Men, Have You Ever Hit Your Lady?

[Anonymous]

She made you so mad that you snapped and hit her? I guess I pushed his limits? Should a women take being hit?

I Have

I Have Not

[Valso]

Never have and never will! As I already said under a similar question a few minutes ago, men who beat women don't deserve to be called "men", they're insects and they make me sick to even look at. I can't hit a woman, even if you pay me $1 trillion to do it. I was raised by women (grand mother, mother, sister and one female neighbour), I love women and I couldn't even imagine hitting a woman! No matter how much she angries me or how drunk I am, that could never happen! Cuz even when I'm drunk I'm fully aware of what I'm doing, so nothing in the world could make me hit a woman. I'll rather hit a furniture or the wall, or even break a dish in the ground but never the woman, no matter who she is or what she did to make me angry.

Years ago, when I was younger, my mom signed me up for self defense classes which I failed because the teacher was a woman and I couldn't hit her. I knew I won't be able to hurt her, I just couldn't force myself to do it. I know many of you will laught at me for that but that's who I am and I can't change it.

[mattdzz]

Yea, it was a couple girlfriends ago, and hasn't happened again.

We had a toxic relationship, fighting all the time, hurt feelings, etc., and I was going through a really stressful time, and one night she was just berating me; so, I insulted her and told her to leave. She went down the stairs, then back up to scream at me some more. I tried to ignore her, so she punched my new 65" tv that was set above the stairs and knocked it over- it fell, broke, and tore off the railing on its way down. I jumped up, ran over to her and pushed her against the wall, screaming at her- she punched me three times in the face before I slapped her.

I'm really ashamed for what I did, and should have ended the relationship before we got to that point.

[ShellyB]

I have never been hit by a guy I was dating, in fact I have never been hit by a guy at all not counting my brother when we were kids. I have however been held down many times when I did not want to be, and a few times picked up and carried when I did not want to be, and some other stuff like that. Being hit would be a very severe situation as far as whether I would stay with the guy. I am not going to say it is an automatic breakup but it is very close to automatic.

[Vesuvius87]

What you mean you guess you've pushed his limits? With the exception of legitimate self-defense or your life being at stake, there is no excuse to hit. No one deserves to get hit, NO ONE.

[Asker]

He told me to stop doing a certain thing in public and I continued to do it. He told me that he didn't want to hit me but that's the only way I would listen.

[Vesuvius87]

Who on earth is him to dictate what you should do or not do? A boyfriend ain't nothing. If we don't even tolerate abuse from our own parents, much less should we ever put up with that BS from a boyfriend or husband.
He hits you because he's a POS that doesn't want to control himself, that knows he's getting away with him. Would he do this to a police officer or a female martial artist? Nope he wouldn't dare. Throw that scumbag now.

[Asker]

I know but I truly do love him.

[Vesuvius87]

What exactly do you love about someone that physically hurts you and doesn't care about your own safety? Besides passion and sex (remove that from the relationship), what traits, goals do you like about him?

[Asker]

He cares about me, has Helped me in many ways, thinks I'm beautiful, supports me with my job choices and financially. He wants a family he's good with kids and pets he never hit me before just today

[Vesuvius87]

How is he helping you by hitting you and making you cry? That's contradicting. How is he helping you by telling you what to do and what not to do? Once he hits you, that takes away whatever good thing he did. He's not even getting help for his anger issue. He's blaming you for hitting you. You didn't cause anything. He can't control himself.
He hits you but wouldn't dare hit a cop or someone that knows martial arts. Coward.

[Asker]

I understand

[Vesuvius87]

I'm worried for you. You shouldn't ever be in a relationship where you can't say or do what you want out of fear of getting hit or choked. You shouldn't ever feel like walking on eggshells.

[Zolly99999]

That is never an excuse... EVER!!!

[mattdzz]

That's ridiculous. Hitler deserved to get hit. Bin Laden deserved to get hit... Where does this ridiculous notion that nobody deserves to get hit come from?

[FilmGuy93]

No, I've never hit a woman. The closest thing I've gotten to is stopping her from trying to hit me.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I came very close once. I had a lot of pressure, running a business, I hadn't slept in days I was mad at people, people were losing their patience with me, including my girlfriend who at this point was intentionally trying to not let me cool off.

