Hello, one month and a half ago I met a girl at a party and she fianlly asked me for my phone number before she leave. It wasn't until last week that she wrote me a message on Whatsapp, apologizing for not having written to me sooner. She also told me that we could meet for a drink or dinner some day. We met last Tuesday and everything went very well from my point of view. That day we found out she is 10 years older than me. We talked about our jobs, hobbies, she asked me things about politics, sex, my daily life, past relationships, family, friends... things that she also told me. I even noticed that she was looking for physical contact with me, such as rubbing, high-fiving or giving me 4 or 5 hugs that night (she said goodbye giving me a hug and a kiss on the cheek). In addition, she told me about possible plans that we could do together other day, such as cinema, visit new places or go to the theater. However, during the conversation she told me that she had an affair a couple of months ago with an old co-worker who she met by chance on the street. She didn't see him since 5 years ago. She told me that she didn't know what to do because even though she liked him a bit, she thinks the guy is a bit immature. Since that day, we only chatted last Wednesday and we have not chatted again. I didn't text her because I wanted to check her level of interest and if she serious about wanting to meet me or know more about me, and because I also do not want to bother her since she told me she was going to take vacations for a week to go to her home country. Do you think she's interested in me despite what she told me about the other guy and that we haven't chatted for a couple of days?
I don't know. She could be busy because of going back home or she doesn't see a reason to text you. I think if she was really invested though she'd at least try to keep contact in some way and it doesn't seem like she's doing that so
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Yes, as she is pitching you hard with vision and action. There’s a possibility that she needs physicality from you as well as dating time.
One of you is the toy and another is the Deal. What’s her job?
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Maybe but you're doing a good job she's giving all the signs, time for you to step up and take charge. Call her (don't text) and make a definitive date.
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This sounds like serious role reversal. Why are you being the girl and she is being the guy?
Women want comfort so she probably go for the older men for money and younger men for sex.
Why did you not ask her
No she doesn't like you
She seems to have other things on her mind.
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