Why is it that my shoulder, legs and stomach are sexualized and labeled as a distraction to the boys, so that I am forced to cover up. Wouldn't it make more sense to just teach the boys not to overly sexualized their peers and how to focus instead of penalizing and blaming girls?
This is due to how boys are raised and specifically their peers and how they grow up imitating men in their surroundings.
This is why it's a revolving issue that grows even more due to porn exposure and immature women projecting insecurities through sex and giving away thier bodies through projecting thier bodies as sexual objects which in turn men equate this to the same equivalent to women in real life doing the same if they wear specific clothing even the most modest clothing is portrayed in porn and social media as sexual sadly.
If you pay attention to porn and porn actors and people in porn you will notice the very same influences of what they want viewers to see as sexual.
So in order for this to change women and men need to take accountability for their participation and their resistance to acknowledge thier effect on new generations. Men and women also need to learn to grow past thier beliefs and gain mature mindsets about sexuality.
I have found that most mature individuals do not go on media in general and only use it occasionally and go about their life. Which is why you rarely will see them in social sites.
Once people take more accountability in themselves and gain more maturity they will see their ability to be leaders over followers.
Sorry your getting a lot of contradictions from others, just know that a lot of people in general have a lot of growth that some may never reach. That's okay growth can not be forced and people must make these choices themselves to grow, just remember to try to surround yourself with mature crowds and if you do not, understand that others do not change without the will to want to grow and you can chose to remove yourself from those individuals if they make you feel uncomfortable. If someone is staring at you inappropriately and you want them to stop you can also ask them to stop staring at you that it makes you uncomfortable, most people will stop.
I hope this somewhat helps.
Have a great day. ❤️
We have to be honest, ladies dress sexy ir skimpy sometimes to grab attention from both sexes. Want to feel pretty, look pretty, and desired. We can say that's not true all we want but depending inside we know that's why we do it. We know dressing a certain way will get a man's attention. Plus men and women who have good looking bodies like to show it off anyway.
It's called the path of least resistance. Sure I can exert great mental force and probably develop a mental condition just so I can free ball in sweat pants and not pop a boner in public... or I can just wear underwear and pants, regular pants.
You're only 15, but when it comes to these boy/girl questions, try to view it first from you dealing with your own son. To just teach boys to control 150,000 years of evolution has led to plenty of serial killers. I do somewhat agree with you though because I think exposure to naked chicks just normalizes that attraction and it's not such a big deal to the dude after he's just used to seeing some skin.
But yeah back to the path of least resistance... we humans usually take that route because people have, in the past, tried your fantastic ideas and it didn't work out all that well in the long run. Is what it is and like I said I somewhat agree because being exposed to shirtless girls takes away all that mystery and the excitement of it all. I only say that because it worked for me... sex clubs where the men were required to be nude, but there was still enough naked chicks to just get over it while I hung out with my wang out.
That is stupid.
That is like saying... why don't we just get the sky not to rain instead of people using umbrellas.
It is IMPOSSIBLE for men to see sexy, skimpy dressed girls with breasts showing, bare skin showing, butts showing, stomachs showing, short shorts, low cut, tight tops and thong bikinis walking around and to not get lustful and to look and to think about sex and wanting girls... etc.
That is actually how men are designed. That is like saying teach birds not to fly and squirrels not to climb trees. That is the way men are designed.
If you want guys to respect you and to not always lust after you and to see you as a sex object and to not have players and chads trying to score one night stands... then dress classy. "TEACH BOYS TO NOT NOTICE"... that is idiotic.
Why the hell are you so obsessed with wearing revealing clothes? What mental disconnect do you have that this is an obsession of yours? Why are you so obsessed with your bits hanging out? You want to fight against human biology and to start a dumb crusade for the goal of just dressing sluttier? Really? How dumb is that?
Actually that's not true, nudity is widely excepted and is not overly sexualized in other cultures.
I shouldn't be held responsible for someone else's lack of self control... if the fact that I am wearing shorts and a tank top is sooo distracting to men, that is their problem.
I didn't realize that wearing summer cloths like shorts and a tank top or a bathing suite is considered slutty... or is it just the fact that I have breast tissue and vagina that is considered slutty?
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Because girls’ clothing is a choice, but being distracted isn’t.
She can wear whatever she want lmao. That's her body. Imagine if we told men that they can't be rich, otherwise all of us would transform into gold diggers.
Well unless the girl is wearing micro bikini, I don't see the problem. And if it's becoming a "distraction", look the fuck away.
