Men, what will make you hit a woman? Women, have you ever been hit by a man by accident?

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Drewtate · Accepted Answer

Hitting my child. I seen a guy walk out of his house and hit a Karen and kick her around the ground. Basically the man's daughter was arguing and shielding her little brother after she hit him for cycling into her yard, knocked him off his bike. She was so shocked like she never imagined there would be consequences for hitting this man's son because she was a woman. She even went to the police but they dropped charges after they found out she hit the kid. Neither got charged. A lesson was learned that day.

stepyo99 · Accepted Answer

Women should be hit more often. A lot of their shitty behavior can be explained by never having to deal with consequences. Either because some simp in their life will bail them out of trouble or because there's a silly taboo against hitting a woman even if she's acting out.

Men have to face consequences, but women get free pass after free pass. If a man starts acting like a jackass, he gets hit, it should be no different for women.

Totomato · Answer

My boyfriend once hit me in his sleep lol he had a nightmare that he was in a fight and he hit me by accident, that worked way better than any alarm clock I ever had

jennifer_bloom · Answer

No man has ever hit me cause I cut the plant before it becomes a tree. Meaning, he gets rejected as an acquaintance before he gets rejected as a boyfriend.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Being attacked by a woman would make me use physical force for self-defense.

Finchie40 · Answer

If she is physically attacking me and trying to harm me I will knock her out if she is constantly coming at me , if she just hits me once out of anger and frustration from her hormonal imbalances then I would just restrain her until she calms down , I know I am physically stronger then her so her punches or slaps don’t compare to my punches unless she is a muscular girl , But the bottom line is no one should be hitting anyone period , so if she hit me first , my instincts is to protect and defend myself. My ex punched me in the eye while I was sleeping and she hit my eye pretty damn good to the point I instantly woke up and reacted to defend myself and protect myself , so I grabbed her by the neck and slammed her to the ground squeezing her neck just enough to let her know that she will never lay a finger on me again and I said you will be lucky if she wakes up in a hospital if she ever lays a finger on me again , I did feel bad for choking her and slamming her to the ground but I felt I was justified for my actions because out of nowhere she punched me hard in the eye , while I was sleeping , because I forgot to take dishes into the kitchen that she asked me to do earlier , still not a reason to be punched in the eye or punched period , that incident right there told me she was up to no good , and that I knew our relationship was not going well , I went to work the next morning with a eye I could barely see out of , in severe pain , I knew right then and there I was in a relationship with a toxic girl that was abusive , so I did not apologize for my reaction , I don’t punch her for forgetting to do things so to me that is abuse , so I knew something was off , when I got home I told her she needs to apologize for hitting me and she acted like she was this victim and all of a sudden , and I was this abuser , basically trying to justify her actions by saying she wasn’t trying to hit me in the eye , I said you shouldn’t be hitting me at all period , I don’t lay my fingers on you , so you have no right laying your fingers on me period , She said you are a lot stronger than me and you hurt my neck , I said you are lucky that’s all I hurt , cuz if I punched you , you would been knocked the fuck out , so stop trying to play a victim when you are clearly in the wrong for putting your fingers on me in the first place , for forgetting to take fucking dishes into the kitchen? like it’s the end of the world , she said you never listen to me , no matter what I tell you you don’t listen , I just laughed and said is that a reason to be punched in the face? I said you forget things as well, should I punch you in the face everytime you forget to do something? Shortly after that she said maybe we should take time apart from each other , I said if you feel that’s the right thing to do because you can’t accept that you were in the wrong that’s fine , but don’t be surprised when I am not here waiting for you cuz I already know you are being up to no good or planning to do so , she just shook her head and acted like I was crazy , shortly after our separation she was banging another guy that she was more than likely banging while she was with me. I called her a selfish pos whore that only cares about herself I said maybe he will hit you first once he realizes how selfish of a person you truly are , thanks for wasting my time and fucking with my heart

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

I have hit my ex wife twice.

Her youngest adult son and l never got along. Other than the age difference, he and I were in the same weight class. (think boxing)

Anyway, on two separate occasions my ex wife woke me up in the middle of the night wanting to know why l hit her. I never told her until some time after that I was having nightmares where her son and l were brawling.

That is the only two times l hit her. I told her before we married that l was raised not to hit women, but I might would curse at her. And boy, did she really push those buttons and l would unleash on her.

She also pushed me to the point of punching holes in walls.

Finally, the only way I could prevent both cursing her or punching holes in the walls was just to leave the house and go elsewhere and not come home until the next day. If she started up with me again, back out the door l went.

We were married 18 years.

I also got to the point towards the end of the marriage where I just stopped talking to her. If she spoke to me I gave short answers and never looked her in the eyes.

I just reached a point where l knew if we conversed long enough we would go to arguing.

Now, I have seen a number of women that can fight like men. They had no choice but to do so. My opinion there is if you can fight like a man and you physically harm me first, then it is on like Donkey Kong.

