Girls, Ladies... please be honest are looks the most important feature of a guy?

[Anonymous]

It seems that looks are the MOST important feature of a guy... personality and body don't mean anything... ladies please truthful and don't post what people want to hear.

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Fwiw I'm a personal trainer and compete in fitness competitions , and many people tell me I'm very charming and charismatic. Any girlfriends I had usually wondered off of used me. . A few women told it's because in not very attractive... so it's very hard to believe that looks are not the most important in the REAL world..

[ShellyB]

In some situations you have v. little to judge, just looks and clothes, and maybe how he acts in that brief amount of time for example if he is smiling or if he is alone or if he is fighting people. So in those situations, by which I mean meet market type situations yes looks matter bc there isn't much else to consider. However in a relationship, I am not saying looks do not matter at all, I guess they matter some but other stuff matters a lot more. I would much rather be with an ordinary looking guy who treats me well has goals gets along with my dad fulfills me sexually, than be with a super handsome guy who does not do those things.

[Asker]

I see lots of guys treat women like garbage and complete assholes and women throw themselves at them on a daily basis because they are very good looking. That's what I see in the real world.

[whereismyjohnny]

No. Personality is the most important thing to me.

[Asker]

I don't think the best personality in the world can make for poor looks on a guy.. at least that's what I see in the real world.

[LazerBean]

Obviously not.

[Asker]

Please explain?