And you can divert your attention elsewhere. Period.
Or avert your gaze!
Or don't be a pervert. Who knew that was an option!
That fact that you think wearing a tank top and shorts means that I am exposing myself and give you the right to stare at a 15 year old is fucked up and gross... you like staring at teenagers... and this is why people call the cops one men who hang out around schools and play grounds...
Honey, let me share a more empathetic view. Say, a girl is wearing a short dress. If you look, that's okay. But it depends on the time duration and how you're looking at them, for it to be perverted. You can glance at them and look away. Simple as that.
And Suzie, no he doesn't want to understand. He's too stubborn. He may not be a pervert himself but he wants to defend all men for being one.
You must be blind.
@anon1903 nope… I see advertising selling sex constantly. I see that even young girl’s clothing choices that are extremely skimpy. I see nearly every woman character on TV looking sexy. I see tons of women-oriented magazines constantly pushing stories about how to charge of your sex life and using fashion to own your sexuality.
Aside from the occasional person calling a woman slutty for dressing a bit more provocatively than the situation calls for; I don’t see anyone forcing modesty down women’s throats.
Exactly! I agree 110% with Suzie here.
Because it's easier to put on a piece of clothing than to try to change a guy's nature. Men are visual creatures- it's in our nature. When we're teens/ young men, our sex drive is very high, and we're easily aroused. If we're going to have co-ed places where we don't want young men to be distracted/ aroused, it's easier to have women cover up (let's be honest, we're not talking about a shoulder here...).
Or do you really want to try the impossible feat of convincing men not to be attracted/ aroused by a female's body? "Objectification," "sexualization," all these nonsensical words to vilify the fact that a woman's body is the "object" of a man's attraction- there is nothing wrong with this, even when it doesn't include an appreciation/ affinity for her personality/ character.
Or, "well, you can be attracted to the body, but only depending on where you are; so, like if you see a pair of tits in class you won't notice them, but if they're in that setting over there they do- yea, they only become attractive in certain settings, and better yet only if we're attracted to you... yea, that's what we want."
This would be as difficult as converting a gay person straight.
Dude It's pretty simple. You don't understand because you don't feel the dopamine rush we get from seeing a girl's body. It opens up the reward or motivation center of the brain. That is the reason so many guys do dumb stuff in the presence of a girl they want.
IT LITERALLY IS IMPOSSIBLE for it not to be a distraction. You can increase self-control but it's still a distraction in our minds even if we try not to show it. Seriously girls don't understand. Women in the field of Neuroscience probably understand and the women who actually listen to our experience.
YOU ARE A SEXUAL BEING. You cannot stop from being sexualized. That is how animals work. Now you shouldn't be disrespected or touched or flirted with... (well a lot of you want some of that so I don't know)
It's like having crack around a crack addict. We are wired to be DISTRACTED!!! @suzzieQ
You're literally asking them to teach boys the hardest thing to learn and the ones who do learn it become legendary. To take full possession of ones mind.
Now I do agree that a shoulder is a bit too far. However, the stomach is not too far. I think showing legs beyond the knee should be banned. Even yoga pants should be ban. You may think that is too far but I assure you if you knew what it was like to be a male... You would understand my stance even if you didn't agree with it. Now obviously I don't care what girls where because I get to look at them but if I was making a decision purely off logic... Yeah I'd ban showing to stomach and high shorts and yoga pants.
This one girl was wearing yoga pants shorts (idfk) so tight dude I could see everything. It was like wearing underwear!!! Like c'mon how do you think that is okay. It's hot but that's the problem. It's too hot. It's bedroom hot. Might as well some panties and bra to school.
You'll never understand the feeling we get when looking at a hot girl half naked.
Sounds like a bunch of excuses to objectify girls and then blame them for being sexualized... there are many cultures where all of that is not an issue... its just an excuse for poor self control
The real issue is girls dressing to be seen as sexy and attractive but getting upset that men objectify them. Girls who dress slutty choose those clothes to be seen. Just like some women choose to cover their body or dress casual because of how they are viewed. Mens brains dont function like women. They are naturally, since the beginning of time looking for things pleasing to the eyes to spread their seed. Its not to say they shouldn't be taught to be respectful. But if you dress to impress then dont get upset when you achieve to impress. Im not talking about girls who wear short shorts. Im talking ass hanging out. Or girls w crop tops but girls who choose barely covering the nipples and not much to the imagination tops. Girls can dress how they want but when you show tap you're not being fair.