I spun around, pictured myself doing it, then I pictured myself settling to just grabbing her and I stopped myself at the last second.

A man never hits a woman, especially out of anger. I'm honestly ashamed I even got that close. I never pictured that happening to me in a million years.

[Vesuvius87]

This is a proof that people can control themselves even when you're upset. I'm willing to bet the abuser in the story would magically control himself in his workplace (with a manager), with the cops or with a martial artist even if he was so upset and wouldn't pull the same excuse of ''Well you pissed me off, you didn't listen to me''.
He only does that to his girlfriend but wouldn't do it to those people.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@Vesuvius87 I mean, in a workplace things would have never gotten to that level in the first place. Don't get me wrong, I agree with what you're saying but I just wish women weren't so childish about it. Sometimes they think its OK to antagonize a 250 lb man because they're not supposed to do anything to them. I don't think she would have done the same thing to a woman who could hurt her as easily as I could have and at least in a workplace you can walk away.

I broke up with that girl a few weeks later because a similar situation happened and I tried to leave the house so she started chasing me with her car I hid in a bush.

[Vesuvius87]

If it gets to the point where it's a bad relationship and the person is very antagonistic, you can either work it out in couple counseling/therapy or break up. But it should never get to the point of physical fights ever.
As for the girl that was chasing you with her car, I hope you filed a restraining order on her.

[TheorionMage]

I have NEVER struck a female who didn't physically strike me FIRST---
In MOST circumstances, I HAVE BLOCKED a woman's attempt to strike me;
HER anger is NO 'freebie' to invoke and initiate physical assault.
THAT IS, TRUE feminist 'equality'.

[Kinkyhubby]

Only way I would do that is if it was live n death, and she had a weapon, with no way out. I was raised not to hit a women, unless it was hoe self defense. Now I have spank a women during sex. But in a verbal fight, I would just walk away, and leave the situation all together. And I also teaching my daughter that of a man ever raises hos hand to her, she better tell me, and I'll take care of it.

[Asker]

He hit me in the head a choked me twice he never has hit me before. Told me he didn't care about my tears because he warned me plenty about not doing the thing he choked me for.

[Asker]

He also said he didn't want to do it but felt he needed to because it was the "only way you'd listen"

[Kinkyhubby]

You should have call the police, have him arrested, get a restraining order and leave him. If he did that once, he will do it again. Now if he was in the military, and he did ot in his sleep, because of a nightmare or ptsd, that is another situation, but still needs help.

If your were my daughter, amd you told me what he did, I would have told you to come home, and leave him. I would have a talk with him, and tell him he needs help. But I would still say end the relationship, because I'll will never like him again.

[Twalli]

I have spanked her during sex. Spanked her other times. I've kicked her in the ass. I've slapped her gently. None of it was ever to cause a lot of pain. It was all in fun and she knows and does the same. If we get angry we usually don't do anything more than cuddle and hold each other. We know how to keep the physical contact safe and playful and not to ever resort to either when angry.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Hitting your loved ones as a way of " discipline " is not acceptable under any circumstances... That's what losers and trashy people do...

[Vesuvius87]

Yes indeed. I hate abusers.

[Rockstarrrrr]

@Vesuvius87 yeah... Especially when they're supposed to be the person who treats you way better than everyone else and always has a soft spot for you... They should be the one who protect you and console you.. Not the one doing the damage lol...

[Rapport]

Not on purpose, no.

However

I accidently hit a girl that was messing with my hair back in highschool by just swatting at the back of my head because I thought there was a fly on me or something.

She started crying and I had to console her and stuff.

Had no business being behind me messing with my hair like that anyways, I didn't even know her like that, but I think she had a crush on me or something.

[Summeroflove]

I have not. I don't hit people out of anger. The only time that I hit or something is to defend myself. Someone does not have the right to hit me and I will use the necessary amount of force to defend myself or someone else

[Anonymous]

Only once. My girlfriend gets really angry and verbally abusive at times. A couple of years ago she slapped me hard during an argument. I told her don't ever do that again, to which she responded by slapping me even harder. I immediately slapped her so hard she ended up on the floor. She has never hit me again since then and she controls her anger better now too.