MrOracle · Answer

I have hit 2 women, and both in my teens. One kicked me in the balls "cause it was funny" and one literally attacked me and fought me because some other people egged her on (and she was 4 inches taller and 40 pounds heavier than I was at the time).

Both of those girls attacked me for no reason, and both had completely put fairness aside, so I didn't hold back. But it was self defense, which is the only situation where I would hit a woman for real (i. e., outside of a BDSM scene). And that hasn't happened in the last 40 or so years.

To be fair, I'm big enough that few women are going to think that hitting me is a good idea, but some people are just crazy, so you never know. I certainly don't populate my personal life with crazy people, but when you are out in public, you never know...

Mamaliv · Answer

My moms husband when I was in high school, he told me to shut the fuck up so I told him to shut the fuck up and so he back handed me. I was only trying to explain something to him and he wouldn’t listen to me. He abused my mom a lot to, I didn’t know just how much till years down the road. He is just a real piece of shit person, made me catch my puppy and shot her right in front of me. Beyond that never been hit but I’d expect if I was trying to beat a man up myself.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope...

just the same as I have not needed to hit a man when they got (really stupid)

there is a few ways in which I can restrain, or submit, keep away, protect myself from any individual of any gender and this without the need of hitting someone

I didn't train/practiced all these years for nothing... lol

by the way, I've been hit with a shovel by a woman... by accident too, lmfao

provokeesmokee · Answer

Mmm... I mean, I've been accidentally bumped into or thwacked when a dude's hand slipped or something. But nothing bad.

Worst thing that's ever happened was a (girl) friend of mine opened the gym door for me in jr high. I was standing right next to it as she ran over from the other side of the gym and bodychecked it open.

Caught me smack in the middle of the face. I had a Squall Lionheart-esque bruise down my face for a few days, lmao! Only time I've been knocked out.

As for men *intentionally* hitting me, I just got done with that this morning. Saturday martial arts classes are for sparring and fighting drills. I got hit by... Hm... Maybe half a dozen men?

gduffey83 · Answer

I hit a woman once in my life , im 39. My wife and I had drug issues and when she was on meth she was convinced I put cameras up in the house to watch her. She would start drinking and accusing me of this and get in my face telling me to hit her. Some times this would go on for hours and a lot of the times she would hit me. When I tried to leave she would follow me. It was so unfair. She could do whatever to provoke the crap out of me then when I exploded I was the a hole... One time she pushed me to my absolute limit and told me to hit and she was wacking me up side the head and I reached back and open and slapped the absolute piss out of her. I immediately felt ashamed and all of these types of feelings. This was 11 years of NOT hitting her before all of you jump on my case.. anyway it wasn't right, I shouldn't have done it. None of the less ladies don't need to be provoking men like that if they can't handle what's coming..

libsaretards · Answer

What it would take to hit a woman changes depending on if she is messing with me or someone else.

Messing with me: My life would have to be in danger. For example, she is threatening me with any sort of weapon that can cause death or great bodily harm.

Messing with others: If she is harming a child, animal or someone completely defenseless.

panda2712 · Answer

My partner was in blind rage and slapped me in the face (he has never hit me before or after that)
Non violently
A friend of mine used to say never mind and move his hand back and fourth and he accidentally hit my boob and he got so embarrassed

Steelcore5280 · Answer

If she assaults me, I warn her firmly, and she continues to act in that manner and is assaulting me, then I will hit her back, tenfold. All bets are off at that point, you being a woman doesn't mean shit. You don't have the right to hit me because society perceives me as "being able to take it" and because society tries to give you the shield defense of "I'm a woman."

If you don't want your ass getting rocked, don't touch me in a hostile manner.

Yannishka · Answer

I have been hit. It wasn't an accident.
It was during a sparring session. I didn't protect my liver, he went for it. I was down for the count. But I gathered all the strength I had left... to flip him off 😂

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

She hits me, I get on the phone and call the police to solve matters. I have been abused physically and mentally, and I refuse to go through any more abuse.

LiamJHayden · Answer

For me to strike anyone, except when sparring, requires that doing so is the only way in my estimation to stop that person from doing some worse action. I can take a hit, so some 110 lb. girl slapping me is not going to be met with a knock out punch.

chrissykerdock · Answer

when i was 15 i remember giving this 50 year old a blowjob and i spit out his cum then he started slapping me across the face a few times then made me give another blowjob where i swallowed his cum... he was my girlfriend's grandfather... and i was dressed in a miniskirt bare thighs so i felt it was my fault at the time for getting him excited... i never thought he did something wrong i put the blame on myself.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If she tries to harm a child, tries to shoot someone, tries to steal my driver's license, etc., those would be compelling reasons to consider it. When the girl goes full psycho, I take the kid gloves off.