Because boys and girls are different. If you want that equal, then other standards should also be equal and don't give girls special treatment. How about almost all girls start failing PE and never graduate high school because they will never live up to the same standards as the boys?
If they need to go by the same standards, why not let boys compete in all girls sports too? Oh, girls never win anything sport related ever again. Wouldn't that be fair?
Don't like "equality" when it is fair and not just giving girls preferential treatment huh?
Women do it too and think it is okay.
https://youtu.be/JJUZfcSSApM
So no need to make hypocritical complaints when it is also common amongst women.
Or you can do like many women do, be promiscuous, dress slutty, then when you turn 30 and nobody good wants you because of your past and you wasted your chances in life, whine about it and blame men that they don't want anything to do with an immoral hypocritical person. There are plenty of women that do that and many of the young ones are too ignorant to learn from others' mistakes.
That's easier said than done because it's a kind natural reaction that guys look when a pretty girl walks by and it's probably not going to happen because she's smart. But it's true though that modern society is over-sexualised. That's not going to change because the root of it are either porn (society's favourite drug) or all those sexualised images on Instagram and all those bikini and underwear advertisements. These images lead guys to being horny all the time and constantly think about sex.
Because at least healthy guys get turned on the moment they see a woman they consider attractive walking by in an outfit that shows off certain parts of her body.
I don't know about other guys but sometimes i feel it is very hard not to look. And it really frustrates me sometimes.
I work at a counter manning the till for a business and it happens a lot that the women wear revealing clothes that is very hard not to look at.
One specific one wore a bra with a
see-through mesh shirt over it.
Not saying that us looking is women's fault but i would like some advice from the girls on what to do about these situations?
If i look away completely the customer thinks i am ignoring them
If i look i am a creep.
Advice please?
Don't you get distracted when walking by a candy store or seeing some cute clothes in the window of a dress shop? And don't women dress to attract men? Some just take it to the extreme is all. If men were not attracted to women we would be complaining about that instead.
So what are you advocating? That girls be allowed to go topless like boys do instead of covering up? I think there are more boys that would prefer that girls don't cover up.
Because it's nature! You can't blame anyone (not even males!)
Our big, grey matter brains can deal with some amount of higher functioning, but you cannot take the base out of the human animal. So men are not to blame for everything. Best they can do is try not to stare, be obvious. But girls have some responsibility too.
I grew up nudist. I was taught respect and the body is art not just sexual. I think guys should have to go naked! It would teach them these things and nudity also lowers aggression which would also help! I find guys who look at a girl drooling, or worse cat calling is very disrespectful!
There's nothing wrong with boys being attracted to girls, and guys going naked would just mean a bunch dudes with constant boners.
a lot of this has to do with parents/teachers allowing boys to have that "boys will be boys" mentality.
Nobody wants to take the time to teach boys that bodies aren't sexual unless it's in a intimate moment with someone else. But in everyday life there is nothing sexual about any part of the body. Boys/grown men that are randomly sexualizing women need some therapy cuz obviously they were not raised correctly and need help to figure out how to control themselves.
Yes I definitely agree with that. But I think we need to educate everyone not just the boys, because it is really sad sometimes to hear some women about it and the way they talk to their daughter for example
You can't teach boys that bruv, try but that's mission impossible at best or leads to sexual repression at most which I don't need to explain why that'd be bad, putting on an additional piece of clothing ain't that tough if it bothers you so much
Nope, and I don't have a low opinion of it, if a dude sees thighs or ass or boobs and isn't looking I'd actually be scared, please god tell me my son ain't gay, or I'd be worried for the girl since that it'd imply she's that unattractive, so no it's a good thing
@Sandeeppingping. She doesn't get it and is already on the feminist track. Let her learn the hard way.
@KrakenAttackin why do you make it sound like the fact that I don't believe I should be held responsible for the actions of others is unreasonable?
If im being totally honest, I barely got distracted by girls wearing less clothing, and at least the way it was in my school, teachers never really cared. a lot of times, it was some other female classmates of mine telling the girls who wore more revealing clothing to change the way they were. Only problem i have with it is when it was obvious the girls wanted attention, such as wearing light, little amounts of clothing in the winter. But in the end, i never saw much of this at my school, but i guess the reason that girls are taught to cover up is because people see it as easier, although I think it would be better to spend more time teaching guys, I do think it would be more difficult, which sucks.
Because guys don't like taking responsibility for their own issues.
WE cover up because they can't stop staring.
WE have to not drink, go out at night, go for a run, go hiking alone etc. Because guys can't control themselves.