[Vesuvius87]

Neither of you are right for each other. Not hitting others just because they'll hit back means you haven't really learn. She'll likely do it to someone else that doesn't hit back. The point is not hitting others because it's wrong and you would feel bad.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 Men need to reset the expectation many women still have today that they can hit a man with no consequences. We men owe it to ourselves to change that, and the only way we will successfully do that is by hitting back. Women need to change their behavior, and this is how we men facilitate that.

[Vesuvius87]

Why are you even with someone you have to hit back instead of dating someone that doesn't believe in violence, that doesn't hit. That's not even a quality person. The person you hit back still has it in them to take advantage of others. Just like a bully (even if you fight them back), they're still a bully on the inside... haven't really change.

[Vesuvius87]

and don't put us all in one category. I don't hit unless I were threatened and I can't exceed my acquired skills either.

[iixxii]

certified chad

[Vesuvius87]

@iixxii
Yet he isn't with a quality woman. Neither the chad nor rachet girl are the commitment types. Can you really call yourself successful with woman if you're getting trashy girls with attitude issues (being verbally antagonistic isn't good there) or girls you keep hitting back?

[Faith18letsgo]

No. Physical violence is never acceptable. At that point it’s time to break up for at least a year while they work on there issues. There is never an acceptable why.

[Faith18letsgo]

My aunt was in an abusive relationship. The first hit is never the last unless you break up.

[NalleBabyBoysss]

Never have, never would! If it even started coming to that point i would break up, if a partner is hitting the other that's a toxic relationship.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Hit like how hard?

And did you hurt him with your words.

Well be it a guy or girl sometimes they burst if they are pushed to ends.

It's on you people both understanding how you deal with it as you know what you did

[Vesuvius87]

Doesn't matter what words were said. Hitting a partner is assault and the end of negotiating things in a relationship.

[Asker]

He hit me hard in my head and yes I did hurt him with my words? Why does it matter what I said he also choked me twice

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yeah you guys make everything assault don't be so quick to close anything.

And @asker what kind of question is that why does it matter what i said , it does matter you cannot just not take responsibility of your actions?

Is it a regular thing or this is like the first time i mean what did you say that he chose to hit you instead of talking.

I don't know how your relationship dynamic is there

[Vesuvius87]

Perhaps I have a strict ''no hitting ever'' (unless self-defense or sports) policy because of my parents' rocky marriage. My dad used to hit her every single time she was getting verbal, just for saying words.. on every single argument. Tables turned years later and my mother started hitting him in revenge (and he wasn't hitting back due to his high blood pressure issue, no longer being interest in fighting and was only verbal) and she didn't feel any remorse at all. What exact did all that solve? NOTHING. It creates a war zone and the children raised in that environment have no idea what an idea, healthy relationship looks like. A relationship like that should've obviously ended long ago.

[Vesuvius87]

I don't think it's unrealistic to say I don't ever want to be hit in my relationship and won't tolerate it, not even once. Same thing vice-versa. If it ever gets to the point you feel the need to hit them, you need to leave or seek help.

[Asker]

This is the first time he has hit me.

[Vesuvius87]

and it won't be the last. The first hit should be treated with an 'get the hell out of my life, it's over''

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Seek help good counselling is better option.

I don't know about why people are ok with verbal abuse but not physical although not supporting it

I believe both do damage and also even if they break up it still won't have a good impact on children and it creates more problems.

Anyways as i said it depends on the people in relationship how they handle it properly loose mouth and a loose hand are never good.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

This is the first time he has hit me.

Why do you think he went to a point of hitting you? What was said that he went for voilence?

[Curiosity2006]

Freaking call 911 in all instances. Unless you laid a hand on him first, or his property. This should NOT be tolerated!

[Anonymous]

I have punched her shoulders. She said for fun, she have imagined doing it with other guys. I don't think someone should tell such slutty words to a partner, specially while in a loyal serious relationship. I got mad and punched her shoulder twice as she repeated it.