NamerOfStars · Answer

The same things that would make me hit a man. I don't like violence, and will go to great lengths to avoid it, but if there's no better option, I don't discriminate on the basis of sex.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

If they are a threat to my life or a threat to a loved one. I will not hesitate to strike a woman in that regard. Now, in terms of altercation I will go the route of de escalation and defensive measures as long as I can.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

By accident and on purpose. Accident a guy in my class in high school threw his fist in my face many years ago. He was a bully but he felt sorry for that one which is so ironic. Now I just look back and laugh at it🙃

Blinko35 · Answer

I was brought up to not hit a woman.. only way I will hit a woman is in the bedroom if she's into it n always open handed. Or if she puts me or someone in danger. I was also taught when I was younger that if a woman puts herself in a man's place and tries to fight a guy like a man she shouldn't be surprised if he knocks the fire from her

inhua · Answer

if society actually treated women the same as men as they claim, none of them would be engaging in bad behaviors that don't end in consequences

tzdc21 · Answer

The only time I would ever consider hitting a woman is out of self defense. If she physically attacks me, then I have a right to defend myself.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

The closest thing would be if she’s trying to kill me. But I would only use my fighting experience to disarm and subdue her, then hold her there till law enforcement take over

A_Bell · Answer

I've never been hit for real and I've never seen a man hit a woman in my life. I've seen women hit men on many occasions, though.

Lionman95 · Answer

Only if she puts me in a corner where I feel threatened and don´t see a way out of a confrontation with her.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah I've been hit, but not by accident save once, when a guy rolled over and clocked me with an elbow lol

mobiusforniner · Answer

I've dated many women. I've been hurt and rejected by many women.  But I've NEVER hit a woman.

gothbxtch · Answer

if my baby cousin playfighting with my brother and me stepping in between them to make sure no one got accidentally hurt and getting hit on accident counts then yeah

dragoblack · Answer

If she throws the first punch. If you throw a punch, you should be ready to take one. Justice is unisex and by law if you take the first hit to 3 hits, it becomes self-defense. When it comes to a fight gender and sex don't matter.

Kaamraj · Answer

Simple- If she hits first. Equal rights and equal lefts.

Dkc123 · Answer

If she's hitting I'll be kicking.. no matter the consequences.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

One once (viciously) crashed a stool onto my back. She survived... barely. Act as a woman - and I'll act as a gentleman.

richardcory · Answer

Self defense, or defense of someone in immediate danger is the only reason I'd hit anyone

rigmarole · Answer

I only hit people that hit me first. No woman has ever hit me so it's a non-issue.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I she hits me, and I feel there's a threat to me or my kids, then I would feel justified in defending myself

Juxtapose · Answer

If she hits me, she's going to hear Boss music.

spartan55 · Answer

If I felt the woman would kill or seriously injure me.

skyzzyrd01 · Answer

My criteria for physical violence is the same regardless of gender. If you are trying to cause me physical harm I will respond in kind to protect myself or my wife.

Soxie · Answer

I have never been hit by a man or anyone for that matter 🙂

RavVid · Answer

A woman complained I hit her fist when I blocked her punches

slatyb · Answer

Very hard to imagine. Unless she asked me nicely for a spanking.

Fuentes · Answer

Lol nothing unless it's actually self defense as in some random attacked me.

Nick1976G · Answer

I have accidentally elbowed her in the head as I was turning over in bed. Other than that, I would never lay a hand on a woman for any reason.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Probably never. Even if she is trying to kill me. I know damn well that striking back will only cause more trouble for me in the long run.

Andres77 · Answer

If ANYONE hits me I’m hitting them back. Fair is fair.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Men have a hit on me, but it wasn’t by accident. They meant to do it. 😂

exitseven · Answer

Maybe the only thing that would make me do that is if she pulled a gun on me.

DextroShade · Answer

If she hits me or my wife first, threatens one of us with a weapon, or I see her damaging my property then I will knock her the fuck out.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I only give women love taps. I would never hit a woman. I can't think of any reason that would make me hit a woman

Christoff92 · Answer

Never would have it in my mind. If you mean physically put my hands on a woman. Then that's against my morals. Heck no 🤨

TallAnon · Answer

Outside of martial arts, I don't think I've done so, but if a woman attacks me first, she's going to the hospital just as fast as a dude would

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yes i hav quite a few times but any men who hit n beat women r no men really they r worst than animals they r just weak

Anemone978 · Answer

I only been hit by my father.. and he didn't hold back his strength.. but that never stopped me from pissing him off on purpose :D It was always fun until he caught me LOL

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

I don't get hit on by men!!! Irl it only happened 3 times max and on Instagram maybe more but I don't really care😂 i get stared at a lot though. And I don't need anyone flirting because i am loyal to my boyfriend. No one like him.

Stillsleeping · Answer

If she hits me. If she wants to act like a man I'll treat her like one.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, but it was no accident.

Z1pTD · Answer

Only time I'm gonna hit a woman is if she's physically harming someone and that's the required solution 🤷

DiegoO · Answer

If she is an inminent danger to my life or any beloved one life, I would try to KO her.

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