WE have to be modest because guys cringe at behavior they freely do themselves.
Etc. We are the social scapegoat
It's because no matter how much guys are taught to not sexualized or look at females, the more females sexualized themselves and the less coverage they have as if they are purposefully trying to break the focus of the very men they say this shit towards.
A girl I went to high school with, who was one of those girls who constantly constantly saying things like a 3rd wave feminazis, always exclaiming how she'd never sexualized herself because only "sluts"(gross word) do things like that, now has an OF account and not a shy account either. She went from not being like by any guy because of her feminazis personality to showing her tits+ to get money from simps.
Because one is so much easier than the other. Both needs to be learned, it's unfair to just give every responsibility to the guy. She can do her part by dressing right. She learn how to treat guys to get what she wants. Instead of numb every signal to not meen anything. And then see won't get anything at all.
"Boys will be boys" is why in later stages, some men become r#pists. Because they think to themselves, they weren't held accountable for their actions when they were younger, why start now? Why not just pretend a man pumped with testosterone would fuck just anyone? With or without consent.
Suzie, if a guy makes you uncomfortable by staring, or tries anything because you're "dressed s1utty", kick him in the b@lls.
If you want the scientific answer men bodies produce a lot of testosterone. These chemicals give men their deeper voices , it makes it easier to produce muscles it the "man" chemical. On the the downsides to this is it makes men extremely horny. So men a going to always be distracted by women, it is just more mature guys are better at hiding it.
It’s just boils down to respect, from both sides. Respect lacks anymore.
People will blame hormones, but woman having raging drives too.
I think you'll find it's only muslims who think this way. Normal people have no problem with a little tummy showing the pierced bellybutton in front and a little thong on the bare lower back above low-rise jeans
That girls should dress a certain way to not distract boys?
So if the girl is raped and she had on booty-shorts and a small top it is the girls fault I'm guessing?
Clearly muslim thought patern. No normal people think this way
Nah if they say anything else they're stupid as heck
If anyone says girls should dress a certain way they're idiots. Plain and simple. If they argue girls have a responsibility for rape ie. Because they dressed in skimpy clothes then that person is a moron. Welcome to the real world hun
Have a nice day cute girl
u Wouldn't it make more sense to just take human nature into account? You can talk all night long about the way people ought to be, but the next day, you need to be prepared to deal with them the way they really are.
If you are trying to say that a guy looking at you is the equvalent of rape or murder, then there is no serious discussion happening here.
Disingenous.
Well, in my case, I don't have a boy to teach; I have a girl and she's below the age of impressionability. I don't know about specifics like shoulders and legs, but I intend to teach her not to dress in such a way as to say "COME AN' GET IT!" so she *won't* be penalized.
I remember at 15 years old, I would see girls wear short dresses and showing their legs. Is it distracting to me? Yes, in a way that I would most definitely look at the girl as she has my attention showing her body. Should you cover up your body? Really it's up to you as it's your body and you have a right to dress though I believe less it more when wearing revealing clothing.
Unfortunately when puberty hits the boys start to look at girls more in a sexual way and have urges when their eyes see body parts. No it’s not fair and it’s a double standard as girls are not as obvious watching boys with bare skin. But I think less shame and more encouragement should be given to girls who want to dress how they feel comfortable.
You need to see from both views. His view and your view. Feelings sometimes are hard to control and you can't blame someone for that. Instead you can only control the situation of not giving the other person a chance to feel anything about you. So covering up is given a priority than asking someone not to feel or control their feelings hardly
truth is boys are going to look covered or not, the more you show the more they see. is it right, i do not know, some girls like to be looked at, others not so much, some girls just want certain guys to look and get mad when others look. the thing is girls look at guy as well, maybe they do not catcall or whistle nearly as much, but they look.
yes some guys are assholes about it, sorry about that. dress to suit yourself, be comfortable.
I think we should just tell everyone that if a girl wants to wear something, that's her choice and if a guy finds it "distracting", that's his problem.
If something someone is wearing offends you, that doesn't give you the right to hit him and if someone is wearing something you find suggestive, that doesn't give you the right to harass them.
you can't "teach" boys to not be biologically attracted to certain things
No.
There is a time and place for covering up, and getting naked. If you're too simple minded to know fashions, trends, and dress etiquettes - then you shouldn't be going out at all.
You're 15 and don't understand public space? You're not going to get far! It's not about "self control" but self awareness. Something you lack.