[Vesuvius87]

I hope she continues saying it again and again. Hopefully she leaves you for those other guys.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 she said it to make me jealous. So that I'll get angry which is a sign of me loving her. She loves to see that. Not all acts slutty in real life. All the best

[Vesuvius87]

Good. I hope she continues saying it in your face many times. Hitting a partner isn't a sign of loving them. It's a sign of blatant disrespect and is assault. There is nothing wrong with saying whatever you want to. You don't get to control what people, esp your girlfriend says.

[Vesuvius87]

If I were her I would say it too and the moment you're raising your hands to hit, I'm already applying a technique. Likely my back is already on your waist (before you even think about punching me) ready to flip you.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 you would say that to your partner? Why would you lok

[Vesuvius87]

You're still justifying hitting. Who on earth you think you are putting your hands on your girlfriend just because she said things to make you jealous?
At I'm the point where I really have no time for jealousy nor mindgames so no I wouldn't say that. If he said that, I wouldn't react like you by hitting but I would simply either establish boundaries (telling him how uncomfortable it makes me feel) or simply break up.
Now I really hope she replaces you for someone better, someone that doesn't hit to get his points across.

[exitseven]

No, I would never hit a woman. I dated somebody who was abusive and I used to just hold her until she calmed down. She was a little crazy I think.

[loveslongnails]

I would only hit a girl under 2 conditions:

1) She wanted to be hit, as in a spanking or some BDSM play, or 2) I seriously needed to defend myself.

Guys who hit women for any other reasons are low life assholes.

[DoctorSex]

I've never hit a woman out of anger.

Playful Spanking.. that's a different issue.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Carolus]

No, when I had a fight with my ex, I didn’t because I was busy defending myself as she beat me to a pulp.

[Mofunfour20]

Yes, initiate her physical consequences during sex. Hair pulling, ass smacking etc.

[Asker]

We weren't having sex. We were arguing

[Mofunfour20]

He just snapped then. I'd just leave her if I suddenly hit her, he doesn't seem like a very patient person. That's what made my ex apologize, I got upset and moved out

[kellytheman]

No never. First off no man should hit a woman he just needs to walk away and get away from that situation. Me she has to really try to get me mad cause i rarely get mad or yell she needs to say or do something that hits my limit.

[Sparkie460]

No guy should ever hit a woman. That's not a man, that's a bully. Women shouldn't allow their man to hit them. I have never, and will never hit a woman.

[Asker]

He says I was disrespectful and hitting me was the only way I'd listen because he has told me to stop doing the thing that pissed him off many times.

[Sparkie460]

That's still no reason to hit you. Where and how did he hit you

[Asker]

He first choked me then hit me in my head and choked me again.

[Asker]

He told me he doesn't feel bad that I was crying because I asked for it and that was the only way I'd listen to him.

[Sparkie460]

If I saw him do that to you, you'd be single right now. It doesn't matter what you did, you don't deserve it get hit and choked. You need to take self defense classes or leave him. He obviously has anger issues

[Asker]

He does have anger issues usually rages a lot on the game. Has threatened me before but never hit me until this day

[Sparkie460]

Well now that he has hit and choked you it will probably just get worse. Is he your age or older.

[Asker]

I'm 21 he is 28

[Sparkie460]

Do you enjoy being a punching bag? That's the life you have ahead of you every time he gets angry.

[Sparkie460]

Can I ask what it is that you do that passes him off

[Asker]

No I don't enjoy it. However I do love him

[Asker]

Well at the beginning of our relationship he kept checking out other women heavily it made me extremely insecure so I played tit for tat and started openly stating how hot or cute guys are in front of him. So he can see how it feels

[Asker]

A couple days ago he grabbed my air extremely tight and today after seriously eye fucking some big booty pretty Latina in the Laundromat I made a comment about a guy in there he grabbed my air tighter than last time.

[Asker]

When we got home he was angry and asked me why do I think saying things like that is ok when he has told me not to do it while answering that's when he choked me. Then hit me and choked me again, then when I went to the bathroom

[Asker]

He made me open the door to grab me and tell me that I will respect him.

[Sparkie460]

If you want to stay together you both need therapy to work on your relationship. I can understand why you do what you do. He's disrespectful to you first. You might love him but I don't think he loves you as much as you love him

[Vesuvius87]

If he chokes you (assuming it's front choke against the wall), try stomping on his feet, kick him (if you got high heels, even better) and break his arms down. Then run and call the cops. That's your life right there.
Or push his face with one hand and push your elbow where his arm holds. Fast move. Then run.

