AITA for wanting my girlfriend to not make our apartment so feminine?

[acethekid22]

My girlfriend is into the plushies and kawaii style which is cool but she keeps making our place super girly. We have a canopy bed, she puts up a ton of dreamcatchers and moon and stars stuff on the walls and she just bought moon and stars lamps for the bedroom. I really don't like it but I don't know if its really my place to say how the decor of our house looks. It just seems like the whole place is geared towards her interests. Is it a red flag she never really considers my tastes?

[LazerBean]

It depends on if you voiced your opinion or not. If you voice that you'd like stuff geared towards how you want it decorated, and she ignores you, then she is wrong. However if you have not voiced that you dislike her decorations, or if you have voiced that you don't like them but yourself don't actually put any effort into decorating the way you want it to be, then you can't really complain much.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, she SHOULD be considering your thoughts on the matter, but have you ever expressed them? It's not exactly fair to expect to know your desires if you don't tell her. She may think you don't really care about the decor.

[Anonymous]

I assume you had to ask her out, hit her up