Everything has consequences, the idea of living is to reduce them. You can walk out looking like a million bucks - but can get mugged and robbed. In court it's you that will be laughed at and reprimanded for lacking self awareness and not taking due care. You cannot demand of others, when you've taken no precautions yourself.
You are only 15 it’s smart you are asking such qs because you want to know about how this world works ! I get it
But in general, you don’t have to cover yourself if you don’t want
No one is pushing you to do it
You are free
Crop tops, belly piercings tattoos is sexy, but most importantly self expressive which Im all for, regardless of what a girl wears, Ill agree guys need to be taught self control in adolescents.
No, you can't teach boys not to have a normal sex drive, not unless you castrate or drug them up.
By the way if man started wearing leggings with there bulge showing or them having visible erection, you would the one asking them to cover up.
Because covering up is something that women do anyway. They only say they don't because they think it's sexist to do so. It's not. Men and boys aren't going to school shirtless. They're still covering up and following dress codes for them.
Easier said than done. It’s something you will never understand as a female. As a female what you just said makes sense to you but that’s cause you think as a female. That’s like me saying we need to teach girls not to be so emotional.
I think you’re missing the point.
Sure ok. Can’t change your mind plus you assume both men n women think alike based on your thoughts in trying to get men to not be so distracted. What about boys who have ADHD or order disorders that affects their behavior? What about girls who dress like that to get attention from men? Why can’t society address that as well if you think men can’t change easily being distracted. I guess I will listen to your advice as you’ve obviously lived a lot longer than I have.
Cause the pedos think all males are just like them.
If you think we will ever be able to "teach" boys not to be sexually attracted to female body parts you are a bit of a fool girl. Try to keep it real, ok?
So, that girls don’t dress inappropriately in public. Usually, guys walk around with their pants sagging in public, and that’s indecent, and inappropriate.
No, but your cleavage, and you not wearing any panties is.
No, it’s how you dress to get men’s attention.
Some guys can’t tell if a woman don’t want his attention. Jealous, insecure women are the ones harassing guys.
Controlling biology vs controlling appearance (with clothing). Which one seems easier?
nothing wrong with being taught not to dress like a common street walker when you're at school. It has nothing to do with "the boys". That's a feminist lie to push their agenda, but nice try.
There's no way you're going to teach a boy to not be attracted to a sexy girl. It's nature.
Right to start with I don't think u should be made to cover up but asking a guy not to get distracted is telling a girl not to make any deal out of a period
this is a situation where women make the first move. You wear clothing designed to turn men on? Guess what? Men get turned on. Simple.
@Apple1996 not just creepy men, all straight men. The more provocative the clothing the greater the effect. Most of us can control ourselves fine in terms of actions, but it is distracting and that’s perfectly natural
Not all straight men are like that. It's just the ones that don't normalize nudity. And it's really not natural to randomly be sexualizing a woman in any moment that's not sexual. Like I said in my comment if any guy is doing that then they need therapy cuz they were not raised correctly
@Apple1996 lol sorry Apple but testosterone filled males are always gunna be attracted to good looking women and I don’t think either of us wants that to change
@Apple1996 lol I’m not giving men an excuse to act creepy, but I do give us an excuse to be distracted
@Apple1996 you cannot and should not teach men to not be men. As long as they keep their hands to themselves let them be distracted, it’s natural and okay
@Apple1996 it’s not wrong, period. It’s a glance. Stop trying to control other people so much
@Apple1996 you are obfuscating the truth with general terms. Respect is not staring, respect is not touching. Respect is NOT looking down at my feet the whole time. If a pretty girl catches my eye I won’t feel bad about it NOR SHOULD I and raising boys to be ashamed of this behaviour is toxic as fuck and a really huge problem in today’s society. Glancing at a pretty woman is not and has never been a problem.
@Apple1996 we’re still just talking about a glance right? 😂
Blame testosterone, I am what I am and if you can’t handle someone glancing at you that’s not my problem. Call the cops. Take me to court. This is the kind it shit that makes conscientious young men suppress their natural masculinity and guess what, the asshole rapist fuckers are still gunna do what they do, it’s only kind thoughtful men that get affected by this rhetoric and they are no threat to women, they need to not be afraid to glance at a cute girl. I’m mad because I was very suppressed by this sort of rhetoric as a young man and it STUNTED my social growth immensely.
You might think it caused problems with you while you were young but this causes ways bigger problems in girls and those problems are lifelong.
If you haven't noticed the two types of women. One type get extremely insecure then show off their bodies more like online (nudes, porn, OF, whatever else)/become sluts so they embrace being objectifed.