[Sparkie460]

@Vesuvius87 it sounds like you know martial arts.

[Asker]

I hope he doesn't do it again but he had me on the bed so stomping doesn't work

[Vesuvius87]

Yes it's been slightly over a year by now. I got Judo classes 3x a week. I got class tomorrow.

[Vesuvius87]

and I keep learning each day more. I'm still learning.

[Sparkie460]

Sweetie, you need to leave him. He's not going to stop looking at other women.

[NalleBabyBoysss]

You have to leave him, that's a toxic relationship and you deserve better! My mom and i was abused by my step-dad so trust me when i say this, if he put his hands on you once there's going to happen again and again so end it now before you get really hurt 💚

[NalleBabyBoysss]

@Vesuvius87 Yeah knee him in the balls or go for his eyes will give her time to run away

[Fireguy17]

no, that is something I would never do.
Now if she is shooting at me, something like that then all bets are off.

[Guy13]

Never had and this behavior tends to escalate. Be careful

[DavidRaul]

I have never done that and will never do that to disrespect a woman even if she pushed my limits or pissed me off

[LimitedBenefits101]

Only hit back if she hits you, defend yourself at all times.

[andreasderjuengere]

I regularly hit her: with cotton balls and such. She strikes back, though :)

[BarryLiverstone]

Never have hit her. Had a good mom who taught me if i needed to hit something out of anger hit a pillow

[BarryLiverstone]

Why would someone hit someone?

[soe11]

Whoever did the person is according to me inhuman.

[Anonymous]

I never did and i won't see myself doing that. Pretty sure most women fear being on the receiving end of it and i don't intend to be the triggerer.

[tfan1]

Call the cops on him. Especially if he left any marks or bruises on you.

[fred_durst]

never have girlfriend so i will usually just smash or punch the doors at home when i angry about something

[BananaBrother]

Gotta love the double standard. If man can't hit a woman than woman shouldn't hit a man either.

[Asker]

I didn't hit the man.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope I'd never ever do that I'm a very big guy and if I hit a woman I probably would really hurt her so no I never have another will

[Hardworkingguy]

No of course not. If you love her you'd never do that regardless of the situation

[Shy_Steve]

I would feel Horrible if I did , That's why I would never even if by Accident.

[Zolly99999]

Absolutely not !!!, I detest that with great anger... any guy that hits a woman. ...

[TallAnon]

My lady? No
A lady? Yes
Comes with the whole martial arts thing.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Typical of men. People, filthy casuals, all of them

[Anonymous]

The only place I want my man to hit me is on the ass. real hard

[Gooddaze]

Nope. That’s not right. I’d defend my self from a women but not hit them.

[AddylynnNightingale]

If he does that it's time to call it quits.

[TroyDT2]

No. Not ever a consideration.

[Hypermotard1916]

I dont have a lady in first place hahaha

[BJP21]

One of many reasons I am not going back.

[Jamie05rhs]

No; you should NOT take it! Leave him!

[Lucifer_666]

No way. I never hit my ex.

[MrTaboo]

Only if spanking counts

[SmokinAces2000]

I have not and would never

[Anonymous]

Just her cervix.

[iixxii]

yeah i beat her when she doesn't behave.

[Anonymous]

No woman should not take being hit or abused.

[Anonymous]

No. A guy should never hit a woman

[Opinion Owner]

What were you doing that made him hit you? What were you arguing about? What were you doing in public that caused the argument that made him hit you?

[Anonymous]

wow...

[Asker]

Yes, I know

[Philyouup]

and never would i

[Anonymous]

He hit you?

[Asker]

In my head and choked me

[Opinion Owner]

Damn. On head? With stick?

[Asker]

His hands

[Opinion Owner]

And you didn't hit him baack?

[Vesuvius87]

Get closer to him as if hugging him but then push your chest forward and leg sweep him or a quick palm to the nose. The nerves of abusive scumbags.

[Vesuvius87]

I actually know several techniques.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 or better punch or elbow his face...
Maybe even repeatedly knee his balls till he's down on the floor writhing in pain

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 can someone who's light weight leg sweep a big heavy person?

