it has received huge accolades among the feminist community as well as mainstream media. The internet is saturated with content about "male tears", "men are trash" and plenty of other misandry. And where are the "good" women who stand up and speak out against all of this? They are silent... if they exist at all. It is perfectly acceptable for women to express their hatred for men but the reverse is not true.

But the obvious expression of hatred for men among many women is not the biggest reason men know women hate them. It's the fact that women as a whole show they don't appreciate men or the sacrifices and contributions men make in the world that make it a better place. Women focus on the few bad apples and ignore the majority of good men who are doing good things in the world. Not only do women not show appreciation or admiration for men, they work very hard NOT to show it.

Women today are like teenagers and treat men like their parents... they are to immature and self absorbed to recognize what men do for them. Even if they do recognize it, they are too insecure to acknowledge it because they feel like doing so would somehow take something away from women. They see it as a zero sum game, a competition they think they will win by making women look as good as possible and men look as bad as possible.

So yeah, men do believe that women as a whole hate men as a whole, because you give us every reason to believe it, and it's rare for a woman to make any effort to show otherwise. Why wouldn't we think you hate us?

MCheetah · Answer

Because the women who aren't feminists (man-haters/misandrists) and are against woke culture, do nothing to speak out against feminists and woke culture and do nothing to stick up for or defend men. It's essentially the unspoken attitude of "If it's not benefiting me, I'm not going to do anything against it" that has so many men to believe that modern Western women do not care for, or think about the welfare, of men in general nowadays. Inaction counts as action itself and most women don't seem to stick up for men whatsoever because it doesn't/won't benefit them in some way.

INB4 some angry feminist like 'Barbuie comes on here and makes a stupid, hateful feminist comment, unintentionally proving me right. Or this f*cking man-hating cunt of a new admin, no less.

NathanDavis · Answer

cannot speak for others...

but no, women certainly do not hate me

in my family, relatives, all my friends, my best friends, acquaintances, coworkers, neighbors, colleagues... all the girlfriends I ever had, G@G friends, dozens upon dozens of women that definitely do not hate me, in fact they are very fond of me, to different levels of course

sure, there's is also a very small share of women that dislike me for any or other reason, but those are few and it's not a big deal, they don't hate me and if they feel like they hate it is probably something about them that has an issue with something about me, which is not true hate

finally, the vast majority of women are neutral about me, I am just not a thing in their lives lol... so, they don't have any reason to hate me nor care about me really

Pyrofox · Answer

Well all the incendiary quote "all men" generalizations kinda really blindsided a lot of guys out of the concept that all women are princess and should be treated as such. And then ya got the woke claims from all sorts of media of "I'm a strong, Independent woman that don't need no man." Which leaves men to be like if your so "strong, and independent then why don't y'all just make your own sperm then."

It doesn't help that women got a fertility clock. While men yes a 60 or older man produces less sperm than when they are like 18 or in their 20's to 30's the irony is that they still can get a girl pregnant. Where as most women past 30. DOUBLE maybe even tripple in chances of the inability to just carry a child to term.

And yes I know there's complications possible for a older man trying to have a baby but there's still a difference between maybe having a kid and CAN'T.

VanillaSalt · Answer

It’s not hate… men believe women don’t respect and desire them enough. And it’s true if you compare womens idea of dating to mens…

For example I got a match on bumble 2 months ago… we tried to schedule time to go on a date but she kept canceling… then I missed one time when we hadn't even scheduled a date or time yet due to getting off a night shift and having no sleep and she stopped responding back… I got 15 days off a month and this bitch refused to work with me on scheduling… I find it disrespectful.

Let’s be honest. It’s still widely expected men pursue, men pay, men propose, etc… if you want that then a little respect for my effort and time would be appreciated.

I don’t feel hated just under appreciated.

OpenClose · Answer

Eh. Some bad experiences have me cautious.

Sometimes I worry they see me first and foremost as a oppressor and as a human being second. But we don't year quiet voices, and we all know what the loud voices are saying.

But otherwise I don't think it's the majority. I lived with and hung out with mostly girls in college. It was nice being able to open the air about certain emotions. But it definitely felt like I couldn't bring up male-related issues without it immediately becoming a competition. Or some girls would consider you a misogynist for even bringing them up.

