Have you ever rejected a woman when you finally saw her naked body for the first time? Girls, ever been rejected when he finally saw your body?

[OlderAndWiser]

Apparently, many girls have a deep fear of being rejected when a guy finally sees their naked body for the first time. Obvously, some are hotter than others, but I haven't ever had a partner who repulsed me when I saw her naked. Guys, have you rejected a girl when her clothes finally hit the floor and you saw her naked? Girls, ever had this happen to you?

I've never gotten naked with a partner

Yeah, I've rejected a girl/had a guy reject me when we finally got naked.

No, I've never rejected a girl/had a guy reject me when we finally got naked.

I'm a girl, I've had guys do a one-and-done, and I suspected that they just weren't that excited when they saw my body.

Something else that I'll explain in a comment

[Lliam]

No. I was never disappointed. In fact, most were even more beautiful than I had imagined before I saw them naked.

I've never been rejected, either.

In my early 20s, there was one girl who I went steady with for quite a while. She was my fourth girlfriend. But I started to see flashes of what her body would look like when she got older. I was pretty sure she was going to get fat and saggy. So, having realized that I couldn't see myself spending the rest of my life with her, I eventually broke up. I know that sounds shallow, but I was in my early 20s and, at the time I just saw her as another girlfriend, not a life partner. So I continued my search.

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, my man.

[OlderAndWiser]

My pleasure, Old Man!

[Lliam]

LOL .

[exitseven]

By the time it got that far into the relationship to have sex I was pre/y sure I would like her body.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Paul_in_Indy]

No, this has not happened. For one thing, I am discerning and a pick picky. So, I have assessed her early. But, regardless, when I see her naked I will always (always!) be Aggressively affirming. I make a policy of smiling, gasping, making eye contact when I tell her how beautiful she is, etc. She deserves to feel good about herself in a very vulnerable moment. I would not let myself do anything that might make her believe I am disappointed in her naked body—let alone making her feel rejected.

In addition to her deserving to feel secure and appreciated, I also deserve to get great sex from her because she is affirmed and (hopefully, relatively) relaxed. It’s a win-win.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No… I was 54 kg and was self-conscious about my body because my ex liked very slim girls.

I lost 6 kg, started working out and I feel much more confident.

It’s like I don’t dress to impress, I undress to impress hahaha

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh and if I get to the point where a man is naked in front of me, which is a very hard thing for them to achieve.

But, let’s say he made it!

I would want to make him feel like the God. Cause I feel like a Goddess.

Maybe not literally god and goddess haha, I mean that he must feel his best, because he is privileged enough to be next to me. Which is a privilege judging how extremely picky I am.

[SlothySlob]

If I may ask, how tall are you?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SlothySlob 5 ft 2, why?

[SlothySlob]

I found the weight of bellow 50kg very little, but it makes sense now.
Or at least I understood that in the past you were 54kg, then lost 6kg.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SlothySlob Yep. Because I am short - 54 is a bit more than the ideal weight of mine, my ex was 90 kg, but he was very athletic.

Now at 48 kg, I feel much more comfortable and confident in myself again.

[SlothySlob]

By BMI both weights are considered in the "normal" range. But being leaner is more sexually enticing, generally.
Would you say that your ex's words influenced you to become more athletic?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SlothySlob Nope. It’s going to be a bit long read… 😝 My ex never told me he didn’t like my weight. It’s just I knew he liked slimmer and taller girls and I was none of them.

When I met him I was 50 Kg, but he was very athletic and really attractive, so I lost 2-3 kg and we looked really good when we were together.

We lived together for 6 months and both of us were fit. During pandemic, his country - China got closed for the foreigners and we were in long distance, I couldn’t go to his country - China, while before that we lived together and had our whole future planned together, it affected my mood a lot, my home, my diploma, my clothes, my boyfriend - everything was back in China.

I was depressed, worked from home and gained about 5 kilograms. That’s thankfully my maximum.

China, on the other hand, kept normal life locked out from the whole world and nothing changed for him. He lived a life like before, but couldn’t leave his country.

My ex was very attractive and lots of girls were interested in him. However, he proposed me when I was 53 kg.

So when I finally got the news of coming back to China, I got motivated to lose weight. And started working out, I lost 2 kilograms, but we broke up before then. I didn’t meet him in China.

Our break up caused me a big stress and the loss of appetite. I lost 4 more kg in just 1 month and then when I started feeling better, got into a workout routine to maintain the weight and likely lose 1-2 kg more.

[SlothySlob]

This explains a lot of things. I'm guessing you're not from China? How did the two of you meet?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SlothySlob I am from Georgia, I met him when I was 22 and went to China for studying. We were together for a year before the pandemic started.

