What do girls mean when they say that a guy is sweet?

Question

I was sitting with a few people but i dont talk much.

a girl asked me why im so shy and why i dont talk much. I said “i dont know, i dont really have an answer”.

she then said “he is so sweet” to a guy.

RangerBlue22 · Accepted Answer

Scenario 1

You like her but she just sees you as a “nice guy” and non-threatening. This is a platonic compliment she can give you without misleading you. You are most likely friendzoned though. Don’t give her any more attention unless she makes a comment about you being attractive.

Scenario 2

You are not attracted to her or her vice versa. Okay no big deal. It’s a compliment.

Scenario 3

A woman who you already been intimate with (and least second base) says this. It’s a real compliment at that point. The friéndzone is still a danger though be careful. Especially if she never compliments you on anything else about being good looking.

Scenario 4

She compliments you in other ways about being attractive along with the “sweet” compliment. Your not friendzoned here. This is the best case scenario.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

It usually means that you seem like a good guy, but she has no romantic/sexual interest in you. It usually means that you have the qualities she claims to want in a man, but she rejects people that actually have those qualities. Just move on. It isn't worth your time.

CMeow · Accepted Answer

It means she thinks you are a nice, kind, and respectful person. She feels comfortable around you. Some guys here have said that means she definitely isn’t interested in you, but I think this isn’t necessarily true. You would need to look for other hints that show if she is or isn’t interested. There are instances where I would call a guy I like sweet. After all, having a sweet boyfriend is something most women would strive for. If she doesn’t show interest in you in other ways, then it is more likely that calling you sweet was just a friendly compliment

DancingQueen16 · Accepted Answer

When i tell my boyfriend he's sweet its usually after he's said something really nice for example one time when we were in the 7th grade it was Valentine's Day and he told me I was his Valentine and that he thought I was beautiful and I told him that was really sweet

WindAtMyBack · Answer

This is very close to friend zone. The "sweet" guy sits there being quiet and the other guy gets the girl.

A quiet guy might be sweet because if he's quiet he's also non-offensive. But if he's quiet he's also not making the moves and is FAR more likely to get left behind.

This won't always be the case, but it's getting very close to being friend zoned. In this case she didn't say anything more to you but talked to the other guy.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Exactly what it means: you have a sweet, kind nature about yourself. Don't read too much into it, lol. It sounds like she thinks you're a sweet person (don't assume it means she likes you!!!)

In other words, enjoy the compliment.

Guy13 · Answer

That you are pure in one sense. To some women that is same as saying, “he is hot”. To others it means friendzone. It is how it is said in tone and nonverbal that explains meaning and intent. Listen and watch closely.

DermalPunch · Answer

Well, the last guy I described this way I did not want to sleep with at all.

We can talk for hours and he is very trustworthy. Not attracted to him at all. But that's personal situation and you may have a shot with her.

pepper1993 · Answer

its a way to compliment someone when you can't, or more likely don't care enough to, think of a legitimate compliment.  or it means she think's your a nice person. either one.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

She probably means you're sweet in general... If it was an interaction between just the two of you and she told you that you're sweet... That means she really like you... Like, come on.. Love me lol

DizzyDesii · Answer

Sweet like respectful and adorable... but it doesn't mean we LIKE LIKE you unless we add more to the statement

addie14 · Answer

It's exactly what it sounds like you are kind, most likely handsome, caring, and not rude

chocomilk99 · Answer

Its female way to reject u as a non potential partner without getting rude... . So that u dont think she likes u n u can ask her for date🥲

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

Anytime I hear a woman say this I interpret as her saying indirectly "I'm not attracted to you".

AndrésC64 · Answer

I'd take it to mean that she thinks that you're sweet/nice. You know, don't act like a loud obnoxious jerk.

Aimer07 · Answer

Too many factors to consider. Best is to pay attention to see the intend behind it.

Heolurt · Answer

If they aren't dating and the girl calls a guy sweet, it means "I'll never date him"

Anonymous · Answer

It means you could potentially be one of her girlfriends. Congratulations? If that's what you wanted.

Anonymous · Answer

It means you're cute, like a pet. And not sexy and hot like me.

ODC2112 · Answer

They bite you, if you are sweet, you are, instead if not you are not.

MountAverage · Answer

What could possibly confuse you about being called sweet?

TroyDT · Answer

It just means that they think you are nice. Nothing more, nothing less.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Usually "sweet" means like a simp or otherwise not sexually exciting.

Bear-Naked · Answer

It could mean a lot of different things. We say that when a guy is sweet and kind yes, but we say it for other reasons too.

BLP11520 · Answer

I have been called sweet because I actually care about people

Anonymous · Answer

You are sweet and non threatening but not going to fuck you.

Sonorous · Answer

They mean he's agreeable.

Nikki1989 · Answer

He has respect, good manners etc, etc.

ChillaxingLove · Answer

Welcome to the friend zone

MikeInHawaii · Answer

She’ll never give him any.

Vegasrunner · Answer

It means she is not going to bang you.

TrillXHippy · Answer

Don’t fall for that

dolemite89 · Answer

they’re not attracted to him

dumbbirchdisease · Answer

For me it means that he can get it

Anonymous · Answer

He is a Fag most likely

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