So it was welcoming but still felt conditional.

ohsheeT · Answer

I think that not all women hate anybody I think more women hate each other than anybody else or just like each other I guess no each person is an individual if they like you they like you if they don't they don't it's none of my business I might be curious if it was somebody that I really was into but really I'm just me I'm not worried about if somebody likes me or not as long as I like myself that's all I care about than most people would like you or like me so now I think women or women and women have that right to choose who they like and who they don't like that's usually because of a reason

JDavid25 · Answer

I don't think women hate men in fact many still like and love us.. Just that in places like Chicago basically it's hard to find the ones who don't low to mid key think that men are sh! t.. You gotta look in specific places to find women who don't subscribe to low-key misandry.. I think most women don't really all around agree with it, but in the right situations they'll say the same it..

worldscolide · Answer

I don't believe that women hate men. I would go so far as to say that most women don't hate men. The ones that hate men are the the ones that say "women need men like a fish needs a bicycle" which are the radical leftist feminist kinds of women. Or the women who is so independent that she shouts "I'm an independent woman I don't need no man" while at the same time collecting multiple child support checks from multiple baby daddies and on state assistance. They are typically insufferable and disgusting them selves.

Basically the ones that hate men couldn't possibly get a quality man in the first place.

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

An important thing to realize is that there can be no such thing as just “men” or “women” when you’re asking a question like this.

That’s like asking “do humans like to eat pizza?”

Way too general to get any kind of coherent answer.

So, the only actual answer you can get for this question is “some do, some do not.”

The explanations vary endlessly.

OlderThanILook · Answer

I dont think women hate men in the sense that they are hostile to them. That would take way too much effort to be unconditionally hostile to every man. It's more like women are extremely indifferent and tend to not care about men or their issues. Men want to interact with women, women don't want to interact with men. Some guys see that as women "hating" them.

Beardedman1996 · Answer

Well you also have to understand that men have created so many issues and problems over the centuries that now that women have the most freedom and independence they’ve had throughout history there are some people who are revolting against the idea of forgiving men as whole for all our shit so a good portion of women have actually grown to not only not Need men for anything but also to hate us and threaten us, movements like, hate all men, kill all men, these are actual movements made by women against men

MarkRet · Answer

When I was a teenager and in my early twenties I thought they hated me personally, but I don't think think that way anymore. The only women who hate men are those fringe feminists, like the one below >  I would't go anywhere NEAR this woman!

Lionman95 · Answer

I wouldn't say they hate us for me it sometimes just feel like some women view life like guys are the cause of the problems in the world and women are the solution so being confronted with such a worldview many guys got bitter hence they feel unappreciated in discussions.

Alex8736 · Answer

I never felt that way at all unless there was a legitimate reason or past mistake that may have caused it. But then again you have people (both male and female) who just hate for no reason which is usually jealousy as a key factor

Havthrills · Answer

Yes of course women hate men unless

1) six pack abs

2) bulging arms

3) decent sized bank account

4) tan skin

5) neatly groomed every second

6) fancy clothes

7) nice car

Challenge for you. Prove me wrong

Anonymous · Answer

I think your mistake is thinking we even care what your thinking. 🤣

Most guys learn to just deal with women's emotions over time. We learn how to react to different situations. Most guys learn to stop trying to understand women at a certain point.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

A lot them will say no. But some do think that we hate then. Perhaps they came to that conclusion through bad experiences or by only looking at the toxic women.

TheFlak38 · Answer

If the toxic anti-male society in which you live tells you to hate men then that is exactly what you're going to do. You don't have your own opinions. You're a woman. You belong to the collective and must obey collective's rules. Today women are the de facto enemy of men. Any man who doesn't realise this or refuses to accept it sees his life getting destroyed completely sooner or later. All it takes is one false rape accusation.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Because women would rather be selfish hypocrits than do anything that would benefit men.

They'd rather have unprotected sex, get pregnant and kill the man's child claiming it's only hers because she's the incubator. Then blame men for getting her pregnant in the first place.

Women want men to do shit for them when they couldn't care less to do shit for men. They're constantly complaining.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course women hate men. Look around. We're portrayed as predators, criminals, bumbling idiots, pedos, incels, fuckboys, you name it. Women have a negative label or stereotype for every type of man there is. Unless she wants something from him, that is.