[Asker]

I didn't hit him back because he's stronger than me?

[Vesuvius87]

yes they can. I've done it several times to my boyfriend who is also into martial arts. He's my sparring partner too.

[Asker]

You want me to challenge a man that could easily whoop my ass?

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 is he much taller and heavy than you?

[Opinion Owner]

@ asker why not... you scared of a man?
Don't be

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 would kneeing balls help?

[Vesuvius87]

It's not about challenging him. It's about applying fast, surprised moves and using his strength/weight against him. Or you can call the cops immediately, have him charged with assault and refer to him as your convicted ex boyfriend. He deserves to be locked up.

[Opinion Owner]

What's his height and weight. And your height?

[Vesuvius87]

Then again, I'm not a tiny woman either. I'm 140-142 Ibs and 5'7 and he's 6ft and 175-180 Ibs.

[Asker]

Lol if I say it you will laugh but he's extremely strong to be short and skinny. Has worked construction and manual labor jobs

[Vesuvius87]

Yes he's still taller and much heavier. I believe we're average range for our height and frame.

[Opinion Owner]

Your man is short and skinny?

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 have you ever hit a man's balls?

[Asker]

Yes he is but he's very strong

[Vesuvius87]

Kneeing a man's balls would likely help in a self-defense situation but so would kicking the kneecap. As for hitting a man's balls, nope I've never ever done that. No man has ever threatened my life and I just never imagine doing that. That situation never happened.
However, I have a short story to tell:
A couple months ago, my boyfriend and I were sparring and the goal was to throw the opponent. As he applied a technique and threw me, he fell too. As we were falling, my knee was bended and almost hit his groin area. It was so close and I got worried. I asked him if he was ok and he was. He had a fast reaction and backed away faster but it was so close. Luckily he didn't get hurt. I feel sad when guys get hurt over there in accidents.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 damn. Ok. Why are you so worried when guys get hit in their groin area in accidents or maybe hit there by some bully girls and guys?

[Vesuvius87]

Unless it's done in self-defense only, I don't like seeing people in pain.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 but you don't encourage hitting in balls even in self defence... why?

[Vesuvius87]

Yes the OP can do that and in that case, I don't feel sorry for that scumbag at all. However, it might not be as easy as it looks to get one good hit there enough to disable him for a long time. At times that can actually get him more pissed off, more adrenaline and can backfire badly by then.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 oh so it's not that easy to properly target the balls and cause enough damage?
A hard kick on the knees is more easy?

[Opinion Owner]

And yeah it might hurt his male ego... if a woman tries to damage his male part

[Vesuvius87]

Some guys might sense it and lift their leg to protect it or move other side and the girl misses it. Then again, I've never been in a real threatening situation with a man before. I suppose if that was the closest thing available and I knew it had a high successful rate at that moment then yes I would aim for it.
I hard kick to the kneecap of the back of it can disable them enough for you to get away.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 and i think a hard kick on the knee cap and calf bones might even fracture his bone and cause enough pain and damage than hitting balls would

[Vesuvius87]

Indeed and I would suggest the OP to go for that instead of relying on the balls.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 yeah. And possibly she can punch his lips and nose too

[Opinion Owner]

Even a woman's soft small hands can make a man's lips bleed with her feminine punch

[Vesuvius87]

yes definitely. If I were to punch that POS (both in defense for someone else and my anger towards what he did to the OP) my own adrenaline will likely take over too and I can possibly break his jaw and nose.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 don't you think punching the lips is also likely to cause bleeding, cut lips and painful teeth.. with less efforts?

[Vesuvius87]

Yes the lips are sensitive areas regardless of gender. Wow it's been a while a post made me this angry (at the scumbag) and sad (at the OP).

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 hmm. So it's better to punch on lips and teeth or nose? U know it better as a self defence personnel

[Vesuvius87]

A hard punch to the nose (if it's well to the point of driving bone fragments from nose to brain then it can be fatal) or a palm heel in the nose is just as effective too. Meanwhile a punch to the mouth can dislocate your jaw.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vesuvius87 so what's more painful and better option?

[Vesuvius87]

the nose