Then there are the ones that get so sexually repressed from being looked at as a object that they are the save themselves/get into relationships that become sexless/sex is a chore/digusted by men type.
All those things stem from men treating women as objects and the same men turn around and complain about those behaviors from women when it's literally their faults.
It's not that difficult to be respectful towards women but men will continue to choose not to cuz they don't see a problem with being creeps with no self control
It's easier to ask women to cover up than to deprogram instinctive biological urges the male of any species has to procreate. I'm not saying it's a fair answer, but it's an honest one.
That's like teaching a starving dog not to bit the steak you're waving in its face.
@mrtaboo savage! 🤣
Why do you feel the need to dress like a whore?
A man s primary attraction to a woman is sexual. A woman's primary power over men is sexual. When women flaunt their bodies, cock tease, attention whore, they are playing with a fire many of them don't fully understand. Women, especially white women, have a whole society built around protecting them from bad things and fron their own bad decisions, but sometimes bad things still happen.
I don't know how you act but the sooner you realize the above the easier and safer your life will be.
I am 15... I could be wearing a hoody and sweatpants and men would still perceive me as a sex object... it doesn't matter what men perceive, I should be able to leave the house with out have grown men such as your self look at me in a shorts and tank top and perceive me as whore.
Why do you think I be responsible for the actions and lack of self control of others?
Why do we teach people to lock their doors? Why don't we teach people not to steal or break into things instead?
Let's see if you can put this one together. I have faith in you!
No--I'm not.
Really because it looks like that is exactly what you are doing. Like you are trying to draw a comparison between breaking and entering, and blaming a victim of sexual assault because what she was wearing might have been considered provocative... and if that were true we would see a direct correlation between sexual assault and revealing clothing which is not the case.
Nothing in there is "blaming." If a person leaves their doors unlocked and gets their car or home broken into as a result they aren't at fault. But they COULD learn to reduce the likelihood of being either targeted for a crime or a victim of a crime. Same is true with girls when it comes to things like drawing attention to themselves sexually, or even moreso leaving themselves vulnerable by becoming incapacitated with drugs and/or alcohol in party environments. THAT'S why we teach girls how to either defend themselves or reduce the likelihood of being in a bad situation to begin with.
That's interesting. Then wouldn't you expect roughly the same number of men to be victims of sexual abuse?
Because one is changing clothes the other is changing brain chemistry
A woman's body is designed to distract a man for a propose
If you want to work in a professional setting cover it up.
Tell a girl to cover is probably easier to do then telling a boy not to get turned on
The naked body is Sexual
You can’t call the naked body not sexual and then hope to not Experience a sexual thing called Puberty
Getting a boner is a Real thing a sexual thing You can’t tell a Boy it’s wrong To like a girls ass and then expect his puberty to not Turn into Getting a boner off of looking at a girls ass
Human nature Can’t program puberty to not happen
@TacticalLizard the human body isn't sexual. It's just a body and nothing more unless you make it that way. There is a reason why nudist can see other people nude and not get turned on. It's cuz they were taught different then the rest of the world thats covering up their body and making body parts extremely sexualized
@Apple1996 erections happen sometimes weather we want it or not. U tell them it’s wrong, then we might our own body shaming. All based on the girls walking around with their boobs and ass on display. We can never get a break lmfao
Distraction is not something under voluntary control.
Because boys brains don't work that way unfortunately.
Or you could just ignore the whole covering up bit and not worry about it.
Yalll body's are built more sexually appealing all we got it is a 3rd leg to not expose vs y'all uppper an lower
Take a guess is covering up easy or to control ones sexual senses?
One is a voluntary action. The other is an involuntary reaction.
No, but when you're in school don't dress for the beach. There's no need to have your stomach or shoulders out.
Sexism, misogyny. Literally has been like this for decades.
Pah! You girls stare at us too. We are generally more often oblivious.
Going by that logic I was told I am gay, useless, stupid, have no future etc...
So what?
I kept moving forward, don't speak to them and I work and live alone. Also I out-earn those losers, who told me these things.
People will say all sorts of things. You can lose or you can chose.
Yeah, we get told the same shit but with different words for different scenarios.
This applies universally for everybody. If you get shit on, it's you who'll have to combat it.
Hence why I said choose or lose.
Different words for different scenarios. While not for dressing a certain way it may be for something different like height or salary or whatever.
Guess this is school well because teachers are liberals aka democrats ake child molesters just like Joey
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