People say I look mean or bitchy how can I change this?

[Anonymous]

okay so I've been told that I look stuck up, mean, bitchy and all is attributed to my apperance? don't want to sound self absorbed but I'm prettty attractive or so I've been told I'm also shy could this be the problem?

[Anonymous]

you just have to smile more and make more jokes. Maybe you need to say hi more and be more socialable. Try being interested in people and complimenting them when you honestly like something about them. When you make yourself approachable and you are liking others, they will approach you more and like you more. Plus if you have a smile on your face, more than likely someone will smile back at you too.

[Anonymous]

I'm told the same thing, and I'm also shy an attractive. Try smiling more, and watch your posture. body language plays a huge part in how people view you.

[Asker]

got it, thanks!

[pepper01]

smile a lot and talk to people. don't change who you are just improve yourself

[Asker]

okay ill do that (:

[Dareon]

Evaluate your clothing style, make-up and the way you contact with other people, and see if you need to change anything. But be honest to yourself, people may try to derail you, but they also may try to point out something, you can never know.

[sixstring]

There's a good chance you don't smile very often. Smile more, it'll make you seem much warmer and aproachable.

[Anonymous]

if you're pretty and shy people will automatically assume you're stuck up. this is due to their own insecurities they are projecting on you. they think that you are somehow rejecting them and think you are too good for their company.

[Anonymous]

you need to smile

[Asker]

okay I will ty