So a woman can *not hate* a man or several men, but women in general hate men in general.

HighValue · Answer

Of course they do. That is why feminist women screw over men and the other women never do anything about it to get laws changed so men can have equality under the law.

AviatorTom · Answer

Women often get over-emotional and when they say "I hate you" they're really just saying "I'm upset now."

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

It makes me feel sad to see some comments from men who thinks women hates them. 🥺 If you respect a woman (just like how she respects you as well), she won't have any reason to hate you..

BUTIMRIGHTTHO · Answer

@justneedtokno I think a lot of women are resentful towards men. And that can come out as hate. Is it hate? I don't know

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

It's because of her face and posing. If she has this very miserable face or the way she looks at people makes me want to think that I better shouldn't approach her and leave.

That's like, our behaviour is a mirror.

Anonymous · Answer

We know that women hate us. I don’t even bother talking with you all anymore. I don’t speak to you and I don’t look at you. I don’t check you out. I don’t hit on you. What’s the point? You’ll just get on Reddit and complain about how you just wanted to be left alone at school/coffee shop/grocery store/gym/bar/club and then some AWFUL man talked to you. What a creep! Then he started mansplaining! What a misogynist!

Yeah. Sign me up for that. Sounds awesome.

msc545 · Answer

I think most women see men only as people to be used for their own well-being. I think most women have very little or no respect for men otherwise. More than anything else women are interested in money.

dustybiker · Answer

Men don’t live in a constant state of hate. Those that get angry or hive knee-jerk reactions are just confused.

historectomy · Answer

ngl y'all can be pretty convincing with the way you treat some of us, sometimes i think some women just with guys for dick, but most seem to like guys

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

The internet weirdos, definitely. Those guys are borderline insane. Normal day to day men, no.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

You need only browse Tik Tok for.00005235 seconds to find 100 women who explicitly state that they hate men. Next question.

Nash62826 · Answer

Probably, we don't hate u just some if the stuff u say or do but y'all are pretty cool.

Aerolyn · Answer

The only time I tend to feel hated just for being a guy is when I get on the internet. Other than that I never think that.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

A lot of men do think that, yes. A lot of women treat the men in their lives with absolute disdain.

hahahmm · Answer

No... but women love to play word games and manipulate dudes who allow it so there's that.

shanshu · Answer

Women don't hate men, they are just deluded of the fairy tail of a man they can't have, they expect the perfect man and when they man is not out there they complain because we can't or won't live up to that expectation.

Anonymous · Answer

If you only see the top 20% who are soo spoiled for women they can and do treat women like trash.  A lady can be forgiven for disliking men.

RedStiletto88 · Answer

Some men obviously do but their opinion isn’t important.

Luopio27 · Answer

Out of all the girls I liked more than as a friend, all have rejected me. The reason for so, its not that they hate me or my gender. Its that my competators have what they want and I dont.

Zolly99999 · Answer

I don't think all women hate men.. but I think a lot do..  I have been burned so many times it makes me skeptical now

Cedman · Answer

To many guy get caught up in the mgtow/men right activist/incel movements. I think these movements are scammers that play on men's insecurities. In the beginning of these movement they had a point but now they have gone too far.

Sixgunsound · Answer

I don’t think an entire gender does much of anything the same.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Hate, no. But we do know women see men as a source of resources. If/when a man is unable to provide she will bounce like a bad check.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

No. We just know we're becoming obsolete. That's why many men are finding their purpose instead of chasing women who don't appreciate them as much anymore.

maximumpower · Answer

Only when they don't buy into their bullshit and treat them like the equals that they demand they are. I mean - come on - the dual standard is the ONLY standard, right?

OddBeMe · Answer

Yes because they see you as just sexual objects and not friends. I give a lot advice about getting to know women.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls sure don't come to me for a hug 🤔. But seriously now i don't think women hate us. Why would women hate us and what for? I love girls ❤️

Juxtapose · Answer

Nah, I just think a lot of you women are indifferent to us men.

Jenny-Marie · Answer

No, I just think that women are tired of misogynistic behaviour.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Yes there are certain girls who really do hate men. But no, most love men.

Agape93 · Answer

Incels and mgtows do.

Stevefiveo · Answer

I love women but there are definitely guys that hate women out there.

AmeerX · Answer

Good person male or female has no overbearing whatsoever

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