Girls, is it easier for you to make friends with boys or other girls?

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[Minxxie]

Other girls because most guys just assume I'm flirting with them when I'm just trying to be friendly. Most of my bullies growing up were boys because they hated me for rejecting their advances or they hated me for standing up for other girls they bullied.

I've been friends with girls who wrote me love poems and admitted to having crushes on me for months, they tend to be a lot more understanding about rejection.

I do encounter girls who are jealous, but most of the time, I can charm them out of it by pretending I don't notice their little jabs and the bitter tone of their voices. I just continue to be stubbornly kind until they can't resist anymore. I figured this out when I was about 14 and it always works... unless sometimes it's a much older woman who is determined to hate me and she's my manager or something, then there isn't much I can do.

Right now I only have two guy friends and they are both very innocent types who don't watch porn which I think helps them see me and value me in a non-sexual way. They see me as a whole person and they love me like a sister. It's sad how rare that is but my female friends definitely make up for it, I would literally die for them.

[ShellyB]

You are 13 so that is a little diff. than what I experience now or in recent years since I am 25yo, but I don't think my answer changes much for when I was 13 vs today, and that is:

There are always guys who want to talk and hang out so it is easy to "be friends" at some level w guys but, as far as what I would call a true long lasting deep friendship that is easier w girls bc it is less likely there are any hidden agendas or misunderstandings.

[Sour-rose]

Yes. Got that aura that says I'm really trust worthy... aand like that i got girls telling me they gotta take a shit. Boys however... actually it doesn't go that way so easily. They try to poke me with questions to see if I wanna fuk them... and they leave disappointed when I tell them the truth

[Cynicaldreamer]

Guys. I've always been that way since I was a kid: I tend to befriend guys easier than girls.

Most (not all!) girls tend to be messy, gossip, have drama, talk you behind your back. I don't have time for that. I know, guys can be that way too; however, I'm speaking from my experience.

The few girl friends I used to have in my life? All did that... and it sucks opening up or trusting someone you think is your friend, only to realize they're not.

[doodledee]

Girls.

Boys usually thinking want to date first

[7Phoenix7]

At 13 I had more friends that were girls, because the boys were almost always flirting or being annoying. But now as an adult guys are way more easy to talk to and get along with.

[KrisPW]

I grew up as the only girl in the house, so I tend to feel more comfortable around guys. I find making friends with them easier to this day..

[Boredhereforfun]

Girls
It used to be easy to make guy friends back in middle school
As an adult, I think it's not as easy unless we are in group.

[DollAlone]

Usually i get along with everyone regardless of color, sex, religion age or any factor. But i do notice im more friends with guys than girls and guys become friends with me easier

[XXblack88]

From the age of 14 on up guys are usely easier to get along with. My experience with girls is that most of them want to be all up your personal business. There more drama and my emotions are usely higher when I'm around girls.

[watercolor_lions]

I make friends with guys easier.

Girls tend to scare me a little. I've been looking for some new girl friends. So if you're interested, hit me up!

[DancingQueen16]

Well in high school I had more guy friends than female friends but now that I'm in college it switched and there are more girls in my friend group

[DevikaButts95]

Used to be boys but nowadays its actually girls.

[peacesncream]

Get along with both if they don't have no issues then we good

[Mtbgirl]

I have no issues with either sexes.

[dustybiker]

Men. I relate a lot better.

[4ngelic]

about the same

[A_Bell]

Boys. You just need to go up to them and be nice.

[CoolCatMar1]

With girls of course

[AsaKyo]

Guys are easier to befriend

[collie22]

I don't have trouble with either.

[Anonymous]

Boys.