I don't see women being bashed for not wanting kids. There are far too many women having kids that shouldn't so I'm all for women opting out of having children. More power to you.
well we live in a society where we share the tasks that have to be done right? men traditionally do the hard working (cause they can't make kids) so women can make the kids. without kids, a society has no future. so naturally those who do not want to fullfill their stereotypical tasks will be looked at funny. you're free to do what you want with your life but you're not free to forbid people saying what they want about that. so if you think this is right, you should have the maturity not to give a shit about these that bash it.
You can contribute and be apart without having kids. Exactly, no you cannot forbid people from saying what they think but you are allowed to speak your mind and have feelings about what they are saying.
I don’t need to have kids to contribute to society. I want to contribute to society by being a kind, genuine, person and by helping people and their animals.
Glad to hear you say that because it seems to me that government subsidizes women on the premise that women deserve it because they bear children. But all means, be a man and pay taxes like a man.
Sometimes you don’t know how good something is unless you give it a try Maybe those who have kids by now know how amazing it is to give birth to kids and raise them etc I don’t have kids but I think maybe that’s why?
Their "biological clock", excuse for BECOMING a mother, then becomes invalid. Since, lots of girls now say they don't want a kid, doesn't then prove there's no such thing as a "biological clock"
It might just be me but I've never seen this bieng a thing. About as close as I have seen is people advising women to have children while they're young if they want them. Having children becomes more dangerous later in life and is difficult in your 30's and nearly impossible in your 40's. Not to mention the older you are to greater risks to your futur kid. But thats always be prefaced with the if you want them part. Thats not bashing thats just sound medical advise.
My research on this site says the average woman does not want kids until she falls in love and many of them have to marry before they get baby fever. It's normal to not want kids. Most woman do not want kids until they fall in love.
She's not a villain if she merely fails to conceive. She is, if she goes out of her way to get pregnant, just to have an abortion as some rite of passage to gloat over. That, to me, is a villain.
I don't really plan on having any nor can I even afford to have any at my age rn lmao.. but I don't know, that could change later in the future, just depends, I guess
Then it's completely fine when a woman doesn't want children and shouldn't be shamed for it. I think a better question would be why everyone is bashed for not wanting kids.
It reflects more on the person making the comments.
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Women are not really vilified for not wanting children, but in the eyes of most men they are valued less as women, and are generally less desirable to men who want a family. Loving kids and wanting kids is a core component of what comprises femininity.
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I see this as the male equivalent of women telling men "you need to be more expressive and share your emotions". No, we don't in most cases. When you say that you are just projecting your own personality and emotional needs onto men, who you clearly don't understand.
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It's not just women.
In countries like Uzbekistan men are also shamed for being childfree referring to such men as little boys until they pop more kids.
You'll get disapproval from these peasants for basically everything. better Get used to it and do your thing and feed on their hate.
I don't see women being bashed for not wanting kids. There are far too many women having kids that shouldn't so I'm all for women opting out of having children. More power to you.
well we live in a society where we share the tasks that have to be done right? men traditionally do the hard working (cause they can't make kids) so women can make the kids. without kids, a society has no future. so naturally those who do not want to fullfill their stereotypical tasks will be looked at funny. you're free to do what you want with your life but you're not free to forbid people saying what they want about that. so if you think this is right, you should have the maturity not to give a shit about these that bash it.
You can contribute and be apart without having kids.
Exactly, no you cannot forbid people from saying what they think but you are allowed to speak your mind and have feelings about what they are saying.
I don’t need to have kids to contribute to society. I want to contribute to society by being a kind, genuine, person and by helping people and their animals.
Kids are not a required task.
If your mom thought like that, you wouldn't exist.
Glad to hear you say that because it seems to me that government subsidizes women on the premise that women deserve it because they bear children. But all means, be a man and pay taxes like a man.
@genericname85 my mom put me up for adoption bruh💀💀💀💀💀💀💀my dad didn’t want me either bruh
@genericname85 im not required to have kids.
Because we apparently only have value as sex objects and producers of offspring, as if it's our sole reason to exist and a guarantee of a happy life.
It's fucking nonsense.
Unless each woman averages about 2.1 children each, human population will shrink until we are extinct. it's simple mathematics and biology.
I think this is why baby madness is so hardwired into us.
I don’t care about human population 🤷🏼♀️ im gonna die one day anyway. Boo hoo!
We are overpopulated
Sometimes you don’t know how good something is unless you give it a try
Maybe those who have kids by now know how amazing it is to give birth to kids and raise them etc
I don’t have kids but I think maybe that’s why?
I would yeetus the fetus, thou shall be gone
You don’t know how bad something might be until you experience it💀💀💀
I would literally regret my child if I had one💀im being fr. I would see it as a burden and i would end up hating it. Better I don’t have them
Usually the bashers are religious or racist, wanting more humans like them to out-populate the brown people.
Their also prolife🤮
Yet they force little girls to go through rape pregnancies
I've never understood why some people vilify women who choose not to have kids. Having kids certainly is not for everyone.
Because they want to control someone else no problem. If someone don’t want kids. Who cares? If you want kids you don’t have to be with them
Their "biological clock", excuse for BECOMING a mother, then becomes invalid. Since, lots of girls now say they don't want a kid, doesn't then prove there's no such thing as a "biological clock"
It might just be me but I've never seen this bieng a thing. About as close as I have seen is people advising women to have children while they're young if they want them. Having children becomes more dangerous later in life and is difficult in your 30's and nearly impossible in your 40's. Not to mention the older you are to greater risks to your futur kid. But thats always be prefaced with the if you want them part.
Thats not bashing thats just sound medical advise.
My research on this site says the average woman does not want kids until she falls in love and many of them have to marry before they get baby fever. It's normal to not want kids. Most woman do not want kids until they fall in love.
She's not a villain if she merely fails to conceive. She is, if she goes out of her way to get pregnant, just to have an abortion as some rite of passage to gloat over. That, to me, is a villain.
No clue tbh
I don't really plan on having any nor can I even afford to have any at my age rn lmao.. but I don't know, that could change later in the future, just depends, I guess
Same reason why men are bashed for not wanting women nor kids.
That is completely fine if a man doesn’t want that. He should not be shamed for it
It’s strange to hate on other people for their lifestyle
Then it's completely fine when a woman doesn't want children and shouldn't be shamed for it. I think a better question would be why everyone is bashed for not wanting kids.
I literally get called heartless for saying I don’t like kids. I can’t help it🤷🏼♀️
*Hugs*
They aren't.
They are bashed for not having good enough reasons to engage and talk about kids or getting pissy to people talking about kids.
Seriously, these bitches be worse than vegans trying to talk you out of eating meat.
It reflects more on the person making the comments.
Women are not really vilified for not wanting children, but in the eyes of most men they are valued less as women, and are generally less desirable to men who want a family. Loving kids and wanting kids is a core component of what comprises femininity.
I see this as the male equivalent of women telling men "you need to be more expressive and share your emotions". No, we don't in most cases. When you say that you are just projecting your own personality and emotional needs onto men, who you clearly don't understand.
You're either wired to want a family or you're not. I simply ask and if its a NO its a NO. Its not something to mess with or compromise on. IMHO