[SlothySlob]

I don't know why, but knowing that you're from Georgia I tried to imagine a woman your height with a cowboy hat and for some reason that's funny to me.
You don't need to answer, but are you single currently?
Also, what did you study?

[SlothySlob]

To be more precise, it was a 10 gallon hat. So yeah, even more comical.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SlothySlob I am from Georgia 🇬🇪 country 😝

You still picture me as a cowgirl?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And yes, I am single. My break up was just 5 months ago.

[SlothySlob]

Oh man, now the hat is gone...
Anyway, what did you study?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SlothySlob I studied Chinese.

[SlothySlob]

Holy shit woman, you're a riot. I really needed that laugh.
Can you give me any more details? Is it Chinese literature, or something more specific?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SlothySlob Chinese language haha

[Sixgunsound]

@lafemmefatale_1 I'm sure we could find a hat for you somewhere around here🤠

[Malwi93]

Lol thats me sll day

[Sixgunsound]

If we get to the point where we both want to do that and share our bodies with eachother, short of evidence of communicable diseases or other risks of harm to myself that weren't obvious while clothed I would not reject a woman for what her body looked like. Im also loving that my vote raised the percentage who identify with this choice to 69🤣

[Massageman]

I dated a gal who was SOOOO thin [ How thin WAS she?] . She was SO thin that if she drank a cherry soda and stood sideways, people thought she was a thermometer.

BUT, it felt like she could give you an appendectomy through your mouth with her tongue, so, you never know.

But more on point to the question, no.

[msc545]

Fortunately, I am pretty good at assessing bodily dimensions despite clothing, and I have never been in the situation you are suggesting, thank God. So far anyway. If I were to find myself in such a dilemma, I doubt I would have the heart to reject someone at that point.

[Jaylenn]

Never.. I have to enjoy what I got.. maybe when I am older, who knows.

[katiesmuff]

Never had anything like that happen and can't imagine that it has happened!

[Stressyalaire]

No, but I can imagine that must be devastating to your confidence.

[Avicenna]

No. She's naked, so you're about to have sex with her.

[betoxic4me]

Personally, not yet due to it not happening but I feel that it would for sure.

[OlderAndWiser]

I hope not!

[betoxic4me]

i hope not as well<3

[MarkyMark77]

@betoxic4me what makes u think this would happen? and i doubt it would

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I've never gotten naked with a partner

[Jamie05rhs]

If I am attracted to her face, there is absolutely Zero chance that I would not be attracted to her naked.

[poneglyphs]

Never had a girlfriend or seen someone naked before 🫠🫠🫠

[notwoke]

i dont reject but I do decide "not coming back". Admittedly at this age I have to have a more open mind... unfortunately

[Likes2drive]

I never did that to any woman, I’m usually pleasantly surprised

[gorydetails]

Nope. The little brain is in charge at that point, lol.

[LiamJHayden]

Saw, no. Smelled, yes. Sorry, but that's the truth.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I can’t imagine a girl I’m physically attracted to would secretly be ugly underneath. Unless you were like a burn victim or something.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Yes her boobs looked good in her bra but they were super saggy with it off and she had a ton of stretch marks

I only let stretch marks slide for women who have had kids but she was a 19 year old virgin ( Fucking gross)

[AmyHew1tt]

Stretch marks are normal for girls of all ages. Go learn about puberty and what it does to you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have a cousin she has D cups and she has got the stretch marks on breast even when she was 17, even without being overweight. That’s not something unusual and that’s not something to judge someone over.

If you dislike it, you can say so, but saying that is gross, is a bit too harsh and doesn’t make you sound that experienced.

I think almost all women with big breast is going to have stretch marks at some point.

[sunflower00]

I literally had stretch marks when I was 14 on my thighs and breasts from growing like a normal teenager 🤦🏼‍♀️ stretch marks are normal and breasts don’t defy gravity unfortunately

[PainusNdeeAnus]

@sunflower00 @lafemmefatale_1 @AmyHew1tt don’t care it’s fucking gross this is why I don’t date fatties it’s a total boner killer imagine what a guy would have to go through to see you naked only to find out you have stretch marks and lopsided boobs (yuck)👎 with all these hot young 18 year olds around I deserve better

[PainusNdeeAnus]

@sunflower00 not trolling stretch marks are unattractive.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

@AmyHew1tt stop talking to me since I’m trolling apparently

[KostasKouvalis]

Not naked, but I did when I saw her feet

[OlderAndWiser]

I'd lke to hear more!

[KostasKouvalis]

I bet you would